93623.5 Lesson 5. Gathering as a Church

I. UNDERSTANDING THE GATHERING

The gathering of believers as a church is vital for sustaining and expanding disciple-making movements. Church gatherings serve as spaces for mutual encouragement, biblical teaching, worship, prayer, and equipping for mission. Whether held in formal buildings, homes, or other settings, these gatherings are central to the spiritual growth and maturity of disciples (Hebrews 10:24-25).

  1. Biblical Foundations
  1. The Early Church Model: The early believers regularly gathered in homes and public spaces, demonstrating key practices such as teaching, fellowship, breaking bread, prayer, and generous sharing (Acts 2:42-47).
  2. Unity and Community: Scripture emphasizes unity within church gatherings. Unity in the Spirit strengthens the body of Christ, enabling believers to effectively witness to the surrounding community (Ephesians 4:2-6).
  3. Equipping and Sending: Church gatherings equip believers for ministry, providing teaching and practical training to prepare disciples for their mission in the world (Ephesians 4:11-13).

II. ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS OF GATHERING

  1. Biblical Teaching: Regularly teach Scripture clearly and practically, encouraging obedience and life transformation (2 Timothy 3:16-17).
  2. Worship: Engage in authentic, heartfelt worship that glorifies God, encourages participants, and deepens spiritual intimacy (Colossians 3:16).
  3. Prayer and Intercession: Prioritize communal prayer, including intercession for personal, community, and global needs (1 Timothy 2:1-4).
  4. Fellowship and Communion: Facilitate genuine community through fellowship, meals, and observing the Lord’s Supper regularly to remember Christ’s sacrifice (1 Corinthians 11:23-26).
  5. Mutual Encouragement: Encourage open sharing of testimonies, prayer requests, and spiritual insights, building up one another in faith (Hebrews 10:24-25).

III. PRACTICAL STEPS FOR EFFECTIVE GATHERINGS

  1. Inclusive Participation: Encourage participation from all members, fostering an environment where everyone contributes their gifts and insights (1 Corinthians 14:26).
  2. Flexible and Reproducible Structures: Use simple and flexible formats easily replicated across various cultural and community contexts, facilitating rapid multiplication (Acts 14:23).
  3. Accountability and Discipleship: Integrate regular accountability in gatherings, enabling members to support each other in spiritual growth and mission (Galatians 6:1-2).

IV. CULTIVATING HEALTHY CHURCH GATHERINGS

  1. Leadership Development: Continuously identify and equip emerging leaders, empowering them to lead and facilitate gatherings confidently (2 Timothy 2:2).
  2. Missional Focus: Maintain a clear outward focus, regularly reminding and equipping disciples for evangelism, disciple-making, and community transformation (Matthew 28:19-20).
  3. Culturally Relevant Expression: Adapt expressions of worship, teaching styles, and community interactions to resonate with local cultural contexts while upholding biblical principles (1 Corinthians 9:19-23).

V. OVERCOMING CHALLENGES IN CHURCH GATHERINGS

  1. Addressing Conflict: Teach and model biblical conflict resolution, helping disciples address disagreements humbly and effectively, preserving unity (Matthew 18:15-17).
  2. Preventing Passivity: Proactively engage every member, encouraging active participation and shared responsibility, preventing passive spectatorship (Romans 12:4-8).
  3. Ensuring Sustainability: Regularly evaluate and adjust gatherings to ensure sustainability, reproducibility, and continued relevance to evolving community needs (Acts 15:36).

VI. CASE EXAMPLE

In Vietnam, Christians are often harassed or persecuted for their faith in Jesus. Gathering together can frequently become problematic. However, the meeting for worship, prayer, study, and outreach is a Biblical precedent. To obey Scripture, believers often must become creative and look for ways to avoid being conspicuous. One group of believers was able to secure permission at the factory where they were employed to meet in a boardroom. Their meetings took place once or twice a week, lasting one hour during their lunch break. Under the guise of a “book study club,” the group of believers was able to worship the Lord, study His word, and encourage one another. Over time, this small church began to have a strong and positive impact on other factory workers, and over time began adding to their “congregation.”

VII. CONCLUSION

Gathering as a church is vital for sustaining, equipping, and multiplying disciples. Healthy gatherings reflect biblical principles, encourage active participation, foster spiritual maturity, and keep a clear missional focus. Such gatherings effectively catalyze robust, sustainable disciple-making movements that glorify God and transform communities (Matthew 16:18).

93623.8 Lesson 8. Prayer

I. INTRODUCTION: THE CENTRALITY OF PRAYER

  1. Why Prayer is Foundational:
  1. Prayer is the lifeblood of every disciple. It connects us to God, aligns us with His will, empowers our ministry, and opens the doors for transformation in the lives of others. Throughout Scripture, prayer is shown as the key to intimacy with God, the fuel for mission, and the power behind every spiritual breakthrough.
  2. Jesus Modeled a Life of Prayer: Jesus, our greatest example of disciple-making, prioritized prayer. He spent time in prayer before major decisions (Luke 6:12), after intense ministry (Mark 1:35), and during pivotal moments in His life (Matthew 26:36-44). Jesus taught His disciples to pray (Luke 11:1-4) and expected prayer to be the foundation of their lives and ministries.

II. THE POWER OF PRAYER IN DISCIPLE-MAKING MOVEMENTS

  1. Prayer Precedes Breakthrough: In DMM, prayer is often the first step in entering new areas, seeking divine guidance, and preparing hearts to receive the Gospel. Movements that grow rapidly and multiply are always rooted in a culture of deep, sustained prayer.
  2. Partnering with God in His Mission: Prayer aligns our hearts with God’s mission. As we pray, we partner with Him to bring His Kingdom to earth. Prayer is not just about asking for things; it is about listening, discerning God’s will, and acting in obedience to what He reveals.

III. THE BIBLICAL FOUNDATIONS OF PRAYER

  1. Jesus’ Teaching on Prayer:
  1. The Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13): Jesus gave His disciples a model for prayer that touches on key areas: honoring God, seeking His will, asking for provision, confessing sins, and seeking protection from evil. This prayer guides believers in approaching God with both reverence and dependence.
  2. Persistent Prayer (Luke 18:1-8): Jesus taught the parable of the persistent widow to encourage His disciples to pray continually and not lose heart. Persistent prayer is essential in DMMs, where we often need to intercede for long periods before seeing breakthroughs in people’s lives or communities.
  1. The Apostles and Prayer:
  1. The Early Church’s Prayer Life: The early church was deeply committed to prayer. In Acts 2:42, it says they devoted themselves “to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.” Prayer was at the center of the church’s life, and it fueled their growth and mission.
  2. Praying for Boldness (Acts 4:23-31): When the early church faced opposition, they didn’t pray for safety; they prayed for boldness. In response, God shook the place where they were praying and filled them with the Holy Spirit. This empowered them to speak the word of God boldly. Boldness in prayer leads to boldness in mission.
  1. Paul’s Teachings on Prayer:
  1. Pray Without Ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17): Paul instructs believers to “pray without ceasing,” emphasizing that prayer is not a one-time event but a continual, ongoing conversation with God.
  2. Intercessory Prayer (Colossians 4:2-4): Paul urges believers to be devoted to prayer, to stay watchful, and to pray for open doors for the Gospel. Intercessory prayer for others—whether for individuals or for entire communities—is a powerful way to partner with God’s mission.

