32921 Discerning God’s Plan for You

ZERO IN on God’s Plan for your life

God has an individual plan for your life–a life mission that will reveal His best for you.

“For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” —Ephesians 2:10

God wants us to develop a “discerning heart”. God knew what He wanted us to accomplish with our life before we even came into being. He has a specific plan in mind and wants us to learn how to recognize it.

(Jesus speaking)
“I have brought you glory on earth by completing the work you gave me to do.” —John 17:4

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you,
plans to give you hope and a future.”— Jeremiah 29:11

(Jesus speaking) “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” — John 10:10

“Many, O LORD my God, are the wonders you have done. The things you planned for us no one can recount to you; were I to speak and tell of them, they would be too many to declare.” — Psalms 40:5

But how can we discover God’s unique plan for our life? How can we understand God’s leading in our situation on issues that are not specifically addressed in the Scriptures?

And furthermore, how can we be assured that directions we are sensing are from God?

➢ When were you in a situation where you did what you believed God wanted you to do but then later you questioned if that had really been God’s will after all?

In this lesson we will be look at five principles that can help us discover God’s specific will for current situation and our life.

1. Understand the nature of God’s unfolding plan for your life.

God’s plan for our life is revealed progressively, one situation at a time. But we want to know the final outcome of our life right now. If we could see what God intends for our life, then, we could determine if we wanted to accept the plan He has for us. But that doesn’t involve any trust or faith in God. If we liked what we saw and what we would get out of God’s plan, then we would be willing to commit ourselves. Otherwise, we would decide to pursue our own plan.

God’s plan is like a tapestry that interweaves common threads with unique ones.

God doesn’t operate that way. He wants us to trust Him and walk by faith. And ultimately, the issue is not if we are pleased with the results of our life but whether God is pleased, honored, and glorified.

So it’s much more beneficial to concentrate on discerning the next step, instead of trying to guess the ultimate outcome.

A few of the common threads…

We please God:

  • By pursuing intimacy with God
  • By becoming Christlike in our character
  • By building up others in Christ
  • By being His Kingdom ambassadors to those who don’t know Him

✦ God wants you to please Him… (John 5:30; Colossians 1:10)

✦ God wants you to have an everlasting relationship with Him. (Acts 17:26-2; Ephesians 1:4; 1 Peter 1:1-2)

✦ God wants you to experience His best for all eternity. (Psalms 40:5; John 10:10; Romans 12:2)

✦ God wants you to live by faith, trusting Him to help you and the Holy Spirit to empower you. (Proverbs 3:5-6; 2 Corinthians 5:7; Galatians 3:3; Ephesians 3:16; Hebrews 11:6)

✦ God wants your character to be developed through adversity. (Job 23:10; James 1:2-4; 1 Peter 1:6-7)

✦ God wants you to cooperate with Him so that together you will fulfill the mission He has for you. (Deuteronomy 13:4; Job 22:21; Matthew 6:33)

God’s plan involves more than just knowing what He wants you to do.

Elements of God’s specific plan for your current situation

➢ What are some Biblical examples that illustrate these various components of God’s plan?

2. Prepare yourself to hear God.

God is not reluctant to make His will known to us. If we are not receiving direction, it may be that we don’t have a receptive heart attitude. God will not reveal specifics until we are ready and willing. There are several ways in which we may prepare our heart to hear God.

✦ By getting right with God.
If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. —1 John 1:9

“Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.” —James 4:8

(2 Corinthians 6:16; 7:1; Hebrews 10:22; 12:14)

✦ By surrendering your will to God.
We know that God does not listen to sinners. He listens to the godly man who does His will. —John 9:31

“Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on level ground.” —Psalms 143:10 

(Proverbs 16:3; 23:26; Romans 12:1; 1 John 3:21-22)

✦ By humbling yourself before Him.
And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God. —Micah 6:8

✦ By renewing my mind with His truth.
…be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is— his good, pleasing and perfect will. —Romans 12:2

(Proverbs 3:5-6)

✦ By having a mindset of faith, trust, and expectancy toward God.
We live by faith, not by sight. —2 Corinthians 5:7

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.”

(Romans 14:23; Hebrews 10:23, 36, 38; 11:6)

✦ By being patient and willing to wait on God.
“Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD.” —Psalms 27:14

3. Recognize the directional signposts.

If you want God to lead you then you must watch for it with anticipation.

The boy Samuel ministered before the LORD under Eli. In those days the word of the LORD was rare; there were not many visions…

The LORD called Samuel a third time, and Samuel got up and went to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.” Then Eli realized that the LORD was calling the boy. So Eli told Samuel, “Go and lie down, and if He calls you, say, ‘Speak, LORD, for your servant is listening.’”

So Samuel went and lay down in his place. The LORD came and stood there, calling as at the other times, “Samuel! Samuel!” Then Samuel said, “Speak, for your servant is listening.” —1 Samuel 3:1-10

Samuel had not yet learned how to recognize God’s voice. There are a variety of ways in which God tries to get our attention. But we have to learn how to differentiate between His supernatural involvement and common everyday occurrences.

“I know, O LORD, that a man’s life is not his own; it is not for man to direct his steps.” —Jeremiah 10:23

What do God’s directional signposts look like?

✦ God directs our steps through His Word, the Bible.
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path. “—Psalms 119:105

“All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” —2 Timothy 3:16-17

“For the Word of God is living and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” —Hebrews 4:12

(Joshua 1:8; Proverbs 6:22-23)

➢ When have you approached the Scriptures with a specific need and almost had a passage jump off the page at you in response to that need?

✦ God directs our steps through the prompting of the Holy Spirit who indwells us.

“But when He, the Spirit of truth, comes, He will guide you into all truth.” —John 16:13

“…those who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.”—Romans 8:14

“…for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.” —Philippians 2:13

(John 14:26)

➢ When did you have an inner impression or feeling that you sensed may be from the Holy Spirit trying to direct your steps?

✦ God directs our steps through other people.

