22220.059 The “Hundred-Lash” Rule

A rebuke impresses a man of discernment more than a hundred lashes a fool. An evil man is bent only on rebellion; a merciless official will be sent against him. (Proverbs 17:10-11)

Flog a mocker, and the simple will learn prudence; rebuke a discerning man, and he will gain knowledge. (Proverbs 19:25)

We’ve all seen a teen like this. He may have been the kid who was always in trouble in high school, the bully who even the principal or the police couldn’t break, or the gang member who ended up as every­ one predicted he would, serving hard time. After he was scolded, he sneered. After he was disciplined, he defied the authorities and dared them to do more. Incorrigible.

No doubt King Solomon had seen his share of rebellious people. In observing what fools they were (his word), he noted that there was a measuring stick for their folly. In the passages above, he describes a sliding scale in dealing with disobedience—”rebuke” on one end and “one hundred lashes” on the other. It is a general principle that authorities will use only as much discipline as is sufficient to bring compliance. If a rebuke works, they typically won’t waste the time and energy on more extreme discipline.

Thus, the formula: the greater the resistance, the more severe the discipline. In effect, we can determine our punishment.

Principle: The severity of the discipline is in direct correlation to the severity of the rebellion; if a rebuke brings submission, the rod will not follow.

Then the wise king observed that some people became submissive and compliant with no discipline at all! What factor in them accomplished this? “Discernment,” a factor in wisdom. A wise student of authority will learn quickly how one ends up in the principal’s office or in jail—by observation and not by acting out.

Principle: Figure out quickly what is necessary to avoid the wrath of an authority figure, and promptly comply with directions. Not doing so will bring painful “Lashes.”

Joyful submission to authority is not complicated. Rebellion is. When our kids asked with a whine, “Why do I have to take out the trash?” We understood that this was not a search for knowledge about the necessity for trash pickup. So we responded, “Take out the trash first. Then we will talk about why it is a necessary task.” Obedience isn’t complicated. Even the “simple” can figure it out.

Principle: Rebellion always complicates things, and rebels create chaos; immediate, joyful compliance simplifies life, for everybody.

Trust and obey. There is no other way…

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22220.060 Building a Legacy

The memory of the righteous will be a blessing, but the name of the wicked will rot. (Proverbs 10:7)

A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold. (Proverbs 22:1)

A good person leaves an inheritance for his children’s children, but a sinner’s wealth is stored up for the righteous. (Proverbs 13:22)

When you learn for the first time that my name is Larry Poland, I assume nothing particularly wonderful or horrible comes to mind. You may never have met anyone named Poland before. There are no famous Polands whom I know of and none who have achieved infamy. Even research on my predecessors revealed no horse thieves on one hand and no kings or presidents on the other.

I suppose it is natural for one to think of his or her legacy with advancing years. In my case, I sat down in my twenties and wrote out a list of what I wanted to have said about me when I died. One thing was, “He was an outstanding husband and father.” Another was, “He gave his life serving his Lord and Savior.” That list, with many other components, is still the finish line for my life, my legacy.

Imagine if your name were Adolf Hitler Jr. or Osama Bin Laden Jr., or if your mother was Jezebel, Delilah, or a famous porn star? You would bear the burden of the legacy your parent left behind.

Proverbs is much more practical and blunt when talking about how we are remembered, our legacy. Proverbs 10:7 (above) says the choice is “blessing” or “rot.” The determining factor is living righteously or wickedly.

Principle: The legacy we leave behind is not measured by our bios, resumes, bank accounts, titles, possessions, or funeral eulogies. It is the essence of our character—what God says about us.

Proverbs has an interesting perspective on the relative value of wealth. If Bob Barker offered us Door A or Door B on The Price is Right TV show, how many would choose a good reputation over $500,000,000 along with having our reputation trashed? Probably not many. Yet God says a good reputation is of inestimable worth!

Principle: All the wealth in the world cannot give us a good reputation, and abject poverty cannot tarnish it. But a good reputation based on genuine righteousness can assure us of God’s blessing in wealth or poverty in this life and the life to come.

It probably doesn’t matter much if you are a daughter, grandson, or great-grandchild of Adolf Hitler. His legacy will still be a stain on your reputation that you will have to overcome. Proverbs says your children and grandchildren will be blessed or cursed by the character you possess and the way it plays out in your legacy. Think about that when temptation comes and significant moral testing faces you. The best predictor of your future legacy is the pattern of choices you are creating now.