IV. TYPES OF PRAYER IN DISCIPLE’S LIFE

  1. Adoration and Worship
  1. Focusing on Who God Is: Before anything else, prayer should begin with adoration—acknowledging who God is and worshiping Him for His greatness, faithfulness, and love. This aligns our hearts with Him and reminds us of His sovereignty over our lives and mission.
  2. Practical Application: Start every prayer session by spending time in worship, whether through song, Scripture, or spoken words of praise. This sets the right tone and focuses the group on God’s power and goodness.
  1. Listening Prayer
  1. Hearing God’s Voice: Listening prayer is an important practice where we not only speak to God but also listen for His voice. This is key in discerning His will for our ministry, receiving direction for our personal lives, and hearing His heart for those we are discipling.
  2. Practical Application: After praying or reading Scripture, pause in silence and ask God to speak. Encourage group members to share any impressions, scriptures, or words they feel God is placing on their hearts. This can also be a powerful way to discern God’s guidance in outreach or evangelism efforts.
  1. Intercessory Prayer
  1. Standing in the Gap: Intercessory prayer involves praying on behalf of others—whether it’s for individuals, families, or entire communities. In DMMs, intercession is often focused on praying for the lost, asking God to soften hearts and prepare the way for the Gospel.
  2. Practical Application: Make a list of people or groups you are reaching out to or planning to engage with. Regularly intercede for these individuals and communities, asking God to open doors for the Gospel, bring conviction of sin, and reveal His love to them.
  1. Prayers of Repentance
  1. Confession and Cleansing: Repentance is a key aspect of prayer that aligns us with God’s holiness. Confession of sin removes the barriers that prevent us from experiencing intimacy with God and effectiveness in ministry.
  2. Practical Application: Encourage regular times of personal and group repentance. This could be part of the “Look Back” section of a 3/3 Group meeting or a time of reflection during prayer walks. Confess personal and corporate sins, asking for forgiveness and renewal.
  1. Spiritual Warfare Prayer
  1. Engaging in Battle: In disciple-making movements, there will often be spiritual opposition as the enemy seeks to prevent the advancement of God’s Kingdom. Spiritual warfare prayer is about taking authority over demonic forces, praying for protection, and standing firm in Christ’s victory.
  2. Practical Application: When entering new areas for ministry, engage in spiritual warfare prayer, asking God to bind the forces of darkness and release people from spiritual blindness. Pray for protection for team members and those you are discipling.
  1. Prayers for Boldness and Open Doors
  1. Praying for Courage: Just as the early disciples prayed for boldness, we too must ask God for courage to share the Gospel, even in difficult or hostile environments. Boldness in prayer leads to boldness in evangelism.
  2. Praying for Open Doors: Ask God to open doors for ministry and prepare the hearts of those you will encounter.
  3. Practical Application: At the end of each group meeting, ask participants to pray specifically for open doors to share their testimony or the Gospel with others during the week.

V. EQUIPPING DISCIPLES WITH THE LORD’S PRAYER

  1. The Lord’s Prayer Frame
  1. The Prayer Frame uses the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13) as a model for structuring prayer. This frame helps maintain a full prayer life, ensuring that different aspects of our relationship with God are addressed.
  2. Why Use a Framework?: The goal is to have a holistic approach to prayer, incorporating worship, intercession, confession, and surrender.
  1. The Six Elements of the Prayer Frame

  1. Palm = Relationship: As the palm is the foundation for our fingers and thumb, time alone with God is the foundation for our personal relationship with Him. (Matthew 6:6) We acknowledge that relationship –“Our Father in heaven. . . ” (Matthew 6:9)
  2. Thumb = Worship: Our thumb reminds us that we must worship God before we ask for anything – “. . . hallowed be Your name.” (Matthew 6:9)
  3. First Finger = Surrender: Next we surrender our lives, plans, family, finances, work, future – everything — “Your kingdom come, Your will be done. . . ” (Matthew 6:10)
  4. Middle Finger = Ask: Then we ask God to meet our needs, small and large –“Give us this day our daily bread.” (Matthew 6:11)
  5. Fourth Finger = Forgive: Now we ask God to forgive our sins, and we must forgive others – “Forgive us as we forgive others.” (Matthew 6:12)
  6. Little Finger = Protection: We seek protection. “Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.”(Mattew 6:13) Pray for strength to overcome temptation.
  7. Returning to Worship (Thumb Again): As reflected in the Psalms, we end just as we began – we worship Almighty God – “ Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen” (Matthew 6:13).
  1. Practical Implementation of the Lord’s Prayer
  1. Daily Practice: Encourage participants to set aside 15 minutes each day to pray through each part of the framework.
  2. Small Group Practice: During meetings, take turns leading different parts of the frame, allowing each member to practice and grow in praying out loud.

VI. THE PRAYER CYCLE

  1. This is a guided pattern for spending an hour in prayer. It is helpful to enable people to understand various aspects of prayer and to increase their capacity for prayer. The intention is to spend five minutes on each segment.
  1. Praise: Start your prayer hour by praising the Lord. Praise Him for things that are on your mind right now. Praise Him for one special thing He has done in your life in the past week. Praise Him for His goodness to your family.
  2. Wait: Spend this time waiting on the Lord. Be silent and let Him pull together reflections for you.
  3. Confess: Ask the Holy Spirit to show you anything in your life that might be displeasing to Him. Ask Him to point out attitudes that are wrong, as well as specific acts for which you have not yet made a prayer of confession. Now confess that to the Lord so that you might be cleansed.
  4. Read the Word: Spend time reading in the Psalms, in the prophets, and passages on prayer located in the New Testament.
  5. Ask: Make general requests on behalf of yourself and others.
  6. Intercession: Make specific requests on behalf of yourself and others.
  7. Pray the Word: Pray specific passages. Scriptural prayers as well as a number of psalms lend themselves well to this purpose.
  8. Thank: Give thanks to the Lord for the things in your life, on behalf of your family, and on behalf of your church.
  9. Sing: Sing songs of praise or worship or a hymn or spiritual song.
  10. Meditate: Ask the Lord to speak to you. Have a pen and paper ready to record the impressions He gives you.
  11. Listen: Spend time merging the things you have read, things you have prayed and things you have sung and see how the Lord brings them all together to speak to you.
  12. Praise: Praise the Lord for the time you have had to spend with Him and the impressions He has given you. Praise Him for His glorious attributes.
  1. Exercises for the Prayer Cycle
  1. Journaling: Keep a journal where you write down thoughts and reflections during each part of the cycle. This helps track growth and recognize answered prayers.
  2. Prayer Partners: Pair members to meet once a week to practice praying through the cycle together. This helps build confidence in prayer.
  3. PRACTICE: Spend an hour praying through the Prayer Cycle.

93623.9 Lesson 9. Worship Life of the Disciple

I. INTRODUCTION

  1. Worship as the Posture of a Disciple
  1. Worship is far more than music or a segment of a church service—it is the lifestyle, attitude, and identity of every true disciple of Jesus. Worship is our response to who God is and what He has done, expressed through love, obedience, and awe.
  1. Key Scripture:
  1. “Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters… to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.” —Romans 12:1
  2. As disciples who are called to know Christ and make Him known, our worship must go beyond Sunday and into everyday life. Worship fuels intimacy with God, aligns our hearts with His will, and overflows into fruitful mission.