Make plans by seeking advice; if you wage war, obtain guidance. —Proverbs 20:18

“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” —Proverbs 15:22

“For lack of guidance a nation falls, but many advisers make victory sure.” —Proverbs 11:14

➢ When have you listened to someone and suddenly it was as if God was speaking through them to you about your situation?

✦ God directs our steps through providential circumstances.

But Joseph said to them, …You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.—Genesis 50:19-20

“In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps.” —Proverbs 16:9

“The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the LORD.” —Proverbs 16:33

“In Him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of Him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of His will…” —Ephesians 1:11

(Acts 17:26-27)

➢ When have you noticed events or circumstances that seemed to be orchestrated by God trying to direct your steps?

4. Seek God’s confirmation to avoid presumption.

We should always use caution in trying to discern God’s leading. Satan can masquerade as an angel of light and he employs legions of deceiving spirits. Just because you have a strong feeling or belief that something is from God, doesn’t mean it is.

Our perception doesn’t validate reality. We must always look to God for confirmation before committing ourselves. It is too easy to slip into the trap of presumption (James 4:13-15).

1) Does it comply with the directions given in God’s written Word?

God’s written Word should always be the first standard we use to verify assumed direction.

If the leading is not compatible with the Scriptures then it is not from God. What Biblical passages relate to this issue? Would this violate any scriptural principle or command? Is there an account of someone’s situation that can provide an insight?

The following questions highlight a few of the major directives of the Bible that should be considered.

“Direct my footsteps according to your word; let no sin rule over me.” —Psalms 119:133

✦ Does it demonstrate love for God?

“If you love me, you will obey what I command.” —John 14:15

✦ Does it demonstrate love for others?

The commandments… are summed up in this one rule: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does no harm to its neighbor. —Romans 13:9-10

✦ Does it promote personal holiness? 

For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. —1 Thessalonians 4:7

✦ Does it reflect the fruit of the Spirit?

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control…” —Galatians 5:22

✦ Does it require faith and trust in God?

“And without faith it is impossible to please God,…” —Hebrews 11:6

2) Does it make sense when you use sanctified reasoning that is based on God’s truth?

“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is— His good, pleasing and perfect will.” —Romans 12:2

As we renew our mind with God’s truth our reasoning will become more sound. If something doesn’t make sense ask the Holy Spirit to show you why. Don’t proceed until it does.

3) Does it seem to be confirmed by the surrounding circumstances?

“In Him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of Him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of His will,…” —Ephesians 1:11

How does the assumed direction relate to other circumstances effecting your situation? Does God appear to be opening doors or closing them?

4) Does it concur with the advice you have received from wise Godly counselors?

“Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” —Proverbs 15:22

As you discuss the assumed direction with others who are wise, mature believers, what is their advice?

5) Does it generate a supernatural inner peace and calmness that cannot be attributed to your circumstances?

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” —Philippians 4:6-7

Do you have an inner peace about the proposed direction? Natural peace may be associated with any plan that promises to change a difficult situation.

But the peace of God is only identifiable in the midst of trials and tribulation.

It is not necessary to have an affirmative answer for each of these five questions before moving ahead. It may not be possible to answer every question. However, if any one question suggests the direction may not be good, you should wait until it is resolved. In other words, any one of the five has veto power over moving forward. But you don’t need five “yeses” to proceed, assuming you are unable to answer one or two of the questions.

5. Take the next step by faith– unless God is telling you to wait.

Walk in the direction that God has pointed you and watch for signs of confirmation or re-direction.

It’s difficult to steer a car that’s not moving. So prayerfully take steps based on what God has already showed you and expect Him to guide you.

“Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love,
for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go,
for to you I lift up my soul… Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on level ground.” —Psalms 143:8-10

“Who, then, is the man that fears the LORD? He will instruct him in the way chosen for him.” —Psalms 25:12

Walk in the direction of the light that you have been given. Remember, you don’t need to know everything. You just need to know enough to take the next step by faith. When you do, the Holy Spirit will either give you more direction and light so you may take another step, or you will have to wait for further instruction.

When God is guiding you one step at a time, you will still arrive at His predetermined destination. But you are totally subject to God’s timetable. Whenever we are able to see a long ways down the road, it’s easy to stop depending on God and take over the journey. Then, invariably, we wind up getting ahead of His schedule too.

God doesn’t want us to run ahead—He wants us to hold His hand and make the journey together. That’s when we are most responsive to His leading.

(Psalms 25:8-9)

➢ How have you seen this principle demonstrated in your life?

32587 Choose Wisely

God wants us to have a “wise” heart. Knowledge and understanding are not enough. They must be applied correctly to our situation so God will be pleased with our choices. Only then will our life truly honor Him.

“We have not stopped praying for you and asking God to fill you with the knowledge of His will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding. And we pray this in order that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and may please Him in every way…” – Colossians 1:9-10

Sometimes we make the wrong decision because of ignorance. We chose without the right knowledge or understanding of the matter at hand. But there are other times when we clearly understand what is right, but choose to do something different anyway.

➢ Can you think of a situation where you clearly understood the truth but then deliberately chose to do something different?

Do you ever wonder why God has given us the freedom to choose our own destiny?

It is hard to imagine God, Supreme Authority of the universe, granting us the right to choose against His desires. And yet, He has chosen to give us this right of self-determination. By giving us this freedom, our decisions of obedience have value. But, choosing our way also has consequences.

Do you ever wonder why God permits us to choose things that are contrary to His will?

Before God ever created Lucifer, He knew about the rebellion that would follow. He knew the pain and suffering that would result. He knew the supreme sacrifice He would need to make for His purposes to be fulfilled. And yet, He was willing to give Lucifer and mankind the right to choose. Somehow the end result would be worth the problems and enormous sacrifice.

Do you ever wonder what your life would be like today if you had made better choices?

Your decisions determine your future.

Every day we choose

  • what we will think
  • what we will say
  • what we will do

What we think shapes what we say and what we say influences what we do.

“Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.” – Galatians 6:7-8

The decisions we make today become the building blocks of our future.

➢ Are you choosing to think with a renewed mind or with the world’s deceptive philosophies?

➢ Are you choosing to speak words that build or words that destroy?

➢ Are you choosing to do acts of righteousness or deeds of darkness?

God has given us the freedom to choose but He has not given us freedom from the consequences. We need to choose wisely because we are choosing our future.

There are five principles for making wise choices that lead to God’s best.

1. Choose wisely by using God’s truth in reasoning.

Good decisions are based on sound reasoning.

However, meticulous reasoning with the wrong input still results in wrong conclusions…

  • Conclusions which we assume to be factual.
  • Conclusions which will direct our actions.

A computer can make all the right calculations and still produce the wrong answer if the original input was faulty.

In Romans 12:2 we are told, “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is––his good, pleasing, and perfect will.”

Thinking with a renewed mind is absolutely essential for wise decision making. When our decisions are based on God’s truth, the result will prove to be in harmony with God’s desires. That is why it is so important for us to learn how to focus on God’s perspective.

Perspective/Perception > Beliefs/Values > Decision-making > Quality of Life

Our perspective on life and perception of the world around us form our values and beliefs. Our decision-making is usually influenced by our belief system. Small decisions we make in our daily living shape our life and determine the quality of life.

➢ Are your decisions based on God’s perspective of reality or on what the world promotes as truth?

We choose wisely when our decisions are based on what God says in His Word–not what the world claims is reality.

2. Choose wisely by listening to the Holy Spirit.

The Holy Spirit directs us through our human spirit.

The Hierarchy of our being.

The body is like a chariot.                Our body is to be a servant to the soul
The soul is like the horses.               Our soul is to be a servant to the spirit.
The spirit is like the charioteer.      Our spirit is to be a servant to God.

Within our soul, our will is the decision-making center.

That is where we choose. But what we decide is determined
by what we permit to be the dominant influence in our decision-making process.

The Holy Spirit communicates with us through our spirit. But we can only hear His inner voice when we quiet our minds and emotions. However, this is not natural to us. First, we must find an environment that is free from noisy distractions. Then we must eliminate mental distractions and preoccupation. We will not discern the Spirit’s leading if our mind is racing. And finally, we must quiet our emotions and yield our will to God. As we wait before the Lord in this quiet state, our will may sense direction through the intuition of our spirit or through the insights of our renewed mind. Fulfilling these preparatory steps does not guarantee the Spirit will speak to us at that time. It merely puts us in a receptive state should He choose to. Apart from this discipline, we will continue to follow the voices of human reasoning and/or fickle emotions. And invariably, we will choose based on our fleshly desires.

In 1 John 2:6 we are told, Whoever claims to live in Him must walk as Jesus did.

“Do not offer the parts of your body to sin, as instruments of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God, as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer the parts of your body to Him as instruments of righteousness.” – Romans 6:13

➢ Are you being sensitive to the Holy Spirit’s direction or making decisions based on what your mind, feelings or senses are promoting?

3. Choose wisely by bringing your will into harmony with God.

In the beginning, there was only one will in the universe—it was the will of God. Peace, joy, and harmony were everywhere.

God wants us to choose His will and purposes. Self-will always leads to destruction.

You said in your heart, “I will ascend to heaven; I will raise my throne above the stars of God; I will sit enthroned on the mount of assembly, on the utmost heights of the sacred mountain. I will ascend above the tops of the clouds; I will make myself like the Most High.” But you are brought down to the grave, to the depths of the pit. – Isaiah 14:13-15

We will never be greater than what God has planned for us. We can only be less.

It is not possible to achieve a higher position or role in life than that which God has determined for you before creation. Self-promotion and self-exaltation will never lead us to God’s best.

Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the LORD God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’”
“You will not surely die,” the serpent said to the woman.
“For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”
When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it. – Genesis 3:1-6

Disobedience and independence from God do not bring fulfillment— it brings judgment.

4. Choose wisely by making decisions with your new identity.

Our decisions are consistent with our self-image.

How you see yourself determines the choices you make.

But when you were spiritually born again God radically changed you.

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!” – 2 Corinthians 5:17

At the time of your spiritual birth, you were transformed into a totally new person with a new nature. On the outside, you still look the same but on the inside, God gave you a new identity in Christ. It’s like being adopted. You may not feel any different after the adoption papers have been signed, but in reality, you have become part of a new family, with new legal rights and a different destiny. That is what happened to you spiritually. As a result, you must learn who you are now in Christ so you may make choices consistent with this spiritual transformation. It is foolish to live in the past by continuing to make decisions based on your old identity. What would a child of God choose? What would a righteous saint choose? What would a member of the body of Christ choose? What would an ambassador for God choose?

“You, however, did not come to know Christ that way. Surely you heard of him and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.” – Ephesians 4:20-24

“Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature…You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived…Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.” – Colossians 3:5-10

“…clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.” – Romans 13:14

In order to live out your new nature, you must consciously disown those characteristics which are inconsistent with who you are now in Christ and by faith, embrace the traits of your new identity. Don’t subconsciously continue to make decisions with a self-image that is rooted in the old nature.

Choose wisely by acknowledging your new nature and make decisions that are consistent with your new identity in Christ.

5. Choose wisely by committing yourself to God’s priorities.

God has given you new priorities that are consistent with your new nature.

God has given us spiritual priorities for decision making that point us in the right direction for life. These four priorities are like a spiritual compass that will lead us to eternal significance and fulfillment.

“Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God…” – Colossians 3:1-4

We’ve all heard the saying, “He’s so heavenly minded, he’s no earthly good. But in reality, we are usually so earthly minded, we are no heavenly good.”

Four spiritual priorities point out the direction that leads to God’s best.

✦ Commit yourself to pursuing intimacy with God.

“Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment.” – Matthew 22:37-38

✦ Commit yourself to becoming Christlike in your character.