Principle: The moral choices we make now are visited on our children and grandchildren long after we are gone. Leaving a legacy rooted in faith and obedience to Jesus Christ and His life principles will stand us in good stead regardless of the other things our progeny inherit from us.

What is your legacy? What footprint will you leave in the sands of time?

I heard of a man whose tombstone read, “He came here, he stayed here, and he left.” How sad. Apparently, his family members could not think of a single notable action or trait that would show what kind of impact this man made on the human race. What was his purpose for living?

When Jesus told the parable of the sower and the soils in Matthew 13, three of the soils upon which the Word of the kingdom fell were­ for various reasons—unproductive. But the soil that was fruitful produced a “harvest” thirty, sixty, or a hundred times what was sown! The other seed was wasted. I’ve always wanted to be a “Hundred Multiplier Person.” How about you?

You don’t have to be rich, famous, notable, outstanding, or pub­licly visible to leave a powerful legacy. Proverbs 31, which lauds an outstanding wife and mother, makes it patently clear that a “home­ maker” of character can leave an indelible impact on her family and the world—a great legacy. Conversely, a prominent world leader can leave a “rotten” legacy, one that time will reduce to refuse!

How do you want to be remembered? That’s your legacy! But it happens only by starting today making right choices, ones God applauds.

Even if you are up in years and have pretty much screwed up your life so far, there is hope. Today is the first day of the rest of your life.

As the praise song explains,

Something beautiful, something good;
All my confusion He understood;
All I had to offer Him was brokenness and strife,
But He made something beautiful of my life.
(Lyrics and music by Bill Gaither)

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22220.061 Wisdom for the Trenches Principles

1. How to Recognize A Fool

Principle 1: Failing to recognize the Supreme Being is being supremely foolish.

Principle 2: Corruption isn’t just wrong. It’s stupid. In the long run, it doesn’t even work.

Principle 3: Filth and faith are mutually exclusive; as one grows, the other dies.

2. Adultery: One “A” You Don’t Want to Earn

Principle 4: Sex outside of marriage is not what it appears on the surface. Its sweet, smooth beginnings inevitably end in bitterness and injury.

Principle 5: Sex outside of marriage always takes the partners from seduction to reduction…by sucking life itself out of them.

3. Anger: The Nuclear Emotion…with Huge Fallout

Principle 6: The passion of anger is the nuclear fission of the emotions. It can light a city or blow it to bits depending on how its power is released.

Principle 7: Ill-managed anger is an antipersonnel mine; trigger it, and it will maim you and cause permanent injury to those near you.

Principle 8: The only way to manage anger is to surrender it to the Spirit of God; as surrender increases, ill-managed anger decreases.

4. Lying: The Self-Made Trap

Principle 9: Truthful words have hurricane force, but lies the impact of warm breath.

Principle 10: Truth commands long-term respect, but a lie, and the one who speaks it, draws immediate derision.

Principle 11: A lie promises quick and easy benefit, but the promise itself is a lie.

5. Gossip: The Hidden Dagger

Principle 12: Don’t take gossip lightly. Far more than harmless chatter, it’s a deadly dagger to the heart.

Principle 13: Gossip’s companions are worse than urban gangs; Faction, Quarrel and Betrayal are their names.

6. Reproof: A Building Block for Character

Principle 14: Rebuke and reproof are good medicine. They cure moral sickness, so take them faithfully—regardless of how they taste.

Principle 15: Reproof is a test of wisdom and folly; wise people love it, and fools hate it.

Principle 16: The one who doesn’t learn from the correction of others must be reproved personally. Rejecting personal reproof just compounds folly, destruction, and death.

7. Insults and Curses: Unsolicited Instruction

Principle 17: We expose our character, either foolish or wise, by the way we handle curses and insults.

Principle 18: If we listen for the voice of God in it, all comments—regardless of their motivation or content—are potentially useful for character building.

Principle 19: If obedience to God’s Law provides building blocks for our character construction, the search for instruction and correction is the mortar.

Principle 20: Curses and insults are just divinely allowed instruction…in ugly wrappings.

8. Listening: God’s Channel for Personal Growth

Principle 21: Refusing to listen is refusing to learn. The broad road to ignorance and folly is paved with inattention.

