60103 3. Faith – The Key to Walking in the Spirit

It is by faith that God’s power to live for Christ and walk in the Holy Spirit is available to you! 

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Q. What does Hebrews 11:6 say about faith?

Many people think that living for Christ means helping the poor, feeding the hungry, and living morally. However, as C. S. Lewis points out, “Mere morality is not the end of life. You were made for something quite different from that … The idea of reaching ‘a good life’ without Christ is based on a double error. First­ly, we cannot do it; and secondly … we have missed the very point of our existence.” 

Lewis explains that the point of our exis­tence centers on the tremendous inheritance we have in Christ as His children. Living for Christ is not our duty as His slaves, but our privilege as His sons and daughters. In other words, God accepts us perfectly regardless of our performance. 

God tells us that living for Christ is not accomplished by doing what Jesus did, but rather by letting Him live His life through us by faith. Helping the poor, feeding the hungry, and living morally should be done from a heart of gratitude rather than out of compulsion. We are to live by faith–not works. 

As we live by faith, Jesus’ love will shine through us. Faith in Christ, over time, will result in obedience to God’s Word, even though there will be ups and downs (James 2:17). 

Your faith will continually be tested. The Bible says the Christian life is like a battlefield with three specific enemies: the world, the flesh, and the devil (Satan). 

Paul tells the Ephesian believers that the only way to defeat these enemies is to trust God and depend upon His Word, the Bible. 

Q. Read Ephesians 6:10-18. What are the keys to winning the battle over these enemies?

Emotionally Charged … But No Power 

Jesus was giving his disciples final instructions before He went back to His Father. They were all emotionally charged after His resurrection … and ready to give up everything to follow Him. 

But Jesus knew they were not ready. Even after three years of His training and teaching them, they didn’t have the strength to live the life He had called them to live. They would fail miserably if they tried to live for Christ in their own strength! 

Jesus knew they needed His power. He told them, “But you are to be given power when the Holy Spirit has come to you” (Acts 1:8). 

Feelings Are Fickle 

Many believers have mistaken the Holy Spirit’s power for an emotional feeling or euphoria. Sadly, when the emotions and feelings depart … they think they have lost the Holy Spirit’s power. They don’t believe in God’s promise: “I will never leave or forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). 

Q. Why are feelings not enough?

The power the Holy Spirit brings to you is much more than emotions or feelings … although they may be part of it. Trying to live for Christ without the Holy Spirit is like driving a Ferrari without gasoline–powerless. On the other hand, the Holy Spirit gives us: 

  • Power to abide in Christ and love others. 
  • Power to overcome trials. 
  • Power to overcome temptation. 
  • Power to overcome sin. 
  • Power to produce fruit. 
  • Power to obey Christ. 

Jesus does not give you a list of rules to follow. Rather, He empowers you by His Holy Spirit to live a life of obedience. 

Belief Causes Behavior 

How we act and behave is motivated by what we think. If we think we have a better plan for our lives than God does, we will chase after self-centered pursuits. 

Many people fill their lives by chasing after money, sex, or toys, thinking it will bring them happiness. They think, “He who dies with the most toys, wins!” As a result, they waste their lives. 

Other people leave God out of their lives because they believe life will be boring. They believe God is against fun … and doesn’t care about their dreams. They don’t want to trust Him with their future. 

The Bible says that God loves you so much that He desires and plans the very best for your future. The psalmist tells us: “Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you your heart’s desires” (Psalm 37:4). 

If you accept God’s Word as truth and follow Him, He will give you desires that are in alignment with His will. 

Q. What does Romans 8:32 say about God’s trustworthiness?

Q. Are you ready to make the truth of God’s Word the foundation of your beliefs?

Overcoming Doubt 

Joni’s Story 

Joni Eareckson was an attractive, athletic teenager who had everything going her way in life–until she dove head first into a shallow lake … breaking her neck. 

Joni had trusted Christ for salvation in her youth group, but most of her hopes and dreams were for self-fulfillment. Suddenly Joni’s world totally fell apart. She would never walk, or be able to use her hands again! 

Joni’s faith was shaken. Joni says: 

“In those first few months after my injury, the promises of God seemed anything but true … How could I be expected to believe when everything in­side and outside of me screamed just the opposite?” 

Joni struggled greatly until a friend from Young Life named Steve Estes encouraged her to trust God. Through time, and hearing God’s Word, Joni began to believe God’s promises. Joni did overcome her despair by faith–and today runs an international ministry, Joni and Friends, which shares Christ’s love with disabled people all over the world. 

“Today as I look back, I am convinced that the whole ordeal of my paralysis was inspired by God’s love. I wasn’t the brunt of some cruel divine joke. God had reasons behind my suffering, and learning some of them has made all the difference in the world.” (Joni, A Step Further) 

Victorious Faith 

The Bible tells us that it is possible to live a life of victorious faith. Hebrews chapter 11 gives us examples of men and women who trusted God in spite of great adversity and opposition. Such a life pleases God greatly and results in a life of victory over our circumstances. 

Q. Read Hebrews chapter 11. Write down your thoughts about those who had victorious faith.

When God rescued the Israelites from slavery in Egypt He performed many miracles, including drying up the Red Sea so they could escape the armies of Pharaoh. They saw God’s mighty hand at work, but soon forgot and began to doubt His promise to provide for their basic needs. 

God told them through Moses that He had a place of rest for them to dwell in, called the Promised Land, “a land flowing with milk and honey.” But all they did was complain and doubt God’s promise. (Read Exodus chapters 3 through 20.) 

They sent 12 spies to scout out the land and discovered it to be a paradise “flowing with milk and honey.” But there were also giants there. When they came back and reported their findings, only Joshua and Caleb were willing to trust God and face the giants. The other 10 scouts were afraid and convinced the doubting Israelites they would be unable to overcome the giants. For the next 40 years, they wandered in the wilderness–unwilling to trust God and enter His place of rest. (Read chapters 13 and 14 in the book of Numbers.) 

Q. What are the giants in your life?

Q. God has a place of rest for you. Read Hebrews 3:7-4:16. According to this passage, how do we enter God’s rest?

Q. What are we warned against?

If you will simply trust the promises in God’s Word, you will discover wonderful rest. That is victorious faith! 

Is there something in your life keeping you from trusting God? If any of the following areas are keeping you from trusting God—confess them to God, and repent (change your thinking), now—before it is too late. 

God can be trusted in all areas of your life. 

Q. Spend some time evaluating the list above, and write down any area in which you need to take prayerful action to change.

“Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect His will really is.” (Romans 12:2) 

Walking in the Spirit is a moment-by-moment decision 

Broken Fellowship 

Every believer sins and breaks fellowship with the Holy Spirit at times (1 John 1:8). Broken fellowship does not mean your sins aren’t forgiven. Jesus paid for all your sins on the cross, once and for all. 

Broken fellowship means that you are not abiding in Christ, and therefore are not experiencing God’s purpose and plan for your life. 

Purposeful Living … Your Choice 

Every moment of your life, the Holy Spirit is waiting to guide you into purpose­ful living. But He always allows you free choice. 

The apostle Paul (formerly named Saul) had been a strong opponent of the early Christians. As a high-ranking Jewish leader, he was angry at everything Christians stood for … and wanted to abolish Christianity and the worship of Christ, even having Christians put to death. 

“On his way to Damascus, Jesus miraculously appeared to him in a vision. When Paul heard and saw Jesus … recognizing Him as Lord … he asked Jesus, ‘What will You have me to do?’” (Acts 9:6). 

Paul’s attitude of willingness to serve Christ is what God wants from you and me. 

“God’s way” in life results in purpose, power, peace, and hope. God wants to direct your life all the time. 

But the sinful part of you will always want your own way … the “self-centered way.” A self-centered life may get high on short-term pleasures, but usually ends up in fear, emptiness, loneliness, and finally despair. 

However, at any moment of your day, you can get back on “God’s Way” and restore fellowship with Him. Simply take the following steps: 

“Spiritual Breathing” 

To better understand how to walk in the Spirit on a moment-by-moment basis, Bill Bright compares it to breathing. When you breathe, you exhale impurities and inhale pure air and oxygen. In “spiritual breathing,” you “exhale” sin–by confession, and “inhale” the Holy Spirit’s control–by faith. (Read Spirit-filled Life by Bill Bright.) 

Once the Holy Spirit is in control of your life, He gives you the power to live for God.

Power to Overcome Trials 

“Whenever trouble comes your way, let it be an opportunity for joy. For when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be strong in character and ready for anything” (James 1:2-4). 