“For from the very beginning God decided that those who come to Him… should become like His Son.” – Romans 8:29 (TLB)

✦ Commit yourself to building up one another in Christ.

“Why is it that He gives us these special abilities to do certain things best? It is that God’s people will be equipped to do better work for Him building up the Church, the body of Christ, to a position of strength and maturity.” – Ephesians 4:12 (TLB)

✦ Commit yourself to being God’s ambassador to those who don’t know Him.

“We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God.” – 2 Corinthians 5:20

➢ How do your life goals reflect these spiritual priorities?

God has given us the freedom to choose but He has not given us freedom from the consequences.

32824 Warfare Prayer

Put on the armor of God and pray.

The armor is God’s gracious gift for protection which is put on with prayer. But, it is to be used in the context of our personal relationship with Him. God does not want putting on His armor to become a mechanical exercise.

“With every prayer and petition, pray at all times in the Spirit, and to this end be alert, with all perseverance and petitions for all the saints.” – Ephesians 6:18

Prayer is the supreme weapon in spiritual warfare.

Pray in the Spirit

“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness, for we do not know how we should pray, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with inexpressible groanings. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes on behalf of the saints according to God’s will.” – Romans 8:26-27

“And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.” – John 14:13

Pray at all times

“Constantly pray” – 1 Thessalonians 5:17

“Keep thinking about things above, not things on the earth” – Colossians 3:2

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened for you” – Matthew 7:7

“All these continued together in prayer with one mind, together with the women, along with Mary the mother of Jesus, and his brothers.” – Acts 1:14

Be prayerfully alert

“Be devoted to prayer, keeping alert in it with thanksgiving.” – Colossians 4:2

Pray for all believers

“As far as I am concerned, far be it from me to sin against the Lord by ceasing to pray for you! I will instruct you in the way that is good and upright.” – 1 Samuel 12:23

“For God, whom I serve in my spirit in the gospel of his Son, is my witness that I continually remember you 10 and I always ask in my prayers, if perhaps now at last I may succeed in visiting you according to the will of God.” – Romans 1:9-10

32823 The Armor of God

Spiritual warfare requires spiritual weapons. When we put on God’s armor we can resist Satan and stand against evil.

Can you imagine how foolish it would be for soldiers to go out on the battlefield without any weapons or defensive gear? And yet, that is exactly what many believers do every day.

As Christians we are God’s soldiers who live on a spiritual battlefield. Therefore Paul uses the analogy of Roman armor to describe the protective defenses God has provided for us. Each piece of armor has its specific function. It is only when we use all of the pieces together that we are able to resist Satan’s various schemes and stand against his assaults.

Ephesians 6:13-17: “For this reason, take up the full armor of God so that you may be able to stand your ground on the evil day, and having done everything, to stand. Stand firm therefore, by fastening the belt of truth around your waist, by putting on the breastplate of righteousness, by fitting your feet with the preparation that comes from the good news of peace, and in all of this, by taking up the shield of faith with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. And take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit (which is the word of God).”

The Belt of Truth

Satan’s tactic: To deceive us with lies and distortions by using deceptions that have been dressed up to look like the truth, lies that have been mixed in with the truth, and misrepresentations of the truth taken out of context. He wants us to base our life on worldly philosophies and illusions of reality.

Usually we think of a belt as an accessory. It’s nice to wear a belt but not critical unless your pants are very loose and baggy. For a Roman soldier, however, the belt was absolutely essential. Before battle the soldier would pull up all the loose parts of the tunic that he wore as his primary clothing. By tucking it under his belt, he could run and move freely without getting tangled up. The belt also held the breastplate in place and the scabbard for his sword.

In the same way, truth is also foundational to our spiritual defenses. The belt of truth protects us from Satan’s deceptions. Jesus said, “If you continue to follow my teaching, you are really my disciples and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” (John 8:31-32). You must accept the Bible as the absolute authority for truth and reality.

Buckle the belt of truth around your waist so Satan can’t destroy your perception of reality through deception, because he doesn’t want you to know the truth. If we are not operating on the basis of God’s truth, then we are out-of-touch with reality. Without truth as the basis for our reasoning we are easily manipulated by Satan’s schemes. Every decision we make will moves us further away from what God desires for us.

The Breastplate of Righteousness

Satan’s tactic: To berate us with accusations and condemnation by reminding us of past sins that have already been confessed to God and forgiven, and by creating false guilt about things for which God does not hold us responsible. Satan wants us to rely upon our own self-goodness for our acceptance before God. He wants us to become totally absorbed in the sinfulness of our flesh. He wants us to ignore the fact that the blood of Christ has totally cleansed us from all our unrighteousness.

The most common breastplate used by Roman soldiers was made of molten metal. It covered the torso from the neck down to the thighs. Its purpose was to protect the heart and bowels. In the Hebrew culture it was believed that emotions originate in this part of the body. Paul associates the breastplate with righteousness.

The breastplate of righteousness protects our feelings, affections, and conscience from Satan’s abuse. Our righteousness comes from Christ. Philippians 3:8-9 makes this fact clear, “More than that, I now regard all things as liabilities compared to the far greater value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things —indeed, I regard them as dung!—that I may gain Christ, and be found in him, not because I have my own righteousness derived from the law, but because I have the righteousness that comes by way of Christ’s faithfulness—a righteousness from God that is in fact based on Christ’s faithfulness.”

God does not condemn you because you are clothed with the righteousness of Christ. Fasten the breastplate of righteousness in place so Satan can’t degrade your sense of worth through false guilt and accusations. Our self-worth is not to be based on what we have or have not done. It is to be completely centered on what Jesus has done on our behalf and who we now are in Christ. As we recognize Satan’s accusations as baseless, and instead focus on our new identity, we are emotionally free to pursue the destiny that God desires for us.

The Shoes of Peace

Satan’s tactic: To alienate us from God and others through offenses, bitterness, unforgiveness, and pride. He wants us to violate the unity and security of our relationship with God and others.