Principle 22: Giving full attention to others or their counsel shows that we value both them and their content. Not to do so, at the very least, shows low-level arrogance or contempt.

Principle 23: Ears are windows to the soul. Listen to righteous­ness and grow spiritually wise; listen to evil and reap spiritual destruction.

9. Scoffers and Mockers, Beware!

Principle 24: The mocker uses ridicule, putdowns, sarcasm, or mimicry to belittle others; the righteous person builds them up.

Principle 25: When relationships are marked by strife, seek out the mockers and eliminate them. If you don’t, they will continually stir the relational pot.

Principle 26: If we don’t replace mockery of authority with joyful submission to and respect for it, it could cost us dearly.

10. The Fast Lane to Ugliness

Principle 27: Obsession with personal appearance is an exercise in futility. Its benefits are short-lived and can be stolen in an instant.

Principle 28: The beauty of a person’s character is the ultimate ”cosmetic surgery” that creates loveliness through the ultimate “faith lift.”

Principle 29: To improve your appearance dramatically, get a “spiritual makeover.”

11. How to Change People’s Minds

Principle 30: Seeking to change other people’s thinking is an exercise in futility unless they direct their wills toward the change; it’s a goal that should never be pursued unaided.

Principle 31: Only God has the power and the access to people’s hearts and inner thoughts sufficient to change their minds.

Principle 32: It is folly to ask God to change the thinking of others until we are first willing to have Him change our own.

12. Using God-given Authority

Principle 33: All authority—in home, office, or elsewhere—vests with God and is loaned to us as a sacred trust to be used as He would use it for His purposes alone.

Principle 34: Authority in the hands of a believer is neither a bludgeon to pound others into submission nor a knife to cut them down. It is a divinely designed instrument of guidance and instruction for building those under our authority.

13. The Rise and Fall of the Proud

Principle 35: The same wind that puffs an ego blows away one’s potential for true honor.

Principle 36: Success can’t be equated with adulation. A miserably indebted celebrity is far worse off than a well-served, debt-­free nobody.

Principle 37: Those who feed on their praise are plunging head­-long into the greatest fiery test of their lives. Not many will survive with their souls.

14. A Cure for Spiritual Heart Disease

Principle 38: An unguarded heart will destroy your life and run away with your soul.

Principle 39: The road to destruction meanders through three cities: Heart, Mind, and Spirit…and stays too long in Heart. The road to life goes directly to the Spirit—in the same township as Mind.

Principle 40: Only the heart surrendered to God realizes its deepest desires; self-managed hearts get broken and break the hearts of others.

15. One Dangerous Babe (or Dude) to Avoid

Principle 41: Stupidity is an expression of the dominant worldview which parades as “conventional thinking”; only divine insight will help you recognize and transcend it.

Principle 42: Wisdom always strengthens the weak and lifts the downtrodden; Stupidity exploits both.

Principle 43: Wisdom always respects the person, feelings, dignity, and possessions of others; Stupidity rapes them.

Principle 44: The wise and righteous life never fears examination…of its datebook, checkbook, closet, or computer hard drive.

16. Impulse Control and the Key to Character

Principle 45: The one in bondage to repressed impulses is no more a slave than he who is shackled by lack of control over them.

Principle 46: Associating with friends who lack restraint over their appetites exposes us to their contagious virus of excess.

Principle 47: If it is true that “a fool and his money are soon parted,” it’s equally true that one who binges on anything else will likely binge on spending and borrowing.

Principle 48: Financial poverty and bankruptcy begin where lack of control of other impulses leave off.

17. Danger: Eyes That Do Not See

Principle 49: Without divine illumination, our eyes can never see through and beyond the thick darkness around us.

Principle 50: Failure to give attention to the way we are living is to surrender our destiny to the three enemies of success:­ chance, unexpected risk, and unrecognized stupidity.

Principle 51: No one is so blind as he who will not allow God to enhance and correct his vision.

18. For Adult[erer]s Only

Principle 52: The heart is a person’s spiritual center. If left unguarded, it will be ruptured by demonic darts, not stimulated by Cupid’s arrows.

Principle 53: Defying God’s law in the pursuit of love or sexual pleasure is playing Russian roulette with bullets in every chamber of the gun.

Principle 54: The priceless value of loving loyalty is never realized until all the cheap thrills of infidelity are in the distant past of God’s forgiveness.