II. BIBLICAL FOUNDATIONS OF WORSHIP

  1. Worship is a Lifestyle
  1. Worship in Scripture is not limited to rituals or music. It is seen in obedience (Genesis 22:5), sacrifice (Romans 12:1), gratitude (Psalm 100), and justice (Amos 5:23-24).
  2. True worship involves loving God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength (Mark 12:30).
  1. Jesus Modeled Worship
  1. Jesus often withdrew to solitary places to worship the Father in prayer and intimacy (Luke 5:16).
  2. In the wilderness (Matthew 4), Jesus responded to Satan’s temptation with worshipful loyalty to God: “You shall worship the Lord your God and Him only shall you serve.”
  1. The Disciple’s Daily Worship Life
  1. Worship is both intentional and spontaneous. It can be practiced individually and corporately, in joy and in sorrow, in words and in silence. For example, a disciple may choose to set aside time in the morning to sing praises or read a Psalm as a form of intentional worship. Later, during a moment of awe at a sunset or in response to an answered prayer, spontaneous worship may arise in the form of thanksgiving or a whispered prayer of praise.

III. DAILY RHYTHMS OF WORSHIP

  1. Morning Devotion: Begin the day with adoration—read a Psalm, sing or journal your praise.
  2. Gratitude Moments: Pause throughout your day to give thanks—after meals, during walks, after meetings.
  3. Evening Reflection: End the day in worshipful surrender—reflect, confess, and express love to the Lord.

IV. PRACTICAL WAYS TO LIVE A WORSHIP LIFE

  1. Scripture Reading: Read to encounter God. Ask, “What does this reveal about God’s nature?”
  2. Worship Music: Use songs that exalt God. Let music lead you into reflection or celebration.
  3. Prayer and Fasting: Fast as an act of surrender. Focus on God’s voice during fasts.
  4. Work as Worship: View your labor as unto the Lord (Colossians 3:23).

V. WORSHIP AND IDENTITY

“God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” — John 4:24

  1. Identity Before Activity Many leaders operate out of drivenness. But true worship flows from identity, not productivity.
    1. You are a worshiper before you are a worker. You are a son or daughter before you are a leader.
  2. The Worshipping Leader
  3. Leaders must model worship, not just teach it. As Worship Life of the Leader notes, worship grounds leaders in humility and dependence.
  4. Daily worship aligns your will with the Father’s and renews your spirit for healthy leadership and multiplication.

VI. WORSHIP AS WARFARE

Worship is a powerful weapon against spiritual darkness. This is because worship centers our hearts on God’s truth and authority, dethroning the lies of the enemy and ushering in the presence of God, where darkness cannot remain. When we exalt God, we displace fear, anxiety, and lies from the enemy.

  1. Examples in Scripture:
  1. Jehoshaphat’s Army (2 Chronicles 20): Worshipers were placed at the front. As they praised, God routed the enemy.
  2. Paul and Silas in Prison (Acts 16:25-26): Worship broke chains and opened doors—literally.
  1. How to Use Worship as Warfare
  1. Declare God’s character aloud when under attack.
  2. Play worship music over your home during times of tension.
  3. Replace complaining or worrying with praise.

VII. WORSHIP AND MULTIPLICATION

Worship is not just personal—it’s contagious. When a disciple lives a life of joyful, authentic worship, it attracts others to Jesus.

  1. Worship as Witness
  1. A worshipful heart displays peace in chaos, joy in suffering, and love in difficult places.
  2. Train your disciples to develop their own worship rhythms.
  1. Worship in the Disciple-Making Environment
  1. Open every training or group with worship.
  2. Encourage new believers to write their own songs or prayers.
  3. Practice spontaneous worship in gatherings.
  1. Questions for Personal Reflection and Practice
  1. Is my worship life limited to Sundays or is it a daily rhythm?
  2. Do I view my work, parenting, and relationships as acts of worship?
  3. When under spiritual pressure, do I worship or worry?
  4. How can I lead others into deeper intimacy with God through worship?

VIII. CONCLUSION: WORSHIPERS WHO MULTIPLY

Discipleship that does not flow from worship will eventually dry up or become mechanical. Worship is the wellspring—it refreshes, realigns, and revives us. As you grow in your disciple-making calling, let worship be your anchor and your overflow. Worship and mission are not two separate callings—they are one. You are a worshiper who multiplies.

93623.6 Lesson 6. Freedom Ministry

I. INTRODUCTION: WHAT IS FREEDOM MINISTRY?

  1. Definition: Freedom Ministry is the process of helping individuals break free from spiritual, emotional, and psychological bondage that prevents them from experiencing the fullness of life in Christ. It involves identifying strongholds, lies, and areas of captivity that need to be surrendered to God, receiving healing, and walking in the authority Jesus gives us over sin and spiritual oppression.
  2. Jesus’ Mission of Freedom: In Luke 4:18, Jesus declared His mission: “The Spirit of the Lord is on me… He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free.” Freedom is at the heart of the Gospel—Jesus came to liberate us from sin, oppression, and bondage.
  3. Wholeness in Christ: Freedom Ministry addresses every aspect of a person’s life—spiritual, emotional, mental, and relational—helping them experience the wholeness Jesus offers. John 10:10 tells us that Jesus came so that we may have life to the full.
  4. Equipping Disciples for Growth: Before someone can fully step into their calling as a disciple-maker, they need to experience personal freedom. Sin, wounds, and lies hold people back from becoming the disciples God intended them to be.
  5. Restoring Identity: One of the primary purposes of Freedom Ministry is helping individuals understand their identity in Christ. When people are trapped in bondage, they often believe lies about themselves, others, and God. Freedom Ministry seeks to replace these lies with the truth of God’s Word.

II. FIVE OPEN DOORS FOR THE DEMONIC

  1. Unforgiveness: (Ephesians 4:32) Holding onto wrongs that someone did against you. Unwilling or unable to forgive. Making no allowance for error or weakness. It’s like drinking poison and thinking it will harm another person. Jesus teaches that we must forgive to be forgiven (Matthew 6:14-15).
  2. Sins of the Fathers: (Exodus 34:7) Sins committed by previous generations can carry over until broken through confession and renunciation. This includes patterns like addiction, anger, divorce, or idolatry.
  3. Word Curses: (James 3:1-10) Words spoken with some form of spiritual authority. Negative declarations can bind a person spiritually and manifest in the physical. Example: Saying, “I’ll never be good enough” invites defeat.
  4. Root Spirits: Scripture identifies specific spirits that seek to influence. When given a foothold, they seek to fill the Holy Spirit’s place and produce bad fruit, infecting others.
  • Spirit of Anti-Christ (1 John 4:3)
  • Spirit of Death (1 Cor. 15:26)
  • Spirit of Error (1 John 4:6)
  • Spirit of Divination (Acts 16:16)
  • Spirit of Lying (1 Kings 22:22)
  • Spirit of Haughtiness (Proverbs 16:18)
  • Spirit of Bondage (Rom. 8:15)
  • Spirit of Stupor (Rom. 11:8)
  • Spirit of Whoredom (Hosea 4:12)
  • Spirit of Heaviness (Is. 61:3)
  • Spirit of Deaf & Dumbness (Mark 9:25)
  • Spirit of Infirmity (Luke 13:11)
  • Spirit of Perversity (Rom. 1:26)
  • Spirit of Fear (2 Tim. 1:7)
  • Spirit of Jealousy/Rage (Numbers 5:14)
  1. Soul Spirit Hurts: Emotional pain or trauma that is left unresolved provides the enemy with access to influence the wounded areas of one’s life.