Lars’ Story 

As an unknown golfer, Lars Hansen had stunned the Canadian golf community by winning the Ontario Bantam Golf Championship at the young age of 13. With his flashy smile, charming good looks, and winsome personality, it seemed like Lars had what it took to bring happiness. 

But an inner void and lack of purpose led him to accept Jesus Christ as his personal Savior and Lord. Soon Lars began reading the Bible, and sharing Christ with his friends. After playing collegiate golf in California and graduating in mathematics, Lars began working for a major corporation. 

At age 28, Lars began feeling weak, and was diagnosed with severe kidney failure. He eventually lost his kidneys, his eyesight, and finally his life, at age 35. 

During the seven years that Lars’ athletic body, sight, and mobility deteriorated, his faith in Christ actually deepened. He listened to Christian radio broadcasts, and never asked, “Why?” Even in his deepest pain, he believed that God loved him, and had some unknown purpose for his trial. On his last night, Lars weakly prayed to his heavenly Father, trusting Him with his future. 

Q. Read Romans 8:28. What is God telling you in this verse that you can trust Him for?

Just because you are living in to obedience of God’s Word, does not mean your life will be trouble-free. The real test is whether you are trusting God in spite of your circumstances. 

Power over Temptation 

We all face numerous temptations daily. Being tempted is not a sin; it is normal. 

When tempted, your choice is either to give in or to trust God. Giving in to temptation is sin, and breaks fellowship with God. 

Read the following verse carefully, and apply what it says to any temptations you are currently facing. 

“The temptations that come into your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will keep the temptation from becoming so strong that you can’t stand up against it. When you are tempted, He will show you a way out so that you will not give in to it” (1 Corinthians 10:13). 

In this verse, God tells you how to overcome temptation: 

  • Trust God … that your temptation is normal. 
  • Trust God … for the ability to withstand it. 
  • Trust God … to give you a “way out.” 

Q. In what ways are you trusting God to help you overcome temptation?

Don’t ever say, “The temptation is too strong,” and give in to it. If you are abiding in God, the Holy Spirit has promised to give you the power to withstand temptation. 

Darrel’s Story 

“I was involved in a sexual relationship with Tori whom I had been dating for two years. When I got back from Young Life Camp, I wanted to please my Savior. But I tried to rationalize my behavior– thinking that God might approve. I thought God would understand my needs. 

But, because I wanted to please Christ, I read the Bible to see what it said about sexual purity. I realized the importance of obedience to Christ, and that sex outside of marriage was wrong. I knew though, that I didn’t have the strength to break off the relationship with Tori. 

So, by faith, I asked for the Holy Spirit to em­power me to obey Him. The temptation to have sex with Tori was so strong, that I realized we needed to quit seeing each other. 

When I chose to obey Him and quit having sex with Tori, the Holy Spirit gave me a tremendous peace and joy. Since that decision, life has been truly awesome!” 

Darrel took God seriously, and “ran” from the temptation that could have entrapped him and hindered his walk with Christ. By faith Darrel chose to obey God … and he won a great victory! (See John 14:21.) 

Q. What are some steps you can take the next time you are tempted?

Power over Sin 

Sin can become addictive, but if you yield to the Holy Spirit, He will give you His power to overcome that bondage. 

Matt’s Story 

“Although I was a worship leader in my church, I led a double life. I became addicted to pornography at eleven years of age. As my addiction grew, my cravings became more vile and ugly. Soon I was having all-night sessions on the Internet, and even fantasizing about rape. I was out of control. 

When a godly man told me about the Holy Spirit’s power to break my addiction, I began looking into God’s Word and memorized its promises. I discovered God’s awesome power to overcome my addiction. 

My breakthrough came when I began believing and claiming God’s promises. Whenever I am tempted, I think about a promise in God’s Word that applies to that particular temptation. 

I then simply focus on His Word, and pray for the Holy Spirit to give me strength to overcome. 

There are really four keys to my victory over the bondage of sin: 

First, I needed to take the time to memorize and meditate on God’s promises. I discovered a treasure of God’s many promises throughout Scripture that are vital to victorious living. 

Second, I confess my sins whenever my thoughts are wrong. According to 1 John 1:9, I take Him at his Word that I am forgiven. (Exhale … See “Spiritual Breathing.”) 

Third, I surrender my thoughts and actions to the Holy Spirit by telling Him I want to please Him. (Inhale … See “Spiritual Breathing.”) 

Finally, I spend time with my mentor and other Christians who hold me accountable and encourage me in my walk with Christ. 

As I’ve applied God’s Word to all areas of my life, I have been free from bondage to sin and addiction. God has blessed me with a wonderful Christian wife and family. My wife and I are now teaching others how memorizing God’s promises can help overcome sin and addiction. I feel so free and joyful now that I have turned my life completely over to the Holy Spirit’s control.” 

In the New Testament, we read, “In every battle you will need faith as your shield to stop the fiery arrows aimed at you by Satan” (Ephesians 6:16). 

If you are involved in a battle over temptation, sin, or addiction to a substance or lifestyle, the power of the Holy Spirit is able to lift you out and give you total victory. Choose to trust Him! 

Power to Bear Fruit 

The Holy Spirit will empower you to bear fruit when you are trusting Him, and abiding in Christ. Abiding in Christ means walking in the Spirit. 

In John, Jesus told his disciples: “I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing” (John 15:5). 

Fruit of the Spirit 

Jesus compared your life to a branch that is totally dependent on the grapevine. The purpose of the vine is to produce big juicy grapes. The more fruit … the more the farmer is pleased. 

The Holy Spirit wants to produce the fruit of the Spirit in your life, which is identified as: 

The Fruit of the Spirit results in a heart that God uses to reach others for Christ. (Read John chapter 15.) 

Your Daily Power 

When you get up in the morning, do you call on God’s power to help you through the day’s challenges? 

Q. Who are you depending on in each area below:

You can ask the Holy Spirit to give you His power for all the details of your life. God gives you this great promise that you can make yours every single day: 

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear … but of power, love, and self-discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7). 

Q. In this verse, what does God tell you is not from Him, and what does He promise to give you?

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own under­standing; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6). 

Q. What are you trusting God for right now?

60104 4. The Bible – God’s Love Letter to You!

If you received a special letter or email from Jesus … telling you how much He loves you … and giving you the guidance and direction you need for your daily issues … would you read it? Would you keep it, cherish it, memorize it, and continually think about it? 

That’s exactly what the Bible is … it’s God’s love letter to you! God’s Word is as important to your Christian growth as milk is to a new baby. 

Before You Start 

Begin by obtaining a Bible with good references and helps. You may find a modern translation easier to understand. Several websites, such as Biblegateway.com, offers online Bibles for free in different languages. 

The Bible is God’s “Road Map” for Your Life 

If you were trying to drive to a distant small town you had never been to before … would you drive by your emotions and instincts … or would you look at a GPS or road map? 

While the road map won’t tell you what’s just around the curve, or how bumpy the road is … it will keep you from heading in the wrong direction, giving you guidance for your trip. 

The Bible provides the “road map” for your journey with God. It gives you God’s wonderful promises for each step of the way. As you read through the next few pages, you will learn how to use this map to help you grow and become more mature in Christ. 

Changing Habits 

Every day you do things out of habit. You get up, eat breakfast, shower, get dressed, go to school, go to work, etc. 

In order to make God’s Word part of your life–you need to make it one of your daily habits. Pick a time, (mornings work best for many people), then pick a quiet spot and spend time reading the Bible and thinking about how it applies to your life. Once you have done it for thirty days, you will have established a habit that will change your life! 

God’s Viewpoint 

The Bible gives you God’s answers to all of life’s most important questions: 

  • God’s Nature 
  • Your Purpose 
  • How To Grow In Christ 
  • Moral Decisions 
  • Relationships / Sex 
  • Emotions / Comfort
  • Trials / Death 

“For the Word of God is full of living power…It exposes us for what we really are” (Hebrews 4:12). 

Your Mind…A “Vat” 

Every moment of every day, your mind is flooded with information … most of it from the world’s viewpoint. 

Your life and the decisions you make are greatly influenced by what goes into your “Vat”! 

In order for God’s viewpoint to prevail in your life, you must get a good “dose” of God’s Word … not just a few minutes each day. 

Matthew Henry once said: “If you want to get close to God, you must study His Word.” 

Q. How does Colossians 3:16 apply to you personally?

Getting Fed 

All of these ways to make God’s Word a bigger part of your life are important. Let’s look at each of them. 