19. Rebuke: 10, Flattery 0

Principle 55: True friends will love you enough to scrub you down with truth, even when they know it stings. Your enemies will lather you up with the soft soap of what they think you want to hear.

Principle 56: A relationship based on open truth is true friendship; one built on flattery is a con game.

Principle 57: A loving rebuke requires running your hand along the wall of another’s soul and feeling for a crack to put the truth in; if there’s no crack, don’t bother throwing it at the wall.

20. You Can Tell a Person by His Cover

Principle 58: The eyes are the window to the human soul, and what’s going on there shows on the countenance.

Principle 59: Persons with Christ in them possess a spiritual life and peace which shows as “brightness” and tranquility in the countenance; you can look for and see it.

Principle 60: Sin causes darkness in the human spirit which shows in the countenance; it can’t be covered with makeup nor the light “faked” by a happy face.

Principle 61: True spiritual beauty abides in the heart and is transmitted to the eyes, making a person “ugly” or “beautiful” independent of physical attributes.

21. Your Money and Your Slave Master

Principle 62: Borrowing can be really foolish because it puts the borrower in servitude to the lender…and nobody likes being a slave.

Principle 63: Meeting financial obligations in a prompt and timely manner is a hallmark of integrity. Not to do so puts us in the camp of the wicked.

Principle 64: Time is on the side of those with a cause against us, so we must communicate and settle issues promptly to avoid the dire consequences of delay.

Principle 65: To approach unmet financial obligations by silence, flight, or prideful resistance is not only foolish, it is counterproductive at every level.

22. Somebody, Anybody, Applaud Me!

Principle 66: If we are really great, people will find it out without our telling them. Telling them how great we are usually creates the opposite impression in their minds.

Principle 67: Earthly honor soon dies, but humbling oneself before God brings the acclaim of heaven and its angels forever.

Principle 68: Self-praise steals from God the honor due Him, for no one ever achieves anything worthwhile apart from the gifts, abilities, and grace of his Maker.

23. Laughter Is Not the Best Medicine

Principle 69: Laughter that flows from any place other than a pure heart has a polluted source and a poisonous effect.

Principle 70: The one who is indwelt by the Spirit of Christ has His joy in his spirit; the first, telltale mark of sin’s entrance is loss of joy.

Principle 71: As the pupil of the eye is the window to the world, So the countenance of the face is the window to the soul; it reveals the condition of the heart.

24. Other Names for Treachery

Principle 72: One way to avoid being trapped is to avoid setting traps for others; God turns all evil schemes against those creating them.

Principle 73: The way to escape the traps of others (or the enemy) is to do the right thing no matter the cost; short-term gains at the expense of integrity generate serious long-term losses.

Principle 74: Every evil plan sets a path and draws others to take it. The righteous person runs away from this path as fast as the power of God will take him.

25. Nuclear Sticks and Stones

Principle 75: The ultimate impact for good you make on others during your life may well be the result of the gentle, wise, healing words you speak.

Principle 76: Only eternity will tell how many of the world’s lost and hopeless were pushed into those states of being by someone’s cruel words.. . including ours.

Principle 77: Destructive words are the nuclear “sticks and stones” that reduce human beings to rubble—with an extremely slow rate of fallout.

26. Plan the Work and Work the Plan

Principle 78: A mark of God’s touch on fallen human beings is a love for and commitment to noble labor. Laziness is a major concession to sin and wreaks passive destruction.

Principle 79: Those who aim at nothing are guaranteed a direct hit. Those who set goals but focus no labor on achieving them are no better off than the goal-less ones.

Principle 80: No one can handle the heavy workloads of life with­out God’s strength. To try is an ungrateful reliance on prideful self.

27. For You, I Have a Special Deal!

Principle 81: To doubt that the rewards God provides for trust and obedience in this life will be ample is to doubt God’s very character and the trustworthiness of His promises to us. It insults Him.

Principle 82: There is a good reason God has a time-delay factor in His reward system. It takes time for the really clever evil-doers and the talk-but-no-walk Christians to show their true colors, but for the righteous, God’s rewards are worth the wait.

Principle 83: When the enemy whispers that the wise, righteous life is a losing proposition, shout at him that he must not have read the last chapter of the Book that describes the Award Ceremony.

28. Plans from the Ultimate Planner

Principle 84: Leaving God out of your planning is a fatal error. Only a fool would ignore omniscience in planning and omnipotence in execution, if available.