Shoes are important because they affect our mobility. There are many different kinds of shoes—each designed to accomplish a different purpose. An athlete knows the value of wearing the right shoe for a particular event. The boot of a Roman soldier provided the traction needed during combat, as well as protection from sticks and sharp rocks on the rugged terrain.

Paul equates peace with our mobility because when we are at peace with someone we move closer. But if there are problems in the relationship, we try to put distance between us and the other person. The shoes of peace protect us from Satan’s divisive ploys.

We are at peace with God—“Therefore, since we have been declared righteous by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have also obtained access into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in the hope of God’s glory” (Romans 5:1-2).

We are to have peace in our heart—“And the peace of God which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Ephesians 4:7).

We are to be at peace with one another — “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all people.” (Romans 12:18)

By faith you must believe that through Christ, God is now forever at peace with you. Prepare your feet with the gospel of peace so that Satan can’t disrupt your relationship with God and others. Unity is foundational to victorious Christian living. Therefore, Satan does all that he can to disrupt our relationships with God and others. He doesn’t want us to be peacemakers and reconcilers who bring others closer to God.

As we maintain fellowship with God, he will help us stand against the assaults of the evil one. But when we are alone we are completely helpless. This is why Satan’s strategy is to divide and conquer. But God’s shoes of peace will enable us to resist Satan’s divisive schemes and to stand in unity.

The Shield of Faith

Satan’s tactic: To assail us with temptation and adversity through enticement with sensual pleasures, money and possessions, fame and power; through mental emotional affliction and physical illness and disease; and through persecution that comes by way of ridicule, harassment, and oppression. Satan wants us to distrust God’s Word, doubt his character, and question his motives.

Roman soldiers had large shields that were almost as big as a refrigerator door (about 30 inches wide and 50 inches high). The front line of soldiers holding these shields would create a wall of protection against the flaming arrows of the enemy.

Imagine holding that shield as you feel the impact of one fiery arrow after another. Some are deflected while others become imbedded within the shield. Barrage after flaming barrage comes whistling at you. You can smell the smoke. You feel the terror. You want to drop the shield and run away from your ferocious enemy. But that would be a fatal mistake because that shield is the only thing protecting you from the next wave of fiery missiles.

Paul portrays our faith in God as our shield against the severe attacks of the devil. The shield of faith protects us from Satan’s influences and assaults. Psalm 28:7 says, “The Lord strengthens and protects me; I trust in him with all my heart. I am rescued and my heart is full of joy; I will sing to him in gratitude.”

By faith you must believe God’s Word and trust his holy presence to protect you and sustain you in your current situation. Take up the shield of faith so that Satan can’t destroy your trust in God through doubt.

When you are in the midst of a ferocious battle you are preoccupied with your immediate circumstances. When things are going poorly and you seem to be losing ground, fear can overtake you. You begin to wonder why God is not doing more to help you. Then the questions begin—Doesn’t God care about what’s happening to me? Will He abandon me? Is God even here? The more we doubt God’s commitment to us, the more we depend on ourselves. And as we do, our shield is being lowered. When we doubt God and His love for us, we expose ourselves to Satan’s attacks.  We must hold on to God’s promises to be with us and sustain us!

The Helmet of Salvation

Satan’s tactic: To dishearten us about the present and the future through worry and anxiety, intimidation and fear, and discouragement and hopelessness. Satan wants us to be discouraged and defeated, without hope of future salvation.

The helmet primarily protected the Roman soldier from cavalrymen who would swing a three to four foot long double-edged sword at their head. The head is a strategic target because it provides direction for the rest of the body. If the head can be wounded, it can also make the rest of the body vulnerable and ineffective. Paul says salvation is our spiritual helmet. Salvation is more than a state of being, it is a person. Jesus Christ is our salvation. By his death on the cross we are forever saved from the penalty of sin (Romans 8:1). Now Jesus is also saving us from the power of sin every day (Romans 6:14, 18-22). And, in the future, he will even save us from the presence of sin. The helmet of salvation protects us from despair with the hope of future glory.

When you become discouraged you must focus your thoughts by faith on the certainty of Christ’s return and the glory of your eternal future. Take the helmet of salvation so Satan can’t defeat you with negative thinking.

Despair is the beginning of defeat. Hope provides motivation. It keeps us going during the tough times. Our hope is in Jesus for future salvation. And it is not a vain hope. It is a hope based on what Jesus already has done, is now doing for us, and promised he will do in the future.

In 1 Thessalonians 5:8 Paul refers to “as a helmet our hope for salvation.” In Romans 8:24 he writes “For in hope we were saved.” The helmet of salvation gives us the hope, confidence and assurance that we need to withstand Satan’s assaults. It is a hope that is focused on what Christ will do for us in the future.

The Sword of the Spirit

Satan’s tactic: To deter us from using specific scriptures against him through ignorance of God’s Word, disbelief in the power of God’s Word, and through foolish self-reliance. Satan wants us to be negligent in using God’s Word for spiritual warfare.

The sword can be used for defense. But it is also the only offensive weapon that God supplies as part of his armor! This sword is given to us by the Holy Spirit and is identified as being the Word of God. The sword does not represent the larger, more general body of truth (Greek word=logos) which is depicted by the belt of truth. Instead, the emphasis here is on the specific application of particular phrases and verses (rhema) from within the Word of God.

It is foolish and dangerous for any Christian to attempt battle with Satan without the involvement of the Holy Spirit. He will guide us to the specific scriptures we are to use for our situation. Then He gives force to the verses we direct at Satan and his evil accomplices causing their retreat.

Jesus demonstrated the effective use of the sword of the Spirit when he was being tempted in the wilderness. Satan was even so bold as to distort scriptures in his temptations. But Jesus met every assault with a specific and accurate scriptural response. The sword of the Spirit protects us by driving away Satan.

Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any double-edged sword, piercing even to the point of dividing soul from spirit, and joints from marrow; it is able to judge the desires and thoughts of the heart.”