1. How to Hear God’s Word 

There are several ways to hear God’s Word taught: 

  • At Church 
  • Bible Teachers/Schools 
  • Christian Seminars
  • Bible Web Pages 
  • Bible Studies 
  • Bible Tapes CDs/DVDs 
  • Christian Radio 
  • Christian Books/Audio Books 

Q. How are you hearing God’s Word taught, and what can you do to hear it more often?

Q. Hearing God’s Word should make you want to read and study it for yourself. What does Acts 17:11 say?

Whenever you hear God’s Word taught, attempt to learn what the Holy Spirit is trying to teach you personally, taking good notes, and writing down your thoughts. 

2. How to Read God’s Word 

When reading the Bible, it’s best to read it slowly and thoughtfully. Have a good pen or marking pencil handy to write down your thoughts and underline key verses. 

Make it fun. Go on a “hunt” to find insights God has for you. Then write down the references so you can locate them later. 

If this is your first adventure in reading the Bible, it’s best to start in the New Testament, reading at least one of the four Gospels. Many teachers recommend starting with John. 

The book of Acts tells about the actions of the early Christians. Acts is a “must-read” for all Christians. 

After Acts, you’ll find the letters to the first Christian churches, which give instructions and guidance for daily living. 

And finally, in the book of Revelation, you will see how Christ is going to end all things in this world and begin ruling as “King of kings and Lord of lords.” It’s amazing! 

“All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It straightens us out and teaches us to do what is right. It is God’s way of preparing us in every way, fully equipping for every good thing God wants us to do” (2 Timothy 3:16-17). 

Q. What book in the Bible are you currently reading? What are you learning?

3. How to Study God’s Word 

There are several ways you can study the Bible: 

  • Study an Individual Book (e.g. Acts) 
  • Study a Passage or Chapter (e.g. 2 Corinthians 5) 
  • Study a Biblical Theme (e.g. Love) 
  • Study a Verse (e.g. 2 Corinthians 5:17) 
  • Study a Biblical Doctrine (e.g. Redemption) 

The reason you need to study God’s Word is to gain insight into who God is, and what He wants to do in your life. 

Here is one example of how you can read and think about God’s Word (from Bert Harned): 

A Study of “Discouragement” 

“Do you get ‘discouraged, depressed’? I have found an instant cure for it! YES! It is in Psalm 118:6-8. The NLT says, ‘The Lord is for me so I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? Yes, the Lord is for me. He will help me.’”

It was a beautiful cloudless morning when I noticed these verses, and took the time to think about them. I wrote one word at a time down on the left margin and took time to think as deeply as I could about each word, making notes as I went. Start like this: 

The Lord: the mighty, almighty, creator, sovereign, loving, glorious God. That’s who is for me! 

Is: means right now…presently, an absolute certainty! 

For: means He knows me, has my best interests at heart, is not against me, He is on my side, and knows what is best for me. 

Me: means personally, not in general, but specifically, by name. 

It is awesome and exciting to contemplate me having such intimacy … with God Himself!! 

“Now it’s your turn; find a quiet place and mentally chew your way through these verses for yourself.” 

Here is another way you can study God’s Word on a daily basis (with a scripture passage included for you to use as well). 

Q. Read 2 Corinthians chapter five, in at least two versions of the Bible if possible, and write what 2 Corinthians 5:14-17 means to you personally

4. How to Memorize God’s Word 

The “Topical Memory System” is a proven way to memorize God’s promises. You can start with the “Beginning with Christ” packet of five key verses produced by The Navigators (www.navigators.org). We also recommend you select some key verses in this Bible study to memorize. You might want to write them down on small cards that you can take with you and review daily. 

One reason to memorize Scripture is that our memories are short. 

After 24 hours, you may accurately remember: 

  • 5% of what you hear 
  • 15% of what you read 
  • 35% of what you study 
  • 57% of what you see and hear 
  • 100% of what you memorize 

Noted author and counselor, Henry Brandt, in his book, The Heart of the Problem, says: “I still consider Bible memorization the single most important aid in my Christian life and in my counseling.” 

It’s actually easy to memorize verses: 

  • Start with one verse. 
  • Repeat it several times. 
  • Explain it in your own words. 
  • Say it to a friend. 
  • Test and challenge each other to apply it. 

Once memorized, review it without looking for 30 days. It will be yours to take with you wherever you go! 

“How can a young person stay pure? By obeying Your Word and following its rules … I have hidden Your Word in my heart that I might not sin against You.” (Psalm 119:9, 11) 

5. How to Meditate on God’s Word 

Meditating on God’s promises throughout the day will help you walk in the Spirit. Whenever something stressful happens (and it will), think about a verse that applies to your situation. 

Q. What does Philippians 4:6-7 say?

Power over Bondage 

In 1977, New York City was in turmoil because a troubled twenty-four-year-old man, David Berkowitz, whom the media labeled, “Son of Sam,” went on a killing spree. His target was young women, and before he was finally caught, five young women and one man were dead. 

During his time in prison, he was approached by a young prisoner named Ricky Lopez, who told David that regardless of what he had done, Jesus loved him and died for him. 

Ricky gave David a Bible. As David Berkowitz read the Bible, God’s power began breaking him of his addiction and bondage. In time, the Word of God brought him to a point of complete repentance—and the “Son of Sam” surren­dered his life completely to Christ. 

Today, David Berkowitz is the Chaplain’s Assistant at Sullivan Correctional Facility. (Read this, and other stories of God’s transforming power in Fresh Power by Jim Cymbala.) 

David Berkowitz was transformed because he replaced man’s viewpoint with God’s viewpoint. And, He believed God’s view­point! He put the right “stuff ” in his VAT. 

Getting rid of the “junk” in your VAT, and replacing it with God’s Word takes time. The amount of time you commit to the Bible is probably the single best indicator of your walk with Christ and the best predictor of your future growth in Christ. 

“Let the words of Christ, in all their richness, live in your hearts, and make you wise. Use His words to teach and counsel each other” (Colossians 3:16). 

Q. Read Psalm 1:1-3, and write your thoughts

As you run the race God has set ahead of you, make sure your roots are deeply planted in God’s Word.

60105 5. Prayer – Talking to Your Heavenly Father

Suppose you were having lunch with a friend one day, and your cell phone rang. You answer, and an unfamiliar, powerful voice calls out your name. 

You ask, “Who is this?” 

You are totally shocked when the answer comes back, “I’m your Heavenly Father. I’m calling to talk with you because you’re my child … and I haven’t heard from you for a while.” 

What do you think your reaction would be? 

Would you feel special … scared … excited … nervous … convicted? 

God wants you to know Him so well that you will always feel like talking to Him … even when you sin and have broken fellowship with Him. Read about how loving and forgiving your Father’s heart is in the story of the “Prodigal Son” in Luke 15:11-32. 

Prayer is vital to growing in our relationship with God. Prayer is one of the most incredible privileges you have as a believer … to come directly into God’s presence and talk with Him about whatever is on your heart. And, He promises to listen! 

Relationship … Not Rules 

When you invited Jesus into your life, you began a relationship with God that is very personal and intimate. All relationships need good communication to be healthy. 

Jesus’ death for you on the cross made it possible for you to talk directly with your Father in heaven. Your Father wants you to seek His guidance, comfort, peace, and intimate companionship at all times…not just when you want things. He actually desires your companionship! (See Galatians 4:6.) 

  • THE HOLY SPIRIT helps you pray. 
  • FAITH makes your prayers effective. 
  • GOD’S WORD teaches you who God is and how to pray. 

Ask Christ to make Himself more real to you. 

“You haven’t done this before. Ask, using my name, and you will receive, and you will have abundant joy” (John 16:24). 

Knowing Your Father 

The first part of this study focuses on God’s character. Once you know who your Father is, it’s much easier to talk with Him. 

Before you begin trying to grasp how totally amazing your Heavenly Father is … you need to know that his greatness is far beyond human understanding. However, His Word does give us part of the picture! 

Attributes of God 

  • God is Sovereign (In Charge) 
  • God is Eternal (Always Existed) 
  • God is Omniscient (All Knowing) 
  • God is Omnipresent (Everywhere) 
  • God is Omnipotent (All Powerful) 
  • God is Immutable (Unchanging) 
  • God is Holy (Righteous and Set Apart) 
  • God is Just (Absolutely Fair) 
  • God is Love (Unconditional Acceptance) 
  • God is Truth (Totally Trustworthy) 

Think about each one of God’s characteristics listed below, and how each attribute affects your view of God … and your relationship with Him. 