Principle 85: It is foolishly arrogant to make plans without consulting others, especially your spouse. It is in diversity of knowledge and experience that effective plans are established.

Principle 86: It is better to make mediocre plans to achieve a noble end than to create excellent plans to do evil because the latter will face divine opposition and the former divine aid.

29. Friends in Low Places

Principle 87: Responding to cautions about unsavory companions with, ”I can handle ’em” is not only naive, but it ignores the spiritual cross-pollination that occurs in relationships.

Principle 88: The associates we choose both reveal and feed the moral appetites of our souls.

Principle 89: Sin is extremely contagious and is commonly spread by the infected companions we choose.

30. The “Dumb Dog” Syndrome

Principle 90: If they are learning experiences, bad decisions are building blocks to wisdom and good character. If not, they are not building blocks but wrecking balls.

Principle 91: Breaking the chain of stupid behaviors is not only wise; it avoids the repeated agony of their consequences and protects relationships with those who love you enough to rescue you.

Principle 92: To avoid bondage to destructive behaviors, one must live by the principle “One stupid act is enough!” After three or more, only the Trinity can deliver you.

31. A Place Called Hope

Principle 93: The flow of hope fulfillment goes in the same direction as God’s moral Law. To challenge God’s Law is to launch your hopes upstream against an all-powerful current.

Principle 94: Trusting in the spiritual guidance and strength of a loving God radically enhances the probability of seeing your hopes fulfilled. In fact, in the end, He guarantees their fulfillment for the faith-filled person.

Principle 95: A teachable attitude is the key to hope fulfillment because the unteachable won’t heed advice and adjust their life direction onto the righteous path that fulfills all hopes.

32. The Awful Consequences of Unteachability

Principle 96: If refusal to listen to the wise counsel of peers is stupidity, refusal to listen to the counsel of God is to solicit judgment.

Principle 97: A yes or no decision is clearly the one most recognized as having effect, but choosing not to decide can create more impact than a yes or no.

Principle 98: Refusing to heed God’s counsel is to volunteer for the dire consequences and to earn scorn from the Counselor you’ve rebuffed.

33. The High Cost of Gloating

Principle 99: The burdensome emotions and actions of bringing down our enemies is a weight God never intended us to bear, so He frees us by bearing these burdens Himself.

Principle 100: To wish judgment for our enemies but mercy for ourselves is unfair. It exploits the forgiveness we have received and displeases the One who gave us undeserved grace.

Principle 101: To rejoice over our enemies’ troubles is to prompt the heavenly Father to turn His attention from giving them what they deserve to disciplining our ingratitude for the grace we didn’t deserve.

34. The Futility of Hiding

Principle 102: Sin, once committed, is “posted on the cosmic Internet” where God and, eventually, others will see it. Bank on it.

Principle 103: Knowing that God sees and knows all we do is a powerful “sin-restraint mechanism” for those who believe it­—like a giant floodlight in an otherwise dark alley.

Principle 104: God’s watchfulness over what we think and do is a marvelous blessing to those whose hearts are right and deeds are righteous. It means that no good deed will go unrewarded.

35. The Fool and His Money

Principle 105: The single most significant factor in wealth acquisition is righteous character. Sin and stupidity are thieves.

Principle 106: Both acquiring and retaining significant wealth are predicated on right living. Spending on self and sinful pleasures is like signing over resources to the godly; they’ll end up with them eventually anyway.

Principle 107: Wealth secured through righteous motivation and God-honoring methods has built-in loss insurance. Even if lost, it will be restored.

36. Long Live the Righteous!

Principle 108: The single most significant factor in longevity is avoiding the evil thoughts, actions, and relationships which shorten life.

Principle 109: Acting out that which does not reflect God’s moral law is guaranteed to knock years off your life; doing the right thing is a guaranteed life extender.

Principle 110: The power which sustains and lengthens life is Spirit, and long life is in the grasp of the one energized by the Holy Spirit, not the “unholy spirits” which erode life by degrees.

37. The High Cost of Relying on the Unreliable

Principle 111: To those who rely on them, people with a poor work ethic are a continuing source of annoyance and irritation. At some point, they’ll be driven to seek relief from both.

Principle 112: To cut your losses before they hit, don’t give any responsibility to a person beyond his “wisdom level”. If you do, it will severely impair both you and the goal pursuit.