Take the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God so Satan can’t defend strongholds of deception. It is important to know the Word of God and to understand what it means so we can apply it to specific attacks from Satan. That is one thing that we can do to inflict damage on the kingdom of darkness.

Warfare Prayer

Ephesians 6:18 tells us, “With every prayer and petition, pray at all times in the Spirit, and to this end be alert, with all perseverance and petitions for all the saints.”

The armor is God’s gracious gift for protection–which is put on with prayer. It is to be used in the context of our personal relationship with Him. We are not only to put on the armor; we are to pray faithfully and strategically as we live on this spiritual battlefield.

Warfare prayers are like air raids on the enemy. Prayer is our supreme weapon in spiritual combat with the enemy.

Pray in the Spirit — “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness, for we do not know how we should pray, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with inexpressible groanings. 27 And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes on behalf of the saints according to God’s will” (Romans 8:26-27).

Pray at all times — “constantly pray” (1 Thessalonians 5:17).

Be prayerfully alert — “Be devoted to prayer, keeping alert in it with thanksgiving” (Colossians 4:2).

32822 The Hedge of Protection

“The angel of the Lord camps around the Lord’s loyal followers and delivers them.” – Psalm 34:7

God is our protector.

“He will shelter you with his wings; you will find safety under his wings. His faithfulness is like a shield or a protective wall.” – Psalm 91:4

“As the mountains surround Jerusalem, so the Lord surrounds his people, now and forevermore.” – Psalm 125:2

Satan only has access to us within the limits God has set.

Satan is not an equal who rivals God. He is but a rebellious creature whom God is using to fulfill His eternal purposes.
“Simon, Simon, pay attention! Satan has demanded to have you all, to sift you like wheat,” Jesus told Simon Peter that Satan had been granted permission to test him with temptation.

God allowed Satan to afflict Paul. In 2 Corinthians 12:7 Paul writes, “even because of the extraordinary character of the revelations. Therefore, so that I would not become arrogant, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan to trouble me—so that I would not become arrogant.”

Sometimes God permits Satan access through His hedge of protection to test our faithfulness.

“So the Lord said to Satan, ‘All right then, everything he has is in your power. Only do not extend your hand against the man himself!’ So Satan went out from the presence of the Lord.” – Job 1:12

Read Job 1:6-12 to the group so they understand the context.

We can also permit Satan access through God’s hedge of protection by our willful disobedience.

“While this one was still speaking another messenger arrived and said, ‘Your sons and your daughters were eating and drinking wine in their oldest brother’s house’” – 1 John 5:18

“Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on the cause of your anger. Do not give the devil an opportunity.” – Ephesians 4:26-27

Any unresolved sin gives Satan an opening to attack us. And by condoning the sin, over time he is even able to establish a beachhead within us. From there he can then launch more attacks to gain even more access to our life. When we tolerate sin in our life we are providing Satan with a key for access through the hedge of protection God has placed around us. We provide Satan the very bullets he can use to injure us.
It is very dangerous to treat sin lightly. It is the poison our enemy uses for our destruction. But God will protect those who remain faithful. (Psalms 37:28; Proverbs 2:8)

32827 Satan’s Schemes

Satan has several different tactics that he uses to prevent Christians from fulfilling their God-given destiny. These are some of the tools of his trade.

Satan tries to control your perspective, manipulate your thinking and exploit your foundational desires.

(Jesus praying to the Father)
“I am not asking you to take them out of the world, but that you keep them safe from the evil one.” – John 17:15

(Paul writes)
“So that we may not be exploited by Satan (for we are not ignorant of his schemes).” – 2 Corinthians 2:11

Subtlety can greatly increase the effectiveness of schemes, scams and con games. That’s why Satan usually works behind the scenes where his involvement will be undetected.
Schemes of Satan

  • Deception
  • Accusation
  • Division
  •  Doubt
  • Distraction
  • Temptation
  • Difficulties
  • Affliction
  • Persecution
  • Intimidation
  • Discouragement

As Christians, we need to be alert and aware of Satan’s tactics. We must depend on the Holy Spirit to help us discern what Satan is trying to do in our current situation as he attempts to defeat us.  How has Satan used these schemes against you in the past? Which of these schemes is Satan using in your current situation?

“But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one.” – 2 Thessalonians 3:3

32826 Three Avenues of Temptations

1 John 2:15-17 says, “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him, because all that is in the world – the desire of the flesh and the desire of the eyes and the arrogance produced by material possessions – is not from the Father, but is from the world. And the world is passing away with all its desires, but the person who does the will of God remains forever.”

Kosmos is the Greek word that has been translated here as world. It is not referring to planet earth or all of humanity. It is referring to the system of evil that is under Satan’s control.

This passage reveals three different avenues of temptation that Satan uses to tempt us into trying to fulfill legitimate desires in wrong ways.

1. The cravings of sinful man

This is the urge to satisfy the appetites and senses of our physical body. Another way to phrase this idea would be, “sensual pleasures and entertainment.”

Satan whispers, “Do whatever it takes to satisfy your physical senses and the cravings of your body because happiness is waiting for you.” There are many different inappropriate ways that we may attempt to satisfy our physical cravings. It may be as simple as overeating. Or it may involve getting drunk, getting high, or pursuing some sexual escapade through a relationship or on the internet or through pornography.

Our desires and passions can be fueled by the thrill of sensuality. And often times the more we experience, the more we want to experience. Pleasure can become addictive especially if it is used as an escape from feelings of insignificance, insecurity, or rejection.

For example, if you don’t think that you are a significant person then obviously how you spend your time doesn’t matter much. If that’s true then you might as well try to fill up your hours with as much pleasurable activity as possible. Because you’re not really using time to accomplish something, you’re just using up time trying to avoid boredom. Sensual pleasure and entertainment are a way of doing that. However, sensuality is an appetite that cannot be satisfied. There is pleasure that comes from sensuality, but it only lasts for a short time. Once it is over, all you are left with is consequences.