III. UNHEALTHY SOUL TIES

Soul ties refer to deep emotional or spiritual connections formed through close relationships, particularly romantic or sexual ones. These bonds, if unhealthy or improper, can hinder a person’s emotional and spiritual freedom. It is crucial to break these unhealthy ties to walk in true freedom.

  1. Healthy Soul Ties in the Bible:
  1. David and Jonathan (1 Samuel 18:1-3)
  2. Ruth and Naomi (Ruth 1:16-17)
  3. Jesus and His Disciples (John 15:15)
  4. Paul and Timothy (2 Timothy 1:2-5)
  1. Unhealthy Soul Ties in the Bible:
  1. Samson and Delilah (Judges 16:4-21)
  2. Amnon and Tamar (2 Samuel 13:1-15)
  3. Solomon and His Foreign Wives (1 Kings 11:1-4)
  4. Ahab and Jezebel (1 Kings 16:30-33)
  1. Biblical Marriage Soul Tie Context:
    In Genesis 2:21-24, the phrase “they shall become one flesh” describes the sacred covenant between a man and a woman in the sight of God. Marriage is meant to be a blessing, symbolizing unity. However, many have entered this covenant with multiple people or have formed ties with idols, as seen in Genesis 16:1-4. These unhealthy attachments must be addressed.

IV. EXERCISE: BREAKING UNHEALTHY SOUL TIES

  1. Group Separation: Divide participants into male and female groups.
  2. Personal Reflection: Have participants write down the names of those with whom they’ve formed inappropriate or unhealthy connections.
  3. Prayer for Healing: Lead a prayer to break these soul ties, asking God for healing and restoration.
  4. Marital Repentance: Bring married couples together for a time of repentance and forgiveness.
  5. Symbolic Release: Allow participants to burn their lists as a symbolic act of declaring freedom from these bonds.
  6. Renewal: Instruct them to take communion as a remembrance and renewal of their covenant with God.
  7. Marital Renewal: Instruct participants as they return home to take communion again, committing their marriage to God. Then, they should re-establish their covenant with each other.

93623.7 Lesson 7. Bible Study Methods

I. HOW TO APPROACH THE BIBLE

  1. The Bible is Inspired by God
  1. Definition of Inspiration: The Bible is not just a collection of human writings; it is inspired by God. In 2 Timothy 3:16, Paul writes that all Scripture is “God-breathed.” This means that God guided the authors through the Holy Spirit to write His words for us.
  2. Authority of Scripture: Because the Bible is God-breathed, it carries His authority. When we read Scripture, we are not just reading words of ancient wisdom—we are reading God’s direct communication to humanity.
  3. Impact of Scripture: God’s Word is living and active (Hebrews 4:12). It not only teaches and informs but also transforms our hearts and minds.

II. THE TIMELESSNESS OF THE BIBLE

  1. Relevant Across Generations: The Bible was written over a span of 1,500 years, by over 40 different authors, in different cultural and historical contexts. Despite this diversity, it presents a unified message that transcends time and culture. Its teachings are applicable to every person in every era.
  2. Scripture as a Mirror: James 1:23-25 describes Scripture as a mirror that shows us our true selves. As we read it, we see areas of our lives that need transformation, and we receive the power to change through God’s help.
  3. Timeless Promises: Many of God’s promises in the Bible apply to us today. When we approach the Bible, we can hold onto these promises, knowing that God’s Word never fails (Isaiah 40:8).

III. PERSONAL CONNECTION WITH GOD THROUGH SCRIPTURE

  1. God’s Letter to Us: The Bible is more than just a book of laws or moral guidelines—it is God’s personal letter to us. It reveals His love, His character, and His desire for a relationship with each of us.
  2. Hearing God Speak: In John 10:27, Jesus says, “My sheep hear my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” One of the primary ways we hear God’s voice is through the Bible. As we read His Word, we learn to recognize His voice and follow His leading.
  3. Knowing God’s Heart: Each book of the Bible reveals different aspects of God’s character. In the Psalms, we see His compassion and care. In the Gospels, we see His humility and love through Jesus. In Revelation, we see His power and majesty. To truly know God, we must immerse ourselves in His Word.

IV. STEPS FOR STUDYING THE BIBLE (INDUCTIVE METHOD)

  1. Step 1: Pray for Guidance
  1. Begin by acknowledging that the Holy Spirit is the author of Scripture, and ask Him to teach and guide you.
  2. Before opening your Bible, ask God to help you understand what you’re about to read. Pray for insight, clarity, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. In John 16:13, Jesus says that the Holy Spirit will guide us into all truth.
  1. Step 2: Observation
  1. Read: You study the scriptures as a diligent student (2 Timothy 2:15). As you study, you read thoughtfully and meditatively (Psalm 1:2). This is where you: Think it over, think it out, think it through, and write it out.
  2. Ask: “What does the passage say?” Look for key phrases, repetition, characters, settings, and relationships. Look for the who, what, when, where, how, and why of the passage.
  3. Exercise: Take a short passage, like John 15:1-8. Identify repeated words such as “abide,” “fruit,” and “vine.”
  1. Step 3: Interpretation
  1. Ask: “What does this mean?” Consider the historical and cultural context. For instance, what was the significance of a vine in Jesus’ time?
  2. Tools for Interpretation: You may not have access to a study Bible, commentaries, or Bible dictionaries. Remember these truths and consult trusted sources and mentors if you’re wrestling with an interpretation. (Psalm 119:33-40, 2 Timothy 3:16-17)
  1. Read the text and lift out the truths that are there.
  2. Do not bring ideas, thoughts, or opinions and put them into the text.
  3. The law of context rules – Always read what comes before and after.
  4. Scripture interprets Scripture. Read the Bible over and over, and you will find that Scripture itself gives the meaning of a text. Seek the full counsel of the word of God.
  5. Scripture will not contradict scripture.
  6. Interpret scripture literally. It usually means what it says so look for the clear meaning.
  1. Step 4: Application

  1. Ask: “How does this apply to me?” Write down specific actions, attitudes, or changes that need to be implemented.
  2. Exercise: From John 15, write down how you can “abide in Christ” in your daily life—such as setting aside time for prayer, obeying His commands, and practicing gratitude.
  1. Twelve Application Questions about the text: 2 Tim 3:16-17
  1. Is there an attitude to adjust?
  2. Is there a promise to claim?
  3. Is there a priority to change?
  4. Is there a lesson to learn?
  5. Is there an issue to resolve?
  6. Is there a command to obey?
  7. Is there an activity to avoid?
  8. Is there a truth to believe?
  9. Is there an idol to tear down?
  10. Is there an offense to forgive?
  11. Is there a new direction to take?
  12. Is there a sin to confess?