Principle 113: Choose everyone on whom you plan to rely—friends, spouses, employees, pastors, committee members, and such—with extreme care. Haphazard choices will result in endless and unnecessary hurt.

38. Strange Jewelry

Principle 114: God sees great beauty in a person who is virtuous­ who has listened to and obeyed the righteous teaching of a good mom and dad. That’s actually more rare than diamonds.

Principle 115: Whatever moral beauty you received from righteous parents should be displayed in the public square and in the home. God will be deeply impressed by your being bedecked in virtue.

39. The Tenderizing Effect of Godliness

Principle 116: Be wary of the person with brash, edgy speech. That sharpness may well have been honed by the grindstone of sin.

Principle 117: The righteous person speaks quietly with an authority infused with power from God. The arrogant intimidation of the wicked cannot shake it.

Principle 118: The righteous person seeks God’s plan for words and action, and implements His plan in grace and patience. The “bold and the beautiful” without God don’t need His guidance; their own godlike status, they believe, will assure their success.

40. The Cunning Human Mind

Principle 119: When searching for wrongdoers, it helps to assume that nobody thinks they’ve done anything wrong. Even if they have, they most likely will see their behavior as well motivated and good.

Principle 120: Human memory is weakest when asked to recall or accept responsibility for some catastrophe or evil act.

Principle 121: justice is ultimately served not by the feeble attempts at discovery we humans create but by the just actions of the Righteous One who already knows all the details…of everything.

41. The “Slut” Factor

Principle 122: Sexual “inactivity” for unmarrieds is not a curse; it is a virtue.

Principle 123: God’s moral law is constantly being swept down­ stream by the world system through redefinition. Adhere precisely to God’s definitions, or you’ll be swept away by the current.

Principle 124: If one’s moral character is like swine, then adorning it with gold is wasteful and asinine. If one’s character is pure as gold, it will be sufficiently adorned already.

42. The Folly of “Heart-Following”

Principle 125: Unaided by outside wisdom and divine revelation, your “inner guide” will get you more lost than you already are.

Principle 126: The most powerful delusion a person can entertain is that he does not commonly delude himself…in the direction of self-justification.

Principle 127: Claiming to be a “self-made person” whose success comes from “believing in oneself” is a slap in the face to the Creator who gave us talent and provided friends and family to nurture and encourage us along the way.

43. God Knows What Happens in Vegas

Principle 128: An omniscient God surely knows what is done in secret and in the dark. His “night vision and X-ray goggles” make hiding ourselves or our sins from Him an exercise in futility—hiding in plain sight.

Principle 129: Hiding anything from God doesn’t work. He “takes notes” on all human behavior and keeps good books for eternal reference.

Principle 130: It is folly to try to hide in full view of God. It is far better to acknowledge and confess what He already knows, so you can receive His gracious forgiveness.

44. Milestones on the Road to the Poorhouse

Principle 131: Working and eating are flip sides of the currency of life; without eating one cannot work and without working one cannot eat.

Principle 132: Not only is talk “cheap”, without the backing of integrity and hard work, it creates deficits that can never be repaid.

Principle 133: Every person is designed to be intoxicated by God alone. Those “under the influence” of any other person, substance, motivation, or power which does not draw them closer to Him are cruising for a bruising.

45. Curing the Poverty Curse

Principle 134: Wisdom and wealth are spouses in a covenant bond—as are stupidity and poverty. Only death separates them.

Principle 135: The one who chases mirages in the desert will inevitably suffer from the thirst that each vanishing oasis creates. Only sacrifice in pursuit God’s reality brings rewards.

Principle 136: Confounding all earthly economic principles, giving all you have is the key to being free from need and having ample to give more.

46. God’s “Silent Treatment”

Principle 137: God has perfect hearing, but He has a sudden attack of “hearing impairment” when those who choose not to hear His wise, loving counsel close their ears to it.

Principle 138: God is eager to find even one person willing to obey His laws-eager to pour out His blessings, especially on those who love Him.

47. Watch Out! Your Body Is Talking

Principle 139: God wants us to play fair, but to be aware that our opponents may well cheat. Learning their deceitful ways is a good defense.

Principle 140: One “deceitful heart” causes conflict even if all the other hearts are honest.

Principle 141: We communicate in many ways; words are only one of them. Make sure that all your languages speak in uniform purity.