There’s nothing wrong with wanting a pleasurable life, but the pleasures we enjoy must be pleasing to God as well as to us. God wants us to enjoy pleasures, but within his guidelines. Here are some questions to use as you evaluate your pleasure:

  • Is this pleasure wholesome … or sinful?
  • Am I more devoted to pleasure … or to God?
  • Is this pleasure helping … or hindering my devotion to God?

2. The lust of the eyes

This temptation is wanting to acquire everything that we see. Another way to put it is, “the seductiveness of money and possessions.”

How many times have you heard someone say, “You owe it to yourself.” Or, “You deserve it because you are worth it.” Or, “Buy whatever your heart desires, then the happiness things bring will be yours forever.”

How can you argue with that kind of reasoning, and who would even want to?

We live in a very materialistic society. Advertising has become the science of creating dissatisfaction within people and then promising fulfillment through the purchase of a product or experience. We are led to believe that if we buy that product it will help us be accepted, secure, or significant.

You have probably all seen the bumper sticker that reads “He who dies with the most toys wins”. It sounds funny, but it is actually one of Satan’s lies. The writer of Ecclesiastes teaches us, “The one who loves money will never be satisfied with money, he who loves wealth will never be satisfied with his income.” (Ecclesiastes 5:10). It is easy to be fueled by the magnetism of greed—the more we have, the more we want.
Jesus had a great story to tell regarding this very issue. Here is it as recorded in Luke 12:15-21.

“Then he said to them, ‘Watch out and guard yourself from all types of greed, because one’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.’ He then told them a parable: ‘The land of a certain rich man produced an abundant crop, so he thought to himself, ‘What should I do, for I have nowhere to store my crops?’ Then he said, ‘I will do this: I will tear down my barns and build bigger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. And I will say to myself, ‘You have plenty of goods stored up for many years; relax, eat, drink, celebrate!’’ But God said to him, ‘You fool! This very night your life will be demanded back from you, but who will get what you have prepared for yourself?’ So it is with the one who stores up riches for himself, but is not rich toward God.”

The point of this story is not that we shouldn’t have money. There is nothing wrong with having money. It’s just that money can give us a false sense of security. God is the owner of everything and we are to be good stewards of what he has entrusted to our care. When our money leads us away from God instead of drawing us closer to him, that’s when we’re in trouble! First Timothy 6:9-10 warns us, “Those who long to be rich, however, stumble into temptation and a trap and many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is the root of all evils. Some people in reaching for it have strayed from the faith and stabbed themselves with many pains.”

Once again, God wants us to enjoy the good things he has put in our lives—but within his guidelines. Here are some questions to use as you consider your attitudes about money and possessions:

  • Is my desire for money and material things stronger than my love and devotion to God?
  • Am I content with the material blessings God has given me or am I consumed with getting more?
  • Am I putting my hope and trust in my material resources or in God?

3. The boasting of what he has and does

This temptation plays itself out in the seductiveness of fame and power. It is taking credit for things that will increase your self-importance or prestige.

Society tells us that we should “Pursue popularity,” “Impress people with how great you are,” “Climb the social ladder,” “Get in the limelight,” “Make a name for yourself and be somebody,” “Show off your strength, beauty, intelligence, or position,” … “Then you’ll be happy.”

It’s easy to fall prey to this kind of advice because we so desire the acceptance of others and want to be seen as a significant person. We need to remember that the voice of pride speaks to us from our old nature. It insists that we capitalize on every opportunity to exalt ourselves, because this is how we will find happiness.

It is important that we not be fueled by the glory of pride. The more praise and recognition we receive, the more we need and often solicit. Fame and power give us a false sense of significance, security, love, and acceptance by others.

There’s nothing wrong with being famous or powerful. God has created us for greatness, but he wants us to concentrate on using our greatness in his way. Two Timothy 1:7 is a powerful reminder of this truth, “For God did not give us a Spirit of fear but of power and love and self-control.”

Here are some questions to use as you consider your own importance:

  • Am I serving others … or demanding to be served?
  • Am I building God’s kingdom … or my own?
  • Am I doing everything for the glory of God … or seeking glory for myself?

32825 Temptation is Satan’s Bait

In Matthew 26:41 Jesus warned His disciples— “Stay awake and pray that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

“Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted by evil, and he himself tempts no one. But each one is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desires.” – James 1:13-14

“No trial has overtaken you that is not faced by others. And God is faithful: He will not let you be tried beyond what you are able to bear, but with the trial will also provide a way out so that you may be able to endure it.” – 1 Corinthians 10:13

“For since he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are tempted.” – Hebrews 2:18

Jesus experienced intense temptation but never gave in. Now He wants to help us to also have victory over temptation.We are to withstand temptation when we are tested so we will can grow more spiritually.

“My brothers and sisters, consider it nothing but joy when you fall into all sorts of trials, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect effect, so that you will be perfect and complete, not deficient in anything.” – James 1:2-4
Temptation isn’t sin—it only arouses our interest in sin by making it look so attractive.

“Therefore consider carefully how you live—not as unwise but as wise” – Ephesians 5:15

Temptation becomes increasingly strong the longer you wait before turning your back on it. It’s like standing on the peak of a mountain as you are tempted to go down one side into the valley of sin. The further you walk in the direction of the sin the more difficult it is to climb back up that slope so you may get to the side of holy living. Usually when a person doesn’t resist the initial temptations, they will continue down the slope until they finally have crossed the line into the valley of sin.
(For example, assume someone is attracted to unwholesome movies. For them the peak of temptation may be when they are choosing to expose themselves to movie ads. Once they see an appealing ad, it may be just a matter of time until they have rationalized seeing the movie.)

32442 Three Power Principles

Three principles will help you experience the Holy Spirit’s power in your life.

1. God is the source of all power.

We have no power except what God has chosen to give us, even when we misuse it. God is willing to share His power with us, His children. But our loyalty and faithfulness can only be demonstrated to Him if we have the freedom to choose our actions. And so God permits us to use our freedom in our own way. Many times we use the freedom God has given us in a way that disappoints Him and hurts others.