V. GROUP STUDY PRACTICE

  1. Group Activity: Form groups of 3-4, choose a passage (e.g., Luke 10:25-37, the Parable of the Good Samaritan), and go through observation, interpretation, and application together.
  2. Facilitator’s Role: The facilitator should ensure everyone contributes to the discussion, helping participants see how the Word applies to their lives.

93623.3 Lesson 3. Call to Repentance, Belief, and Baptism

I. UNDERSTANDING REPENTANCE

  1. Repentance involves turning from sin and turning toward God, a complete change in direction—heart, mind, and action.
  2. Definition and Necessity: Repentance is foundational to receiving forgiveness and experiencing new life in Christ. Jesus proclaimed, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand” (Matthew 4:17, ESV). It’s not merely feeling regret but actively forsaking sin and pursuing righteousness.
  3. Practical Expression: True repentance involves acknowledging sin, experiencing genuine sorrow over offending God, confessing specific sins to Him, and actively turning away from wrongdoing (2 Corinthians 7:10-11). Zacchaeus demonstrates true repentance by immediately righting his wrongs (Luke 19:8-9).
  4. Ongoing Practice: Repentance isn’t a one-time event but a continual posture of humility and surrender before God (1 John 1:9).

II. BELIEF: TRUSTING IN CHRIST

  1. Belief, or faith, is more than intellectual agreement—it’s an active and personal trust in Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord.
  2. Nature of Saving Faith: Saving faith believes wholeheartedly in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ as the exclusive means of salvation. Paul emphasizes, “because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved” (Romans 10:9, ESV).
  3. Faith as Relationship: Belief involves a continuous trust and daily dependence on Jesus. It transforms every area of life as believers grow in obedience and reliance on Him, empowered by the Holy Spirit (Galatians 2:20, John 15:4-5).
  4. Faith Tested and Proven: True belief endures trials, affirming genuine trust in God’s promises and character (1 Peter 1:6-7).

III. BAPTISM: PUBLIC DECLARATION OF FAITH

  1. Baptism is a visible, public affirmation of repentance and belief, symbolizing a believer’s union with Christ in His death, burial, and resurrection.
  2. Biblical Command: Baptism is commanded explicitly by Jesus in the Great Commission, making it integral to disciple-making: “Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit” (Matthew 28:19, ESV).
  3. Symbolic Significance: Baptism symbolizes dying to an old life of sin and rising to new life in Christ. “We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead… we too might walk in newness of life” (Romans 6:4, ESV).
  4. Community Witness and Accountability: Baptism serves as a testimony to the believing community and creates accountability for the baptized believer, reinforcing commitment and mutual encouragement (Hebrews 10:24-25).

IV. PRACTICAL STEPS FOR CALLING PEOPLE TO REPENTANCE, BELIEF, AND BAPTISM

  1. Clear Gospel Presentation: Clearly articulate the Gospel message, emphasizing the holiness of God, human sinfulness, the need for repentance, Christ’s redemptive work, and the necessity of personal trust in Him.
  2. Invitation and Response: Offer clear, direct opportunities for individuals to respond publicly and immediately through repentance, confession of belief, and baptism.
  3. Discipleship Follow-Up: Ensure immediate and ongoing discipleship to nurture new believers, helping them grow in understanding, obedience, and maturity in Christ.

V. CASE EXAMPLE

In a rural village in China, many men and women had been touched by the good news of salvation. Through grace and forgiveness, they left their old pagan beliefs and works-based religion to receive Jesus and enthrone Him as Lord of their lives. Although their salvation was secure, these precious believers desired to follow the Lord in water baptism. Fearing for their safety, they waited for an opportunity to present itself. Soon after, an evangelistic church planting team from a nearby city made a memorable trip to visit these men, women, and children. The team rented a hotel room with a large bathtub and then baptized each new believer one by one by immersing them in the tub. Each one came out of the water with a smile that was bright and evident of the Lord’s joy and new life. Today, these believers have grown and matured and are now reaching hundreds of other villages with the same Gospel message. They, too, are following the creative opportunities to baptize new believers as often as possible.

VI. CONCLUSION

Calling people to repentance, belief, and baptism is central to effective disciple-making. This comprehensive and clear approach aligns closely with biblical commands and patterns, fostering genuine transformation, strong public confessions, and robust disciplemaking movements (Acts 2:41-47).

93622.2 Lesson 2. Spiritual Warfare

I. UNDERSTANDING SPIRITUAL WARFARE

  1. Definition: Spiritual warfare is the battle between the Kingdom of God and the forces of darkness. As followers of Christ, we are engaged in this battle.
  2. Biblical Foundation: Paul writes, “Our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world” Ephesians 6:12. Understanding our spiritual enemies helps us fight effectively.

II. THE ARMOR OF GOD (EPHESIANS 6:10-20)

  1. Belt of Truth: The belt holds the armor together. Knowing God’s truth anchors us against the lies of the enemy.
  2. Exercise: Identify lies you have believed about yourself or God. Find scriptures that speak the truth and memorize them.
  3. Breastplate of Righteousness: Righteousness guards our hearts. Living in alignment with God’s standards protects us from the enemy’s accusations.
  4. Exercise: Write down areas where you need God’s righteousness to shine—relationships, habits, thoughts.
  5. Shoes of the Gospel of Peace: Be ready to share the Gospel wherever you go, bringing God’s peace to others.
  6. Exercise: Pray each morning for opportunities to share God’s love and peace.
  7. Shield of Faith: Faith blocks the enemy’s attacks—doubt, fear, discouragement.
  8. Exercise: Write down past victories and answered prayers to remind yourself of God’s faithfulness. Use these as shields against the enemy’s lies.
  9. Helmet of Salvation: Our salvation protects our minds. It reminds us that we belong to God and nothing can separate us from His love.
  10. Exercise: Daily declare your identity in Christ, “I am saved, I am loved, I belong to God.”
  11. Sword of the Spirit (Word of God): The Word is our offensive weapon against the enemy’s lies and temptations.
  12. Exercise: Memorize and declare Scripture aloud during times of temptation or fear.
  13. Prayer in the spirit: Pray continually, staying alert. Prayer keeps us connected to our Commander, and it’s essential for every part of the battle.
  14. Prayers of the Saints: Make your requests known to others for group intercession and prayers that enable more.

III. OVERCOME THE ENEMY AND WIN

  1. OVERCOME THE ENEMY BY THE BLOOD OF THE LAMB AND THE WORD OF OUR TESTIMONY
  1. THE BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST IS THE FOUNDATION OF OUR VICTORY OVER THE ENEMY (REVELATION 12:11).
  1. IT REPRESENTS JESUS’ ULTIMATE SACRIFICE, WHICH PAID FOR OUR SINS, DEFEATED THE POWER OF DEATH, AND DISARMED SATAN (COLOSSIANS 2:15).
  2. BY RELYING ON JESUS’ FINISHED WORK ON THE CROSS, WE HAVE AUTHORITY OVER THE DEVIL’S ACCUSATIONS, DECEPTIONS, AND ATTACKS. ALONG WITH THE BLOOD OF THE LAMB, OUR TESTIMONY—DECLARING WHAT CHRIST HAS DONE IN OUR LIVES—STRENGTHENS OUR FAITH AND ENCOURAGES OTHERS.
  3. SHARING OUR STORIES OF TRANSFORMATION AND GOD’S FAITHFULNESS NOT ONLY OVERCOMES THE ENEMY’S LIES BUT ALSO SHINES LIGHT IN THE DARKNESS, ADVANCING GOD’S KINGDOM AND REMINDING US OF HIS CONTINUED VICTORIES IN OUR LIVES.