God is Sovereign (In Charge) 

God alone is Ruler of the universe. He has complete authority to do whatever pleases Him. 

When you talk to your Father, approach Him with humility and respect for His absolute authority.

Q. Read Job 1:6-12. Throughout this conversation, who was in control at all times?

Q. Whom can you trust at all times?

Q. What does Romans 8:28 mean to you personally?

God is Eternal (Always Exists) 

You live in a time dimension. God doesn’t. God has always existed, and He always will exist. When you join God in heaven, you will live forever with Him. He gives you eternal life! 

When you talk to your Father, think about the time ahead when you will be with Him forever and ever! 

Q. What else has God told us is eternal? (Isaiah 40:8)

Q. How long will God rule? (Psalm 45:6)

God is Omniscient (All Knowing) 

God knows everything in the past. He knows everything that is going on in the universe now. And He knows everything that is going to happen in the future. 

Q. Read Psalm 139, and write down your thoughts

When you talk to your Father, think about the fact that He knows what you are going to say … before you say it. He even knows what is going on deep in your heart. And, He knows what is best for you! 

God is Omnipresent (Everywhere) 

This universe is about thirty billion light years across … and contains at least ten trillion stars (more than all the grains of sand on earth). Yet God is present on every star, and in every inch of space. 

Q. Write down your thoughts on Psalm 139:7-8

When you talk to your Father, think about the fact that wherever you go … He is already there. Even during your darkest time … you can count on his being there. 

God is Omnipotent (All Powerful) 

Since God is all-powerful, nothing is difficult for Him. Even the enormous power to create the universe was just “finger-work” for Him (Psalm 8:3). 

The prophet Jeremiah said: “O Sovereign Lord! You have made the heavens and earth by Your great power. Nothing is too hard for You!” (Jeremiah 32:17). 

When you talk to your Father, humbly realize He can do anything. And, although He cares about every detail in your life, think about how small your problems are when compared with how awesome He is! 

God is Immutable (Unchanging) 

Since we are always changing our minds or moods…it is hard to imagine a God that is always the same, “yesterday, today … and forever!” (Hebrews 13:8). 

When you talk to your Father, think about the fact that because He never changes … His love for you also never changes. It doesn’t fluctuate with your emotions or deeds. It is also important to understand that because God never changes … His Word will never change! 

God is Holy (Righteous and Set Apart) 

God has never thought an unrighteous thought … and never will! He is absolutely pure and perfect in every way! (See Psalm 145:17.) 

Sin is the exact opposite of God’s nature … and without Christ’s death for you on the cross, you would be totally rejected from His presence. God’s holiness is beyond explanation. 

Q. Read Revelation 20:12-15, and write down your thoughts

When you talk to your Father, think about His holiness and righteousness … and how Jesus has made it possible for you to come directly into His awesome presence. 

God is Just (Perfectly Fair) 

God is the Supreme Judge of the universe. He cannot make a mistake … and is always totally fair. There is no “Court of Appeals” (See Jeremiah 9:24.) God cannot “look the other way” regarding your sin. 

When you talk to your Father, think about the fact that He will always be fair by His perfect standard. You need to trust Him even when you think He has been unfair. (See Genesis 18:25.) 

God is Love (Unconditional Acceptance) 

God will never love you less … and He cannot love you more! The Bible tells us that God doesn’t just have love … “He is love” (1 John 4:16). 

The fact that your Father sent Jesus to suffer and die for you on the cross illustrates the depth of His love for you (1 John 3:1). 

When you talk to your Father, think about the high price He paid for your salvation, even though you will never fully understand it or appreciate it. 

Then thank Him! 

God is Truth (Totally Trustworthy) 

God cannot lie. Everything He says is true (Titus 1:2). 

Q. Who claimed to be the truth in John 14:6?

Q. What does Jesus say is the truth in John 17:17?

When you talk to your Father, thank Him for the promises in the Bible. Review the promises … one by one … with Him. Tell Him you want to trust Him! 

Read and pray David’s prayer in 1 Chronicles 29:11-13. 

Praying Boldly 

Now that you begin to see how awe-inspiring your Heavenly Father is, you may be afraid to approach Him in prayer. God’s Word tells you that as His child, you are always welcome in His presence. Go to Him … boldly! 

“So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive His mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it” (Hebrews 4:16). 

Praying with Humility 

Although God wants you to talk to Him at all times, it is important that you approach Him with a humble heart (1 Peter 5:5-6). God opposes human pride, and wants you to be totally dependent upon His resources. 

Praying with Confidence 

• Pray According to God’s Word

Learn the following prayer principles and look up the Scripture reference that goes with each one and then … pray expectantly! 

• Family Only 

God answers the prayers of His children. He also hears and answers prayers of non-Christians when they come to Christ in faith for the forgiveness of their sins (John 16.24). 

• Abiding Answers 

Jesus said that an abiding Christian can be confident in his prayers being heard … and answered according to God’s will. 

Q. What does John 15:7 say?

Q. What does Psalm 66:18-20 say?

• “Thy Will Be Done” 

Jesus modeled the attitude you should have when you come to your Father. You should desire His will above yours, even though it may be difficult to accept. (Read Mark 14:32-40) 

“And this is the confidence that we have in Him, that, if we ask anything accord­ing to His will, He hears us: And if we know that He hears us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of Him” (1 John 5:14). 

Now that you know Him, you can be confident … if you are abiding in Him … that He will answer any prayer that is according to His perfect will. 

• God’s Perfect Timing 

Don’t give up on prayers that don’t get answered right away. One of the signs of a Spirit-controlled Christian is “patience” (Galatians 5:22). 

Countless Christians will tell you stories of God’s faithfulness in answering prayers after many years of continual prayer. 

• Your Prayer Life 

You began your prayer life as a member of God’s family when you invited Jesus into your life. 

Q. How has it been going since?

Q. What is different about your prayers since you asked Jesus into your life?

• Beginning Your Day 

If you want your relationship with Christ to grow, plan to meet Him every morning. Many Christians who are abiding in Christ begin their day with a “quiet time.” You can start talking to God “before your feet hit the ground,” as you get out of bed. Say something like this: 

“Good morning Lord! Today, before I get going, I just want You to know I love You … and want to live for You today!” 

• Claiming His Promises 

Take some of God’s promises with you, and claim them for your day. Here’s a great verse to get you started: 

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understand­ing. Seek His will in all you do, and He will direct your paths” (Proverbs 3:5-6). 

Pray: “Lord, today, I am going to trust You to direct my paths, and I am going to seek Your will for my life in each situation.” 

• Restoring Fellowship by Confession 

When you slip and fall, and feel like no one cares, run to your Lord’s waiting arms. He will comfort you and dry your tears. (Read Romans 8:26-27.) 

To restore fellowship with the Holy Spirit, simply tell Him that you have sinned, (name it), and choose to let Him control your life. He will then restore you to fellowship with Him (see 1 John 1:9). 

• Thank, Praise, and Adore Him 

God has done so much for you that it is important to take some time to thank Him, and think about His love and grace. Read the Psalms, and as you read the many praises…stop and make them your own. Think about God’s greatness and His great love for you … and adore Him. (Begin with Psalms 95, 107, 145-150.) 

• Requests 

God wants you to bring Him your requests. In fact, He delights in your requests since it is an act of faith and obedience. Never quit asking Him for things that are biblical and within His will. He promises to answer those prayers … in His time! 

Suggestion: For the next 30 days, start a prayer list. Add to it each day. 

Write down the following:

  • Your personal growth in Christ 
  • Specific issues you are dealing with 
  • Needs of friends and family 
  • Non-Christians you desire to know Christ 
  • Other Christians you can help grow 

If you are reading God’s Word, and allowing the Holy Spirit to control your life…you will naturally talk with Him more.

60106 6. Citizens of Heaven – God’s Family…and You!

The apostle Peter told the early believers to think of themselves as part of a building … with Jesus being the “chief cornerstone.” 

“And now God is building you, as living stones into His spiritual temple … You are a chosen people. You are a kingdom of priests, God’s holy nation, His very own possession” (1 Peter 2:5, 9). 

God is saying wonderful things about you as one of His children. He is saying that you and all other believers are: 

  • Living Stones in His Spiritual Temple 
  • A Chosen People 
  • A Kingdom of Priests 
  • His Very Own Possession 
  • Citizens of God’s Holy Nation 

It doesn’t matter what color your skin is, how smart you are, how pretty you are, what gender you are, or how wealthy or important you are…you are part of Christ’s body with believers from all time. You are a full citizen in God’s Country … heaven! (See Ephesians 2:19.) 