48. God’s “Get Rich Slowly” Scheme

Principle 142: The one who is driven to get rich quickly (1) is vulnerable to scams—”too-good-to-be-true”—schemes, (2) risks rationalizing questionable (even illegal) financial schemes, and (3) sets himself up for losing everything.

Principle 143: God gives people the ability to get wealth. Jesus taught that the “gift of acquiring” enables the gift of giving. As we give, we receive, not the other way around.

Principle 144: We are to give until it hurts, then keep giving until it stops hurting. The tithe (10 percent of the “first fruits’) is the starting point of giving. Give a percentage of the income you’d like to receive.

49. The Wrong Cheering Section

Principle 145: At your death, you have a choice—people cheering your character or cheering your departure. Only you can decide.

Principle 146: The easiest way to draw contempt from others is to sow contemptible motives and behaviors in your dealings with them; sow grace and kindness, and you will usually reap grace and kindness.

Principle 147: One never knows how large a lever a kind word is to lift a sagging spirit and offload a heavy burden.

50. The Check’s Not in the Mail

Principle 148: God always makes sure that generous, righteous lenders get repaid…from some source. He commonly covers the repayment Himself.

Principle 149: Failure to repay borrowed money costs you a lot more than the value of what was borrowed. It costs you your reputation and, most likely, a friendship.

51. Seismic Moral Situations

Principle 150: No grand dreams of love and happiness and no firm resolve to sustain commitment until death ends it can save a marriage or family if even one of the spouses lacks righteous character. Character is the foundation on which all stable relationships are built.

Principle 151: God must keep some fools poor because He knows that if He let them prosper, they would have the means to multiply their folly and its disastrous consequences.

Principle 152: Unless there is familiarity with wealth and power coupled to godliness, a person rising to sudden affluence and celebrity tends to lose all impulse control and to bring chaos to his own life and the lives of those he touches.

52. Seven Things on God’s “Hate List”

Principle 153: Evil behavior is like cancer; it seldom is seen in a single cell but commonly in a “mass” of interconnected, rapidly multiplying, sinful practices.

Principle 154: The root of most other behaviors God hates is self-exaltation. Only those who get to the place where they recognize that life is all about God and nothing about their ego are truly blessed.

Principle 155: A lie is the first drill hole in the Levee of Trust before the flood of falsehood inundates everyone secured by the protective wall of integrity.

53. “Home Sweet Home” … or Not

Principle 156: Bricks and mortar do not make a home. No matter how beautiful or lavish a residence may be, it is only a container for the spiritual interaction among the inhabitants.

Principle 157: Harmonious interpersonal communication is the Spirit-inspired expression of two hearts in tune with God and each other. Unloving speech is the language of warfare. . .for which homes are not designed.

Principle 158: Family issues are not solved by “getting your own space.” The violence and conflict of a bad home will follow you. Allowing God to heal the conflict is the only solution.

54. “Stop Yelling at Me!”

Principle 159: Raising one’s voice sets off an interpersonal “arms race” in which anger and even greater anger and yelling results; soft, gentle words assuage anger and halt the escalation.

Principle 160: When you catch yourself cranking up the volume in your communication, stop and ask God to quiet your spirit. A quiet spirit—even in the most intense interaction—will generate a conversation that sheds light rather than shouts and screams that generate heat.

Principle 161: The godly person is quiet before God and tranquilly submissive to His authority. Nobody goes unpunished for yelling at God and defying His directives.

55. Will Lady Luck Help Out?

Principle 162: When seeking guidance in any of life’s circumstances, rely on God’s guidance, not a chance.

56. Humble Pie … with a Really Tough Crust

Principle 163: A key to success in life is living by John the Baptist’s statement, “He must become more important; I must become less important” John 3:30 NLV). Self-imposed humility actually is blessed by God with “riches, honor, and life.”

57. Shut up!

Principle 164: Silence truly is ”golden,” and talk truly is “cheap.” Only God can enable us to discern when to exchange the talk which is cheap for the quietness which is golden.

Principle 165: There are times to speak and times to keep silent. Unexpressed thoughts will never get you in trouble. In fact, some might even read your timely moments of silence as intelligence! At times, tell yourself to “shut up.”

58. The Divine Right of the King

Principle 166: Asking yourself, “Is there sin here?” and “Who’s in authority here?” will quickly reveal the moral compass for a situation – avoid the sin and submit to the authority.