  1. BY POSITION OF AUTHORITY IN CHRIST (COLOSSIANS 2:13-15; LUKE 10:17; MATTHEW 28:18)
  1. As believers, we are seated with Christ in heavenly places (Ephesians 2:6), meaning that we share in His authority over all powers and principalities (Ephesians 1:20-21).
  1. Jesus has defeated the enemy and given believers authority to tread on “serpents and scorpions,” representing demonic forces (Luke 10:19).
  2. This position of authority allows us to confront the enemy confidently, knowing that Jesus’ power is greater than any attack we may face.
  3. Understanding this spiritual position transforms how we pray, resist the enemy, and approach spiritual warfare. It is not by our strength but through Christ’s authority that we win spiritual battles.

  1. BY THE SHIELD OF FAITH AND THE SWORD OF THE SPIRIT
  1. The shield of faith and the sword of the Spirit are two of the most powerful weapons in the believer’s armor (Ephesians 6:16-17).
  1. Faith acts as a shield, extinguishing the fiery darts of the enemy—accusations, doubts, and lies—by trusting in God’s promises.
  2. The sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God, is both defensive and offensive, enabling believers to strike down the enemy’s lies and temptations.
  3. Jesus exemplified the power of the Word when He resisted Satan’s temptations by quoting Scripture (Matthew 4:4, 7, 10).
  4. By consistently standing firm in faith and wielding God’s Word effectively, believers can resist the devil’s schemes and see him flee (1 Peter 5:9).

  1. BY CONTROLLING THOUGHTS AND BRINGING THEM INTO SUBJECTION
  1. VICTORY OVER THE ENEMY BEGINS IN THE MIND.
  1. SATAN OFTEN ATTACKS THROUGH NEGATIVE, DECEPTIVE, OR TEMPTING THOUGHTS THAT AIM TO LEAD US AWAY FROM GOD’S TRUTH. ROMANS 12:2 TEACHES US TO BE TRANSFORMED BY RENEWING OUR MINDS, WHICH INVOLVES ACTIVELY REPLACING LIES WITH GOD’S TRUTH. THIS REQUIRES BELIEVERS TO “TAKE EVERY THOUGHT CAPTIVE TO OBEY CHRIST” (2 CORINTHIANS 10:5).
  2. PRACTICAL WAYS TO CONTROL THOUGHTS INCLUDE MEDITATING ON SCRIPTURE, CONFESSING GOD’S PROMISES, AND MAINTAINING A PRAYERFUL MINDSET.
  3. BY SUBMITTING OUR THOUGHTS TO GOD AND ALIGNING THEM WITH HIS WORD, WE SHUT DOWN THE ENEMY’S INFLUENCE OVER OUR MINDS, LEADING TO GREATER SPIRITUAL CLARITY, STRENGTH, AND VICTORY.

IV. STRATEGIES FOR ENGAGING IN SPIRITUAL WARFARE

  1. Know Your Authority: As believers, we have authority in Christ. Recognize that Jesus has defeated the enemy and that we are fighting from a place of victory.
  2. Pray Scripture: Use God’s Word in prayer. Declaring Scripture aloud is a powerful weapon.
    Exercise: Write down specific scriptures that address areas of spiritual attack (e.g., fear, doubt, temptation) and use them in prayer.
  3. Stay Vigilant: The enemy often attacks when we’re vulnerable—tired, discouraged, or isolated. Be aware of these times and draw closer to God.
    Practical Activity: Set up an accountability partner. Regularly check in and pray for one another, especially during difficult times.

V. PRACTICAL ACTIVITIES FOR PRACTICING SPIRITUAL WARFARE

  1. Group Prayer Walk: Take your group on a prayer walk around your neighborhood or city. Pray for God’s presence to fill the area and for strongholds to be broken.
  2. Intercessory Prayer Group: Dedicate one meeting a month specifically for intercession—praying for each other, the community, and for spiritual breakthrough.
  3. Victory Declarations: As a group, declare God’s victory over key areas (fear, addiction, disunity) in people’s lives.

VI. COMMON TACTICS OF THE ENEMY

  1. Deception: The enemy is called the father of lies (John 8:44). He deceives us about our identity, our value, and God’s goodness.
    Exercise: Identify lies that you believe and write down truths from Scripture that replace them.
  2. Accusation: The enemy accuses believers, causing shame and guilt.
    Exercise: Confess any sin, receive God’s forgiveness, and refuse to let the enemy hold you captive through guilt.
  3. Distraction: Keeping us busy or preoccupied with non-essentials.
    Practical Tip: Create a daily schedule with dedicated time for spiritual disciplines—prayer, Bible reading, worship—eliminating unnecessary distractions.

VII. THE VICTORY IS ALREADY WON

  1. Living from Victory: We fight not for victory but from victory. Jesus has already won the battle (Colossians 2:15).
  2. Encouragement in Community: Stand together as a community. The enemy often tries to isolate believers; however, unity brings strength.
    Exercise: Form prayer chains or groups to intercede for each other.

93622.3 Lesson 3. Prayer Walking

I. DEFINITION AND IMPORTANCE OF PRAYER WALKING

  1. Prayer Walking: Moving through a neighborhood or community while praying intentionally for its people and situations. It is a powerful way to invite God into the physical and spiritual landscape of a place.
  2. Biblical Examples: Joshua’s conquest of Jericho (Joshua 6) involved both action and a form of prayer walking; they walked around the city, obeying God’s instructions.

II. STEPS FOR EFFECTIVE PRAYER WALKING

  1. Pray with a Partner: Jesus sent His disciples out two-by-two (Luke 10:1). While you can prayer walk alone, the paired focus ensures unity, accountability, and encouragement.
  2. Pray with God’s Spirit: Be attentive during moments of silence, allowing the Holy Spirit to help you see with His eyes and pray in accordance with His heart.
  3. Use Scripture: Speak scriptures over the community. For instance, pray Jeremiah 29:7 (“Seek the peace of the city…”) while walking in a specific area. God breathed it and loves to use it.
  4. Pray with Authority: Use the authority given in Christ to bind the powers of darkness (Matthew 28:18).