Q. Write down your thoughts on your true identity in Christ as a citizen of His Kingdom

Christ’s Local Body 

You, along with all other Christians of all time make up the body of Christ, the Church. The Bible also calls a local gathering of believers a “church.” 

Jesus made a promise to you and me. When we come together, with Him as our focus … He is there: “For where two or three gather together because they are mine, I am there among them” (Matthew 18:20). 

The Early Church 

The book of Acts describes the establishing of the early churches, which met primarily in homes. The Letters of the New Testament are the instructions written to those churches by the apostles. Everything the Holy Spirit commanded and instructed the early believers also applies to the church today. 

The commitment of the early church was so strong, and their love for one another so great, that within 300 years, Christianity had spread throughout the entire Roman Empire. Jesus used them to change the world! 

The Example of the Early Church 

To get an understanding of how committed the early Christians were to one another, read the Book of Acts in the New Testament. 

Q. What stands out the most to you in your reading of the book of Acts?

Q. How important were the other believers to Paul, Peter, and the other Apostles?

Q. How important are other believers to you?

Q. What are you doing to develop relationships with other believers?

Getting Connected 

One of the main reasons so many Christians live defeated lives is that they have isolated themselves from other believers. Paul told the early Christians that they were each vital “parts” of the “body of Christ.” 

Every part of your body is important. If your little toe hurts, it can make your day miserable. The invisible parts, such as the heart, liver, and kidneys are vital for the life of the entire body. It is similar in the body of Christ. 

Read 1 Corinthians 12:14-27 and write what Paul said about each part of the “body”: 

Q. Who is the HEAD?

Q. Who are the MEMBERS?

Q. Are any MEMBERS insignificant?

Q. What are some of the most important PARTS? (v.22)

When you are joined together with other believers who are growing in Christ, you encourage one another, and keep each other “fired up” in your mutual faith. You enjoy one another’s company and build meaningful relationships together. 

Coming together with other believers in Christ’s name is similar to hot coals, which keep each other hot when lumped together. However, a coal that is separated from the others will soon grow cold. If you aren’t already attending a Christ-centered, Bible-teaching church, ask God to lead you to one. He will help you find the right one. 

Unique Gifts 

You are a unique creation of God. He has given you unique gifts that are needed in the body of Christ. In 1 Corinthians 12:4-11, Paul tells you some vital things about your gifts: 

Q. Who gave you your gifts? (v. 11)

Q. Which gift is most important? (vv. 21-23)

Q. What are you warned against? (v. 25)

Q. What are you to do for others? (v. 26)

Sadly, many leave the job of doing God’s work to those with gifts that are more obvious … such as the speaking gifts. However, God’s Word is clear that each gift is vital to His Kingdom. 

The entire body of Christ is commissioned and gifted to accomplish Jesus’ Great Commission … to “go into all the world and tell the Good News to everyone.” 

In one way, your role in the church is similar to a player on a basketball, foot­ball, or soccer team. Unless each player uses his skill and talent to play, the game could be lost. To win, each player must do his job well. He has gifted you to play your part in building God’s Kingdom. 

The Key to Loving Relationships 

Jesus knows your heart. He knows the difficulty we all have at times with one another. As humans, we all are tempted to gossip, judge, get angry, and accuse one another.

And yet, Jesus truly desires for us to love one another … and model His love to the world. Listen to what He told his disciples in some of His last comments to them: 

“So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples” (John 13:34-35). 

How many times have we failed Jesus by disobeying this command? Unfortunately, far too often. 

Love is the key to all of our relationships … but how do we get it? God gives us the answer in Paul’s letter to Timothy: “For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7). 

Q. According to this verse, where does love come from?

God’s Word tells us what love really means, and the fruit it produces in your daily interaction with others. (Read Galatians 5:22.) 

The Corinthian Church was full of “baby” Christians whom Paul called “carnal,” or “fleshly.” They had accepted Christ’s love for them, but treated each other largely from a selfish point of view. They were jealous, and continually griping and arguing (1 Corinthians 3:1-4). 

Q. What do you think is the solution to that kind of behavior?

Paul told the Corinthians what Christ’s love is like when we’re controlled by the Holy Spirit: 

“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). 

Q. Read the entire 13th chapter of 1 Corinthians, and write down your thoughts

Remember when we were studying the Holy Spirit? It is the Holy Spirit that gives you power to love with Christ’s love by faith. You can’t generate it on your own. Love is the result of abiding in Christ. 

Loving by Faith 

Corrie ten Boom was one of the few women who survived the torture and humiliation of Ravensbruck … a Nazi prison camp during World War II. 

Corrie’s faith in Christ had remained strong, even during times of degradation when she and all the other women were paraded naked in front of heckling male prison guards. 

The war was now over, and Corrie had devoted herself to speaking in churches of Christ’s love and forgiveness. 

One day, at a church service in Munich, Corrie was startled to see the SS man who was her former prison guard when she and the other women were herded into the showers like cattle. 

Corrie recalls the incident in her book, The Hiding Place: 

“He came up to me. ‘How grateful I am for your message … to think that, as you say, He has washed all my sins away!’ 

His hand was thrust out to shake mine. And I, who had preached so often … the need to forgive, kept my hand at my side. Even as the angry, vengeful thoughts boiled through me, I saw the sin of them. Jesus Christ had died for this man; was I going to ask for more? 

‘Lord Jesus,’ I prayed, ‘forgive me and help me to forgive him.’ 

I tried to smile, I struggled to raise my hand. I could not. I felt nothing, not the slightest spark of warmth or charity. And so, I breathed a silent prayer. ‘Jesus, I cannot forgive him. Give me your forgiveness.’ 

As I took his hand the most incredible thing happened. From my shoulder along my arm and through my hand a current seemed to pass from me to him, while into my heart sprang a love for this stranger that almost over­whelmed me. 

And so I discovered that it is not on our forgiveness any more than our goodness that the world’s healing hinges, but on His. 

When He tells us to love our enemies, He gives, along with the command, the love itself.” (The Hiding Place, Fleming H. Revell Co.) 

No matter how hard Corrie tried she didn’t have the power in herself to love this former enemy who had humiliated her. 

Yet she knew that Christ had commanded her to love everyone, even her enemies. 

By faith, Corrie confessed her sin, and turned the matter over to God. Her faith resulted in the power to obey. And, her obedience resulted in the great joy and peace that only comes when we abide in Christ. 

Q. Can you think of people in your life you can’t forgive?

Q. What does God tell us to do in Ephesians 4:32?

Take some time alone with God to confess your inability to forgive, and ask the Holy Spirit to forgive others through you. As you abide in Him, He will give you the power! 

Q. Jesus was our greatest example of forgiving others. Who did He forgive in Luke 23:34?

Joining Others 

If you aren’t already connected with others who love Jesus Christ, you are miss­ing out on God’s best for your life. He wants us to be part of a body where we use our gifts to build His Kingdom. 

How to get started: 

  • Ask God to direct you to other believers. 
  • Attend a Bible-teaching and outreaching church. 
  • Join a small Bible study and prayer group. 
  • Use your gifts to reach others for Christ. 
  • Find a mature believer who will “disciple” you. 
  • Ask God for someone you can disciple. 

“If we are living in the light of God’s presence, just as Christ is, then we have fellowship with each other” (1 John 1:7). 

Q. Read Hebrews 10:24-25. How can you apply these verses to your life?

60107 7. Obedience – Running to Win

In John 15, Jesus tells us that an abiding life is essential if we are to produce fruit for Him. Jesus also tells us that the only way to abide in Him is to be obedient to His commands. 

“If you keep my commandments, you will abide in My love; just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in His love” (John 15:10). 

If you are truly running to win the prize God has for you, then aim to please Christ by obeying His commands. Jesus said, “If you love me, obey my commandments” (John 14:15). 

Jesus is not saying that we are saved by obedience. Neither is He saying that we will lose our salvation when we disobey Him. Many people think that God loves us more when we obey Him than when we disobey Him. 

Nothing could be further from the truth. 

However, just as a loving parent disciplines a disobedient child, God will discipline us when we disobey. His love is expressed by discipline, not rejection. He wants the best for us, and that means He wants us to trust and obey Him. 

The entire Christian life is to be lived by faith, not works. Other religions give lists of rules to follow. But when we see how much God loves us, and that Jesus paid the ultimate price for our sins, we will want to obey Him. Trusting the Holy Spirit with your life will result in a life of obedience to his Word. 