Our fallen nature desires independence, so we want to possess “the power” to do what we want to do. We want the power to originate in us. The world defines our importance as a person by how much power and control we have over others. But, in reality, any power we have is from God. It is only by using that power for its intended purpose that our life will have true significance.

God is always in charge. He can even use acts of disobedience to fulfill His ultimate purposes. We are totally dependent upon Him, even for our very existence, and we can’t do anything without His knowledge.

2. God gives us power through the Holy Spirit to serve Him and fulfill the purposes for which He created us.

Our fallen nature doesn’t want power to do God’s will. It wants power so we can do what we want. The world system says “pursue more power so others will serve you more.” Our misguided goal is not to serve but to be served.

We want God to be our super genie. We believe that if we rub Him the right way He will give us what we ask and do what we want. We get it backwards–it’s not about us!

God has created us to serve and honor Him with our lives. He empowers us through the Holy Spirit to enable us to accomplish His purposes.

3. God’s power through the Holy Spirit is available to you from the moment you are born spiritually.

Our problem is not a lack of power. Our problem is a lack of understanding of the power God has already given to us. When you accept Jesus Christ into your life, the Holy Spirit also comes into your life, giving you power to live for and serve God.

At your spiritual birth you were transformed into a totally new person. We are all well aware of how a poor self-image may prevent a person from achieving their true potential in life. The same thing is true in the spiritual realm. God has dramatically changed who we are now that we are in Christ. He has given each one of us incredible and untapped spiritual potential. But unless our self-perception changes, we will never be able to put it to use. By faith, we must accept the reality of who we now are in Christ and allow God to conform us to our new identity.

You are a child of God! The same God who has the power to speak the entire universe into being has adopted you as His child. God has totally forgiven you for every wrong thing you have ever done. He no longer sees you as a sinner. He is looking at the righteous new nature that you now have in Christ.

32815 Resisting Temptation

Poof! Wouldn’t it be nice if once we were Christians temptations suddenly lost all their appeal? If Satan simply disappeared? If we didn’t have to struggle?

We often pray, “Lord, take this struggle away from me.” But reality is like King David writes in Psalm 18:39, “You give me strength for battle.” David, though he depended on God, actually had to fight in real battles where he could have died. Victory was fully God’s but accomplished through David’s very sweaty efforts.

It is the same for us as Christians when we face temptations. We actually have to fight.

If the core of temptation is to get us to depend on something else besides God, then we can fail in two ways: we can not fight at all and just seek satisfaction or security in whatever the temptation offers: work, things, status, sex, etc. But we can still fail if our resistance comes from another sin: pride, arrogance, judgmentalism. We have a responsibility to fight, but fighting has to be done as a form of dependence on God.

Thus resisting is not a matter of saying just the right words, having specialized spiritual knowledge, or an abundance of will-power. James 4:7 is rather simple on this: “So submit to God. But resist the devil and he will flee from you.”

We still have to sweat in this equation—“resist the devil”—but our action only comes after our submission.

So how do we actually fight? What follows are some ideas (the exact words are not important) but they are worthless if you are not starting off every day, every attempt at resistance, with dependence on God. That may mean actually speaking the words, “God, right now I choose to fully submit to you.” More deeply, however, it means starting each day and each act of resistance by declaring your identity in God. “God, I am your beloved child, and [paraphrasing Romans 6:6-7] my old self was crucified with you so that the body ruled by sin might be done away with, that I should no longer be a slave to sin— because anyone who has died has been set free from sin.”

Once you’ve declared who you are, identify and replace lies, take thoughts captive, and seek help from your community.

Identify & Replace Lies

All temptations have a lie involved. It’s like advertising that seems to promise a new life and identity as a result of buying a product. The appeal is based in something true: we want meaningful connection with others, to be respected, or to have joy, but the means offered to give us those things is flawed. New shoes might help you like how you look, but they’re not going to make you less lonely.

Stop and consider what is being offered in a particular temptation. We can respond to a temptation by saying, “I reject the lie that ______ and embrace God’s truth that _______.” This can be especially helpful if we’re dealing with habits of sin where we have probably developed go-to justifications (lies) that ease us into giving in to the temptation. Ask the Holy Spirit to identify what those lies are for you, and learn what truth the Bible teaches that counters that.

For example, in the context of struggling with jealous thoughts, “I reject the lie that I’m more deserving, that it’s okay to sit in pity, and I choose to trust God’s truth that contentment is found in him.”

Take Thoughts Captive

2 Corinthians 10:3-5 says, “For though we live as human beings, we do not wage war according to human standards, 4 for the weapons of our warfare are not human weapons, but are made powerful by God for tearing down strongholds. We tear down arguments 5 and every arrogant obstacle that is raised up against the knowledge of God, and we take every thought captive to make it obey Christ.”

The main battle against temptation is in our minds, well before action has taken place. So a major part of resisting is to identify the sinful thoughts or the thoughts that lead us toward sinful action or inaction, and refuse to let them linger. One way we can do that is by saying, “I reject that thought in the name of Jesus.” Simple and quick, a phrase like that brings us to dependence on God, identifies the thought, and chooses to do something with it instead of feeling helpless before it. As the thought returns (it’s ok if it does, but again don’t let it linger), speak that phrase again. If tempting thoughts are persistent, be more intentional in addressing it by quoting scripture, like the passage above. If you are still bombarded with tempting thoughts or the appeal hasn’t lessened with resisting, it is time to:

Seek Help from Your Community

We were not made to battle alone. God, in his wisdom gave us other believers on whom we can depend. James 5:16 bluntly states, “So confess your sins to one another and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great effectiveness”.

When we have tried resisting temptation and it still seems too strong, it is time to ask for help. We can pray with someone, ask others to pray for us, even calling or texting someone takes you out of the isolation of the tempting moment and connects you to the body of Christ, the Church.