III. PRAYER WALKING SCRIPTURES

  1. PEACE FOR THE CITY: “Also, seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the Lord or it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper” Jeremiah 29:7
  2. OPEN HEARTS: “One of those listening was a woman named Lydia, a dealer in purple cloth from the city of Thyatira, who was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to respond to Paul’s message” Acts 16:14
  3. OPEN DOORS: “And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should” Colossians 4:3-4
  4. AUTHORITIES: “I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone—for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good and pleases God our Savior, who wants all men to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.” 1 Timothy 2:1-4
  5. TURNED HEARTS: “And he will go on before the Lord, in the spirit and power of Elijah, to turn the hearts of the fathers to their children and the disobedient to the wisdom of the righteous — to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.” Luke 1:17
  6. REMOVED OBSTACLES: “And it will be said: ‘Build up, build up, prepare the road! Remove the obstacles out of the way of my people’” Isaiah 57:14
  7. SPIRIT’S MINISTRY: “To prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up” Ephesians 4:12
  8. PROSPERITY: “When the righteous prosper, the city rejoices; when the wicked perish, there are shouts of joy. Through the blessing of the upright a city is exalted, but by the mouth of the wicked it is destroyed” Proverbs 11:10-11
  9. SALVATION: “I will rescue you from your own people and from the Gentiles. I am sending you to them to open their eyes and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God, so that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me” Acts 26:17-18
  10. HEALING: “If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land” 2 Chronicles 7:14
  11. KINGDOM ADVANCED: “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and of peace there will be no end, on the throne of David and over his kingdom, to establish it and to uphold it with justice and with righteousness from this time forth and forevermore. The zeal of the LORD of hosts will do this.” Isaiah 9:6–7

IV. PRACTICAL TIPS FOR PRAYER WALKING

  1. Be sensitive to your surroundings; don’t draw unnecessary attention. Allow God to take the land, not by our might. (Joshua 1:3, Psalm 2:8)
  2. Be open to Holy Spirit’s promptings toward people, places, needs, and insights.
  3. Carry a small notebook to jot down any insights or things that stand out during prayer.
  4. Make it regular—set a schedule for prayer walks weekly or bi-weekly in the area.

V. EXERCISES FOR PRACTICING PRAYER WALKING

  1. Option 1 ‘Simulation’ Walk: Divide participants into groups and assign them to specific areas of a building or church premises to participate in prayer walking.
  2. Option 2 ‘Local’ Walk: Divide participants into groups and assign them to specific areas of the city or local neighborhoods to participate in prayer walking.
  3. Debrief: Come back together to share experiences—what they felt, any resistance, what God revealed to them.

93622.4 Lesson 4. Orality Training

I. THE ROLE OF ORALITY IN DISCIPLE-MAKING

  1. What is Orality? Orality refers to reliance on spoken communication. Many cultures around the world prefer oral communication over written forms. In disciple-making, storytelling can be a powerful tool to convey biblical truths.
  2. Jesus’ Example: Jesus used parables—simple stories with profound spiritual meanings. He communicated deep truths in a way that was relatable and understandable (Matthew 13:1-9).

II. STORYTELLING THE BIBLE

  1. Bible Stories are about people. People connect with other people.
  2. Let your characters speak for themselves. An important part of storytelling is making the story personable and relatable.
  3. Audiences bore easily. When telling a story, get your audience engaged.
  4. Stories stir up emotions. People are not inclined to think about things they don’t care about. Stories stir thoughts and emotions that cause people to connect and think.
  5. Stories don’t tell…they show. “Show, don’t tell” is the most fundamental basis of storytelling, and for good reason. Your audience should see a picture, feel the conflict, and become involved with the story. Don’t preach or teach.
  6. Stories have at least one “moment of truth.” The best Bible stories show us something about how we should treat God, ourselves, or others, or how to interact with the world around us.
  7. Stories have a clear meaning. When the final line is spoken, your audience should know exactly why they took this journey with you. In the end, this may be the most important rule of all. If your audience can’t answer the question, “What was the story all about?”

III. STEPS TO STORYTELLING

  1. Learn the Story: Study the story deeply with accuracy in detail. However, it does not need to be memorized word-for-word. The goal is to understand it fully.
    Exercise: Practice learning the story of Jesus calming the storm (Mark 4:35-41). Write out the key points and then share it aloud.
  2. Tell the Story: Use gestures, voice modulation, eye contact, and even get audience participation or actors to make it interesting.
    Group Activity: Practice telling the same story to different groups and get feedback.
  3. Ask Questions: Through questions, guide people through a verbal inductive study.
    Do not answer questions too often. The goal is to help them learn and draw conclusions from Scripture and then apply it to their lives.
  1. What did you like about the story? (Thumbs Up- Positive)
  2. What did you dislike about the story? (Thumbs Down- Negative)
  3. Who would you want to be in the story, and why? (Point Inward- Who are you?)
  4. What do you think the story is trying to communicate, and what would you tell others about it? (Point out- Share)
  5. What do you think you can apply to your own life through the story? (Make a pause/ hold gesture- Stop, Pray, Apply)
  6. Go in Depth: “What do you think the disciples felt during the storm?” “How does this story relate to challenges in your life?”

IV. PRACTICAL STORYTELLING EXERCISES

  1. Story Circles: Form a circle and each person tells a different Bible story. Focus on making the characters come alive and the key message clear.
  2. Community Storytelling: Pick a community event or family gathering to share a story. Practice engaging non-believers and watch how storytelling opens doors to conversations.

See Appendix “52 Stories” for Orality storytelling through the bible.

93623.1 Lesson 1. Relational Evangelism

I. EVANGELISM IS LIKE SOWING SEED (2 Corinthians 9:6)

  1. Sowing must be done in abundance
  2. Sow the Gospel, Sow Love, Sow Compassion, Sow Friendship

II. WHAT IS RELATIONAL EVANGELISM?

  1. Definition: Relational evangelism is the process of sharing the Gospel through building genuine relationships with others. It involves meeting people where they are in life, caring about their needs, and establishing trust so that spiritual conversations flow naturally.
  2. Long-Term Impact: Relational evangelism aims at long-term engagement that transforms hearts and lives. As people encounter the love of Christ through your words and actions, they become more open to hearing the message of the Gospel.

III. BIBLICAL FOUNDATIONS FOR RELATIONAL EVANGELISM

  1. Jesus’ Example of Relational Evangelism:
  1. The Woman at the Well (John 4:1-26): Jesus took time to build a relationship with the Samaritan woman at the well. He started by addressing her physical need (water) and then transitioned to her deeper spiritual need. He treated her with respect and dignity, even though she was marginalized in society.
  2. Zacchaeus (Luke 19:1-10): Jesus initiated a personal encounter with Zacchaeus, a tax collector despised by others. He invited Himself into his home, building trust and demonstrating love, which led to his repentance and transformation.
  3. Discipleship Model: Jesus spent years with His disciples, investing in them personally. He built deep relationships through shared experiences, meals, and conversations, showing that evangelism and disciple-making happen best within close relational contexts.
  1. Paul’s Example of Relational Evangelism:
  1. Paul in Athens (Acts 17:16-34): Paul built connections with the people of Athens by first observing their culture and then engaging them in a respectful and intellectual conversation about their beliefs. He used their altar to the “unknown god” as a starting point to introduce the message of Jesus.