Don’t be disappointed when progress in your Christian walk doesn’t happen as quickly as you want. Christian growth is a lifelong process. God is patient with you, and will never take His love away from you. Remember, the Holy Spirit will give you victory any moment you choose to obey Him. 

Many Christians say they trust God with their lives but refuse to obey His Word. James calls their faith “dead.” The abiding life, however, is to be lived by faith, trusting in God’s promises even when we are going through trials and don’t understand how God is answering our prayers. Remember the two circles we looked at earlier? 

Q. Which circle represents your life?

If Christ is directing your life, it will result in a transformation of both your walk and your talk. In other words, your character will become more like Christ’s character, and your words and actions will sound and look like Him. 

The Walk 

We have already seen that a life of obedience to Christ is based upon faith in His Word. You and I are totally unable to live the Christian life in our own strength. However, by faith in His promises, the Holy Spirit gives us the power to over­come trials and temptations. As we surrender our lives to Him, He conforms us into His likeness. 

Jesus is totally unlike us. Let’s take a look at just a few of the differences: 

JESUS IS:

  • Holy
  • Loving
  • Humble
  • Forgiving 
  • Obedient

MAN IS: 

  • Sinful
  • Unloving
  • Proud
  • Unforgiving
  • Disobedient  

In spite of the differences, the Holy Spirit is continually conforming us into Christ’s image.

Q. What does Paul tell us in Galatians 4:19?

Personal Holiness 

One of God’s attributes is holiness, which means He is morally pure and righteous, set apart from any unclean thought or deed. 

The Holy Spirit is working in our lives to remove all filthiness and lustful thinking. 

Nancy DeMoss writes, “True holiness starts on the inside–with our thoughts, attitudes, values, and motives–those innermost parts of our hearts that only God can see. It also affects our outward and visible behavior: ‘Be holy in all your conduct.’”

Q. What does Peter say in 1 Peter 1:15-16?

Q. What does Paul say in 1 Corinthians 6:18-20?

Love for Others 

The Holy Spirit is actively at work in giving us His supernatural love for others. His love is forgiving rather than judgmental, patient rather than irritable, and compassionate rather than easily angered and embittered towards others. Corrie ten Boom was only able to love the prison guard who demeaned and abused her when she made the choice to love him by faith. 

Many Christians are able to put on a good front, which appears loving while holding deep grudges and resentments inside. Christ’s love is totally different; it begins on the inside. 

Since it is impossible for us to simply improve our sinful natures, our act of obedience is to surrender our lives to the Holy Spirit and allow Him to make us like Christ. 

Q. What does Paul say in Galatians 3:3?

Q. What is Paul’s solution in Galatians 2:20?

Q. What does a Christ-centered life look like in Galatians 5:22?

Q. What areas of your walk with Christ have changed to become more like Him?

Q. What areas have not changed that still need to be surrendered to Him?

Your Greatest Investment 

Have you ever thought of your life as an investment? Jesus did. He continually compared your life with an investment of money. Jesus wants you to invest your life for the greatest possible return. He wants you to help build His Kingdom. 

Q. How are you currently investing your life?

The Three Servants 

Jesus told the story (in Luke 19) of a prince who had left his three servants a huge amount of money to invest for him. He would settle with them when he returned years later. When the time came to settle, and reward them for their faithfulness, the prince asked them for accounting. The first servant said, “Master, I doubled your money.” 

The prince was elated, and said, “Great job! Because you’ve earned me so much on that small investment, I’m going to put you in charge of ten cities!”

The second servant said, “Master, I made a fifty percent return on your investment.” The prince said to him, “I’ll put you in charge of five cities.” 

The third servant said, “Master, here’s your money, safe and sound. I kept it hidden in the basement since I was afraid to lose it. I know you … don’t put up with fools.” 

The prince was extremely disappointed… and told him, “You’re right that I don’t put up with fools…and you have been a fool! Why didn’t you at least invest the money in savings so that I would have gotten a little interest on it?” 

Then turning to the others standing nearby, the prince ordered, ‘Take the money from this servant, and give it to the one who earned the most.’ They objected, and said, ‘But Master, he already has double…” 

The prince then said, “That’s what I mean: Risk your life and get more than you ever dreamed of. Play it safe and end up holding the bag” (Luke 19:12- 27, The Message). 

Jesus told His disciples this story to give them the picture that God expects a return on our lives. In other words, He wants our lives to “count” for Him. 

Life on earth is short. Soon it will be over—then it will be too late to invest your life for Christ. 

The Judgment Seat of Christ 

The Bible makes it abundantly clear that when your life is over, you will have the great honor to stand before the Judgment Seat of Christ and receive rewards for your faithful service to Christ. (See 2 Corinthians 5:10.) 

All believers will give an account of their walk with Christ, but unfortunately, not all will receive rewards. 

Q. What does Paul say in 1 Corinthians 3:11-15?

Jesus wants you to invest your life for the greatest possible impact for His Kingdom. Like the prince who rewarded the first servant who doubled his investment, Jesus greatly desires to reward you. 

Expand Your Territory 

In The Prayer of Jabez, author Bruce Wilkinson relates how a relatively unknown man from the Old Testament, Jabez, asked God for “expanded territory” (1 Chronicles 4:9-10). Jabez wanted to be special for God. He wanted to invest his life for the greatest return. (This book will greatly challenge you.) 

D.L. Moody was a man who asked God to expand his territory. He made this statement: “The world has yet to see what one man who is totally sold out to Jesus Christ can accomplish. By God’s grace, I want to be that man!” 

Q. What 'expanded territory' are you asking God to give you?

Ambassadors for Christ 

In the same passage of Scripture that Paul tells the Corinthian believers about the Judgment Seat of Christ, Paul tells them another important fact: 

“We are Christ’s ambassadors” (2 Corinthians 5:20). 

A country selects an ambassador to represent them in the highest manner to another land. Great care is made by the King or President to select the finest representative. 

Your King has selected you to represent Him. You are God’s choice to reach others for Him. You are Christ’s “witness.” 

Your witness for Christ takes two basic forms: 

  • Witness by your “walk” 
  • Witness by your “talk” 

Walk Before You Talk

One reason to grow in your relationship with Christ is so others can see Christ in the way you live. This can have a huge impact on others. Jesus said: “Let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father” (Matthew 5:16). 

Q. Write down your thoughts on being Christ’s Ambassador

Work in Progress 

Don’t let the fact that you are a “work in progress” stop you from sharing Christ with others. Satan would love for you to keep silent about your new relationship with Christ. 

However, if you are not living for Christ, that behavior will be obvious, and sharing Christ will appear hypocritical to others. 

Q. Is there anything holding you back from sharing Christ with your friends and others?

Telling Others the Good News 

Have you ever thought about how many people you know, or rub shoulders with, who are hurting … and are disillusioned with life? In fact, some get so despondent that they consider ending it all. 

Q. Can you think of some people you have the opportunity to share Christ with?

How to Share Christ with Others 

You don’t need to be an expert in the Bible or have years of experience with Christ to witness for Him. There are several ways you can verbally share Christ on a daily basis. 

Informal Sharing 

You don’t have to make a complete presentation of the Gospel to make an impact for Christ. Ask the Holy Spirit to lead you to someone who is open to hearing more about Christ: 

  • Invite a friend to church or a study group which you attend. 
  • Give your personal testimony. 
  • Ask someone to join you at a Christian event. 
  • Introduce a friend to other Christians. 
  • Give out a Christian book or tract. 
  • Refer someone to Y-Jesus.com or another Christian website. 

The key to informal witnessing is to be available … and to ask God to lead you. He will! He has been waiting for you to ask Him! 

Presenting Christ’s Claims Directly 

Everyone needs an opportunity to hear the complete story of how much God loves him/her personally. Once you have established a relationship with a person, and “earned the right to be heard,” pray for an opportunity to share Christ with them. 

We recommend you read, “Is Jesus Relevant Today?” and take time to print it out. You might want to give an extra copy to the person with whom you are sharing Christ. This article emphasizes the fact that Christianity is a relationship with Jesus Christ rather than a set of rules to follow.

Most people reject Christianity because they really don’t understand what it is all about, or they misunderstand and think it is just “religion.” They don’t realize that it is a relationship with their Creator … Jesus Christ! The best way to witness … so that people really understand what the Bible says … is to make a concise presentation of the Gospel with your testimony and biblical references. 

Q. Write out your testimony about how you received Christ, and how He has changed you.

Here are some additional ideas on preparing and sharing your faith with another person: 

Pray 

Go to God about your friends … before you go to your friends about God. Ask God to prepare the person’s heart and to control you by the Holy Spirit. 