IV. THE HEART OF RELATIONAL EVANGELISM: LOVE AND COMPASSION

  1. Evangelism as an Expression of Love
  1. The Greatest Commandment: Jesus commanded us to “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” and to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:37-39). Relational evangelism is rooted in this command—loving others enough to share the hope we have in Christ.
  2. Compassion Before Conversion: The focus of relational evangelism is on demonstrating Christ’s love, whether or not the person responds immediately. By genuinely loving and serving people, we reflect Jesus’ heart and trust the Holy Spirit to work in their lives over time.
  3. Building Trust Through Service: One of the key ways to build relationships is through service. As we meet physical, emotional, or relational needs, we build credibility and show the love of Christ in action. This opens doors for deeper spiritual conversations.
  1. Relational Evangelism and Hospitality
  1. The Power of Hospitality: Hospitality is a powerful tool for relational evangelism. Inviting people into your home for a meal, coffee, or fellowship creates a space where trust can be built. Jesus often used meals to foster relationships (Luke 19:5-6, John 21:12).
  2. Creating a Welcoming Environment: In a world that is often disconnected, offering genuine hospitality creates opportunities for people to feel loved and valued. In this environment, spiritual conversations can arise naturally.
  1. Empathy and Active Listening
  1. The Power of Listening: One of the most powerful ways to show love is to listen. People long to be heard and understood. By actively listening to someone’s story, struggles, and questions, you build trust and earn the right to speak into their life.
  2. Ask Open-Ended Questions: Rather than launching into a spiritual conversation, begin by asking open-ended questions that allow the other person to share. Questions like “How has your spiritual journey been?” or “What do you think about God?” invite people to open up without feeling pressured.

V. PRACTICAL STEPS FOR RELATIONAL EVANGELISM

  1. Step 1: Start with Prayer
  1. Pray for Open Doors: Ask God to open your eyes to opportunities for relational evangelism in your everyday life. Pray for divine appointments—moments where He guides you to people who are ready to hear the Gospel.
  2. Pray for Specific People: Make a list of people in your life—family members, friends, neighbors, coworkers—whom God has placed in your path. Pray for their hearts to be softened and for opportunities to share the love of Jesus with them.
  1. Step 2: Build Genuine Relationships
  1. Invest in People: Take time to build relationships with people, especially those outside the church. Go beyond surface-level interactions by taking a genuine interest in their lives—know their stories, challenges, and hopes.
  2. Be Present and Intentional: Look for opportunities to connect with people in your day-to-day life. This could be through attending community events, inviting a coworker for lunch, or simply being available to listen when someone needs to talk.
    Exercise: Set a goal to have at least one intentional conversation with a nonbeliever each week. Start by asking about their interests, family, or current challenges, and let the conversation flow naturally.
  1. Step 3: Meet Felt Needs
  1. Serve Others in Practical Ways: Relational evangelism often begins with meeting people’s practical needs. Offer help when you see a need—whether it’s helping a neighbor move, watching their kids, or bringing them a meal during a difficult time.
  2. Building Trust Through Service: People are more open to hearing about your faith when they see that you genuinely care about them as individuals, not just as “conversion projects.”
  3. Exercise: Identify one person in your life who has a practical need and find a way to serve them this week. This act of kindness will help build trust and create a space for spiritual conversations.
  1. Step 4: Share Your Story
  1. Your Testimony is Powerful: People may not be open to hearing a sermon or theological argument, but they will be interested in your personal story. Sharing how Jesus has impacted your life is a powerful way to introduce the Gospel in a relatable way.
  2. 3-Minute Testimony: Prepare a short version of your testimony that you can share in everyday conversations. Focus on these three key points:
    • Before: What was your life like before Jesus?
    • Encounter: How did you come to know Jesus?
    • After: How has your life changed since then?
  3. Invitation: After your testimony, invite a response from them to ask questions or learn more about beginning a relationship with God.

Exercise: Practice sharing your 3-minute testimony with a friend. Ensure that it’s concise, clear, and relatable. Then (crucial) invite a response.

  1. Step 5: Share God’s Story
  1. The Gospel in Simple Terms: When sharing the Gospel, keep it simple. Use a clear, concise explanation that connects with the person’s current experiences or questions. Avoid using religious jargon that may confuse or alienate them.
  2. The Gospel (1 Corinthians 15:1-8)
    • Christ was born
    • Christ died for our sins
    • He was buried
    • He was raised
    • He appeared and is returning again

VI. HOW TO TRANSITION FROM NATURAL TO SPIRITUAL CONVERSATIONS

  1. Start with Common Ground
  1. Natural Entry Points: Look for natural points of connection that can lead to spiritual conversations. For example, if someone shares about a personal struggle, you can respond by saying, “I’ve found that my faith in God really helps me through difficult times. Would you like to hear more?”
  2. Bridge Building: Share your own experiences in a way that connects with the person’s current situation. For example, if they’re feeling anxious, you can share how your faith gives you peace in the midst of uncertainty.
  1. Inviting Deeper Conversations
  1. Ask for Permission: Instead of forcing a conversation, ask if they would like to explore spiritual topics. For example, “Would you be interested in hearing more about how Jesus has changed my life?” or “Could we explore what the Bible says about peace together?”
  2. Respect Boundaries: If someone isn’t ready for a spiritual conversation, respect their boundaries but continue to be a friend. You can still pray for them and trust that God will open the door.

VII. HANDLING OBJECTIONS AND QUESTIONS

  1. Expect Questions and Objections
  1. Many people have honest questions or objections to the Christian faith. See these moments as opportunities for deeper conversations. Questions can open doors to discuss the heart of the Gospel.
  2. Common Objections:
    • “How can a good God allow suffering?”
    • “Isn’t Christianity just one of many paths to God?”
    • “How can I trust the Bible?”
  1. Respond with Grace and Truth
  1. Stay Calm and Respectful: When objections arise, listen carefully and acknowledge the validity of the person’s concerns. Don’t feel pressured to have all the answers. Instead, respond with humility and a willingness to explore the answers together.
  2. Point to Jesus: Always bring the conversation back to Jesus. Rather than getting bogged down in debates, focus on who Jesus is, what He has done, and how He offers hope and redemption.
  3. Offer to Explore Answers Together: If someone raises a difficult question, invite them to explore the Bible with you to find the answers. For example, “That’s a great question. Let’s look at what the Bible says about suffering and see if we can find some answers together.”

VIII. PRACTICAL EXERCISES FOR RELATIONAL EVANGELISM

  1. Serve and Connect Activity:
  1. Find a Way to Serve: Identify one practical way you can serve someone in your community this week. Use this as an opportunity to build trust and create space for spiritual conversations.
  2. Reflection: After serving, reflect on how the act of service deepened your relationship with the person and if any spiritual conversations emerged.
  1. Spiritual Conversations Role Play:
  1. Practice Conversations: In a small group setting, role-play transitioning from a natural conversation to a spiritual one. Practice sharing your testimony, asking open-ended questions, and responding to objections. Receive feedback on how to improve your approach.

IX. CONCLUSION: THE LONG-TERM IMPACT OF RELATIONAL EVANGELISM

  1. Trust the Holy Spirit: Relational evangelism requires patience and trust. It’s important to remember that we plant and water seeds, but God gives the growth (1 Corinthians 3:6-7). Pray continuously for the people you are engaging and trust that the Holy Spirit is working in their hearts.
  2. Making Disciples, Not Just Converts: Relational evangelism is about more than just leading people to make a one-time decision. It’s about walking with them in their faith journey, discipling them, and helping them become disciple-makers who will share the Gospel with others.
  3. Stay Committed to Relationships: Relational evangelism often takes time. Stay committed to building relationships, even if you don’t see immediate results. Continue to love, serve, and share, knowing that God is at work.