Use a Gospel Tract 

In order to be concise and not get side-tracked, use a good Gospel tract, such as The Four Spiritual Laws by Bill Bright (New Life Publications), or The Bridge (Navpress).

Use a Bible 

Carry a small Bible with you that has key verses underlined. It’s best to use a modern translation, such as the New Living Translation. Try to memorize the key verses for each point of the Gospel. 

Share Your Personal Testimony 

Write out your personal testimony, and review it with a friend until you can present it naturally in 3 to 5 minutes. Keep focused on how Christ has changed your life … and how much He means to you. Be enthusiastic … but not phony. Be transparent … and let them know this is real for you. 

Stay Focused 

You fight a spiritual battle when you share Christ with an unbeliever. There may be unusual interruptions … or the person might try to evade the real issues and get you off track. Pray, and keep focused on Christ’s love … and His death for them on the cross. Emphasize how important they are to God. 

Ask For A Decision 

When you have shared Christ with someone, and he or she is open to the mes­sage, don’t be afraid to ask for a decision. As the Holy Spirit leads, expect God to be working in their heart. Ask one of the following questions: 

  • “Does this make sense to you?” 
  • “Would you like to accept God’s Gift?” 
  • “Would you like to make sure?” 
  • “Would you like to ask Jesus into your life?” 

If the person you are sharing with is ready to receive Christ, pray with him or her, using the prayer in your tract, or the one that was included earlier in this booklet. 

The Next Step 

Once a person has come to Christ, it is vital that you share with them how they can grow in their relationship with God. Schedule a time to go through this booklet with them. 

It is also vital that they immediately get connected with other Christians … preferably people with whom they can relate. 

Passing the Baton 

When you lead a person to Christ, you are “passing the baton” to them. Teach them from God’s Word the discipleship principle Paul taught Timothy, so they will pass it on to others: “Teach these great truths to trustworthy people who are able to pass them on to others” (2 Timothy 2:2). 

For those who take God’s Word seriously and want to be discipled, it is strongly recommended that you schedule regular meetings (at least every other week), to get deeper into the Bible. Both a small group Bible study and one-on-one discipleship are recommended for a new believer. 

Run to Win! 

Your race goes on … and there are many miles to go! 

Marathon runners often get weary during the long race. Some quit. Those who finish strong are focused on the finish line, the satisfaction of doing well, and the prize ahead. 

God’s Word tells you how to finish strong: 

“Let us strip off every weight that slows us down … And let us run with endurance the race that God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, on whom our faith depends from start to finish” (Hebrews 12:12). 

Q. What weight is slowing you down?

Q. What changes have you made to ensure a well-run race?

Q. What’s the most important thing you have learned in this study?

When Christ is the center of your life, everything will be different. Your life will be full of joy and peace. You will want to please Him. God will give you love for other people, even your enemies. He can take ordinary people and make our lives purposeful and fruitful. 

“By His mighty power at work within us, He is able to accomplish infinitely more than we would ever dare to ask or hope” (Ephesians 3:20). 

Are you ready to risk it all for Christ? He is completely trustworthy … and will be with you in every mile of your race … even when you are weary and feel like quitting. Memorize these verses and hold on to God’s purpose for your life! 

“But those who wait on the Lord will find new strength. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint” (Isaiah 40:31). 

“It is the will of God that you keep on running. Run well, and receive the prize!” (1 Corinthians 9:24-26). 

“I know what I am planning for you,” says the LORD. “I have good plans for you, not plans to hurt you. I will give you hope and a good future” (Jeremiah 29:11).

34202 How to Deal with Your Anger

Anger is a universal problem. I have observed it in the primitive cannibals in Irian Jaya, uncivilized Indians in the remote jungles of Brazil, illiterate people in tiny villages deep in the forest of Zaire, my playmates when I was a child, in my parents, church members, pastors, highly educated people, the very rich, people in government, and yes, even in myself. Call it what you will: mad, angry, frustrated, annoyed, perturbed, ticked off–all of these words represent a form of anger.

You cannot decide to be angry. You can take elaborate precautions to avoid being angry. But, alas, sooner or later, anger underneath your skin is triggered by a memory, someone’s behavior, a conversation, a phone call, or a letter. It can cause your heart to beat faster, make you sweat, tense up your muscles, foul up your digestive system, alter the way you think, dictate how you act, and trigger negative words from your mouth.

There seems to be universal agreement that anger must be tamed. Yet there is vast disagreement over the cause and the cure.

I have been aware of anger within me as far back as I can remember. Usually I could ignore it, express it safely to people like my parents, swallow it, or work it off in various activities like tennis or basketball.

The first time that I was conscious that I could not manage my anger occurred in my late twenties. At that time, I had a boss who kept me riled up most of the day, a wife who persisted in frustrating me by doing things her way rather than my way, and a tiny toddler who irritated me constantly by simply wanting my attention when I didn’t want to give it. These three people backed me into a corner. They didn’t even know it.

They forced me to face up to the fact that there was something in me that was activated by them and turned me into a person who said things I was sorry for, did things that I regretted, thought things that frightened me, and caused my body (heart, stomach, and muscles) to malfunction.

The solution came for me when I was convinced that I was helpless and needed to be saved from myself. The Bible described my condition exactly: “Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it” (Romans 7:20).

This sentence sums up what almost everyone says when they come to counseling with an anger problem: “My anger is a normal and justifiable response to the way I was treated.”

No one inquires about the possibility of anger being a sin in his or her heart. That word has almost disappeared from their vocabulary. These people seek relief from restlessness, nervousness or anxiety. Their buzzwords are “stressed out” or “burned out.” They are disturbed about their relationships with their spouses, children, other family members, social contacts or people at work or church. People admit anger reluctantly. If they do admit it, they are quick to justify it.

Individuals do come to seek advice when they are the recipients of someone else’s anger. For example, a wife will talk to me about her husband: “When in a good mood, Ted is a pleasant person to be around, but if you catch him when he’s mad–look out. I can tell his mood by the way he shuts the door. If he nearly breaks the window in slamming it, I brace myself for his first complaint.”

And come it will, followed by others. “Why don’t you make those kids keep their bicycles out of the driveway?” “Turn off that TV. There’s racket enough around here without that thing adding to it!” “Women drivers! They should it be kept off the highways after 3:00 in the afternoon!”

It is my observation that almost everyone resists calling any kind of anger “sin.” Multitudes of people (including me) have faced up to problems such as drinking, swearing, or stealing as sin and now it’s behind us. It’s been dealt with.

Dealing with anger is different. You can be completely and totally repentant over your anger. Confession leads to welcome relief from tension. I suspect that most people experience some anger every week. You think you have dealt with it, and it shows up again.

I have observed that one difficulty in dealing with anger is the wide range of intensity with which it can be expressed. On the one end, there is such extreme anger that it leads to violent physical abuse or even murder. We have no difficulty recognizing such anger as sin. But, on the other end of the continuum, is anger that is so mild as to be almost unnoticeable. This “annoyance level” of anger is easy to ignore; for example, mild frustration at a child who won’t make his bed, at a nearly empty gas tank in the car, at a traffic light, or at an impolite clerk.

You can compare anger to the flow of contaminated water into a tub. A wide-open faucet yields the same kind of water as a dripping faucet. One drop at a time will gradually fill a tub if the drain hole is plugged. It may take weeks to fill the tub with contaminated water, but eventually there will come a time when one more drop will make the water spill over the top. All that water came from the same polluted source.

Extreme anger is easy to recognize and impossible to ignore. The body pumps adrenaline into the bloodstream, causing the heartbeat to accelerate, the blood pressure to rise, the mouth to become dry, the muscles to become tense, the mental faculties to become alert, and the emotions to become disturbed.

A drop of anger is not as easy to recognize. To put it another way, it is easy to ignore. Bodily changes are hardly noticeable, but the effects are cumulative. The symptoms are anxiety, restlessness or tension. These drops of anger build up in the body. Eventually, one more incident (major or minor), and anger spills over the top. I listen to people who are puzzled over certain responses that surprise themselves:

“I heard myself screaming at the children to come into the house.”

“I was so mad I actually hit her. It was over which tie I should wear.”

“He lives a thousand miles away. At times, when someone mentions his name, I am fully consumed with anger in a matter of seconds.”

34204 Put Away Anger and Bitterness

I’ve discovered that a lot of people who read the Bible don’t like what it says. For instance, Ephesians 4:31 instructs us to “let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and evil speaking, be put away from you.”

Maybe you struggle with some of these emotions, feeling you have a right to them because of how you’ve been treated. But Ephesians goes on to say, “Be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake has forgiven you.”

Now being kind and forgiving someone is extremely difficult when your feelings aren’t so loving! However, at some point, even though you may not want to, you decide to try to love the one who has mistreated you. To your surprise, you discover that it doesn’t work! You can control what you say, the way you look at them, and the way you behave, but you can’t control your feelings. Why is that?

2 Corinthians 3:5-6 gives us an answer: “Not that we are sufficient of ourselves to think any thing as of ourselves; but our sufficiency is of God; Who also hath made us able ministers of the new testament; not of the letter, but of the Spirit, for the letter killeth, but the Spirit giveth life.” So yes, you can possibly control your behavior, and the way you talk, but you can’t control your spirit. The Christian life isn’t a matter of self-improvement, or will power, or determination, it’s a matter of a changed heart, and only God can change your heart!

Ask God to change your heart!

Take a step . . .
Ask God in prayer to show you the real condition of your heart. Admit to Him your wrong emotions, desires, and selfishness. Tell Him you’re sorry and ask Him to forgive and cleanse you. Ask Him to help you to submit to Him and to fill your heart with kindness, tenderheartedness, forgiveness, and love.

34206 Perfect Love Casts Out Fear

It’s agonizing. Any gathering of people frightens me. In a traffic jam, I feel like jumping out of the car and running away. I force myself to go to church and sit there with a feeling of suspense. Even a few customers lined up to buy something in my place of business frighten me. I feel trapped.”

The gentleman speaking was a college graduate and successful in business. He went on, “It started when we moved to an apartment. The people below us and beside us were noisy. We could hear their radios. They would drop things. Often another car was in my parking space. Finally, I insisted on moving to our own home. My wife wasn’t bothered at all by these things and she resisted our moving back to a home of our own, so now there is a wall building between us.

“I used to enjoy people. Now I even feel anxious about going out for dinner.”

It is a helpless feeling for a successful businessman to be tormented by vague fears that seemingly have no origin.

We turned together to the Bible to see if there was some help for him. There we found a verse that threw some light on his problem: “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear: because fear has torment. He that has fear is not made perfect in love” (1 John 4:18).

His problem was not vague, after all. He was an irritable man. His reactions to his neighbors, to his wife, to the man in the parking lot were hostile. Even though he was well educated and successful, his heart was not filled with love. In his effort to ignore his feelings of irritation and anger, he became anxious and convinced himself that his anxiety was caused by being in crowds. Then he became fearful of being in the presence of any people. The more he thought about this, the more fearful he became.

”Do you mean that my problem is not fear, but a lack of love?” he asked. He couldn’t accept this idea. He had always thought of himself as a friendly, congenial person. He left our meeting unbelieving and crushed.

We continued to talk for many weeks. Gradually, he acknowledged that he was an irritable person. He began to realize that there was nothing to fear in the midst of people. Repentantly, he asked the Lord to forgive him and to change his heart. The grace of God and His love took away the fear of saying or doing something that would embarrass him because of his irritations.

34208 Overcoming Resentment

Amy was a widow–the consequence of a motorcycle accident. Her husband was killed instantly. It happened two years earlier, and she continued to grieve over the loss of her husband. He was fun-loving and outgoing. She missed his friendly, cheerful presence. She always looked forward to his coming home. They were best friends. There were no children. She now lives alone in the house they were buying. She works in the church office and loves her job. When the church doors are open, she is always there. But going home is hard and lonely. Some friends have suggested that she move out of the house and live somewhere else. Her house holds too many memories.

That statement caught my attention. What kind of memories? Isn’t it good to have happy memories? Is it possible that there are unhappy memories that crowd out the happy ones? I encouraged her to recall some unhappy memories toward the people who caused the accident that killed her husband.

She took me by surprise. Yes, there were unhappy memories. They centered around that motorcycle. She did not want him to buy it. In the first place, it was a strain on the budget. They could not afford a powerful motorcycle and a decent car–so they drove a ten-year-old car. They would go for long motorcycle rides in the evenings. He was a bit reckless, cutting in and out, going too fast. She hated those rides. He loved them. He insisted on riding the motorcycle to church. She despised showing up at church with her helmet and messed-up hair.

One night he proposed that they go for a ride. It was an ideal evening. She did not want to go. The discussion became heated, but she stood her ground. He went for a ride alone. A car went through a stop sign and hit him broadside. He died on the pavement.

How does she feel when she talks about this? It makes her mad. He left her with an old car, house payments, and even motorcycle payments. He was underinsured, which left her to pay off some debts. She hates writing those checks. If only he had listened to her, it would not have happened. Her thoughts are usually disapproval of his choices. She resents the position he left her in. Over and over, she reviews her grudge against him.

I could see another problem. But when to speak and when to wait is often difficult to discern. The Bible says, “Speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ” (Ephesians 4:15).

My heart went out to her. Was she ready for my opinion? What does she think I will say? She thinks I will tell her to quit resenting her husband. But she tells herself that she is entitled to resent him. I agree. Her husband left her in a mess. She can nurse her grudge against her husband as long as she wishes. But she must realize that she is punishing herself. As long as she holds her grudge, her life is anchored in the past. Over and over again she relives the agony of that day and nurses her resentment. She can be released from this bondage only if she is ready to let it go.

Jesus instructs us to forgive men their trespasses (Matthew 6:14) and to love one another (John 13:34), so I finally said, “One option you have is to forgive your husband, repent of your resentment, let the Lord forgive you, and then ask him to fill your heart with love.”

She was ready for that opportunity. I observed a miracle as she released her grudge, asked for forgiveness, and received the love of God in her heart. Immediately she was released from her burden, and now she is free.

Amy’s experience illustrates what happens when two problems coexist. One can overshadow the other. It seems reasonable that the tragic death of her husband would explain her misery. In this case however, it was the resentment that held the sting.

34210 Escaping Difficult Situations

“Love, joy, and peace would be ours if only we could get off this island.” These were the words of a couple who found themselves in a frustrating situation.

You might identify with this couple’s statement because you’re feeling, “If I could only get out of the situation I’m in, that would do it for me. I could be happy. I could do the Lord’s work. I could love other people.”

But the truth of the matter is: God is with us in every situation, and He is with us right where we are! What we need to discover is how to respond appropriately to our current circumstances. You can either have a wonderful time underneath your skin, or a miserable time underneath your skin, and it’s all up to you. The question is: Do you want to experience true peace, or are you more content with being angry, with bearing a grudge, with complaining, with being cranky? The answer to that question requires some personal reflection!

Jesus has offered us a solution to responding to our difficult situations! In Matthew 11:28, He calls us to “Come unto me all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me. I am gentle and humble in My heart, and you will find rest for your soul.”

“Come unto Me . . .” Not come with me to the golf course or the gym. Not come and engage with me in a class or some form of recreation. Not “just get busy” with me as we take on planning a party, or a trip or a church event. “Come unto Me!” True contentment and peace is found in HIM!

John 14:27 tells us, “Peace I leave with you. My peace I give unto you. Not as the world gives.” “Not as the world gives” is an important point. There are two kinds of peace: the world’s kind and the Lord’s kind. And it’s important to know the difference between the two. The world’s kind of peace offers exercise and all kinds of facilities where you can work off your tensions and find relaxation. To get your mind off yourself, there are books, radio, TV, and hobbies. And there are fun things to occupy your time, as well as all kinds of relaxation courses and exercises. All these “outlets” can keep you occupied for years, but they ultimately only offer the world’s peace.

The Lord’s kind of peace is a peace that gets into your soul. In John 16:33, Jesus says “These things have I spoken unto you that IN ME you should have peace. In the world you’ll have trouble, but I have overcome the world” [emphasis added]. Jesus is talking about an untroubled heart in a troubled world. Isn’t that what you’re looking for?

God is just waiting to give you that peace. He’s waiting for you to ask Him to give you that peace, to open up your life to Him. Allow Him to change you, and challenge you, and transform your inner reactions to life’s situations.

Read Matthew 11:28, John 14:27, and John 16:33.

Take a step . . .

Find a little time to evaluate your reactions to your current situations.

What is keeping you from experiencing God’s love, joy, and peace?

Are you willing to yield yourself to the Lord?

Are you willing to release the emotions to Him that are affecting your life in a negative way?

Do you truly desire His peace?

Ask God to fill you with His peace and to show you how you can change.