Principle 167: If you are tempted to play loosely with the authority over you, be most keenly aware that there is One whose authority is never to be tested. To do so is a matter of spiritual life and death! He isn’t called King of Kings for nothing.

59. The “Hundred-Lash” Rule

Principle 168: The severity of the discipline is in direct correlation to the severity of the rebellion; if a rebuke brings submission, the rod will not follow.

Principle 169: Figure out quickly what is necessary to avoid the wrath of an authority figure, and promptly comply with directions. Not doing so will bring painful “lashes.”

Principle 170: Rebellion always complicates things, and rebels create chaos; immediate, joyful compliance simplifies life, for everybody.

60. Building a Legacy

Principle 171: The legacy we leave behind is not measured by our bios, resumes, bank accounts, titles, possessions, or funeral eulogies. It is the essence of our character-what God says about us.

Principle 172: All the wealth in the world cannot give us a good reputation, and abject poverty cannot tarnish it. But a good reputation based on genuine righteousness can assure us of God’s blessing in wealth or poverty in this life and the life to come.

Principle 173: The moral choices we make now are visited on our children and grandchildren long after we are gone. Leaving a legacy rooted in faith and obedience to Jesus Christ and His life principles will stand us in good stead regardless of the other things our progeny inherit from us.

22220 Wisdom for the Trenches

CONTENTS

Introduction

1. How to Recognize a Fool

2. Adultery: One ”A” You Don’t Want to Earn

3. Anger: The Nuclear Emotion… with Huge Fallout

4. Lying: The Self-Made Trap

5. Gossip: The Hidden Dagger

6. Reproof: A Building Block for Character

7. Insults and Curses: Unsolicited Instruction

8. Listening: God’s Channel for Personal Growth

9. Scoffers and Mockers, Beware!

10. The Fast Lane to Ugliness

11. How to Change People’s Minds

12. Using God-given Authority

13. The Rise and Fall of the Proud

14. A Cure for Spiritual Heart Disease

15. One Dangerous Babe (or Dude) to Avoid

16. Impulse Control and the Key to Character

17. Danger: Eyes That Do Not See

18. For Adult[erer]s Only

19. Rebuke: 10, Flattery 0

20. You Can Tell a Person by His Cover

21. Your Money and Your Slave Master

22. Somebody, Anybody, Applaud Me!

23. Laughter Is Not the Best Medicine

24. Other Names for Treachery

25. Nuclear Sticks and Stones

26. Plan the Work and Work the Plan

27. For You, I Have a Special Deal!

28. Plans from the Ultimate Planner

29. Friends in Low Places

30. The “Dumb Dog” Syndrome

31. A Place Called Hope

32. The Awful Consequences of Unteachability

33. The High Cost of Gloating

34. The Futility of Hiding

35. The Fool and His Money

36. Long Live the Righteous!

37. The High Cost of Relying on the Unreliable

38. Strange Jewelry

39. The Tenderizing Effect of Godliness

40. The Cunning Human Mind

41. The “Slut” Factor

42. The Folly of” Heart-Following”

43. God Knows What Happens in Vegas

44. Milestones on the Road to the Poorhouse

45. Curing the Poverty Curse

46. God’s “Silent Treatment”

47. Watch Out! Your Body Is Talking

48. God’s “Get Rich Slowly” Scheme

49. The Wrong Cheering Section

50. The Check’s Not in the Mail

51. Seismic Moral Situations

52. Seven Things on God’s “Hate List”

53. “Home Sweet Home” … or Not

54. “Stop Yelling at Me!”

55. Will Lady Luck Help Out?

56. Humble Pie … with a Really Tough Crust

57. Shut up!

58. The Divine Right of the King

59. The “Hundred-Lash” Rule

60. Building a Legacy

61. Wisdom for the Trenches Principles

22220.015 One Dangerous Babe (or Dude) to Avoid

The woman Folly is loud; she is undisciplined and without knowledge. She sits at the door of her house, on a seat at the highest point of the city, calling out to those who pass by, who go straight on their way, “Let all who are simple come here!” she says to those who lack judgment. “Stolen water is sweet; food eaten in secret is delicious!” But little do they know that the dead are there, that her guests are in the depths of the grave. (Proverbs 9:13-18)

Hollywood is known for its beautiful and seductive women. They are everywhere—from the Playmates circling the Playboy mansion in Holmby Hills, to the sirens who walk the red carpet dressed in scant nothingness at the Kodak Theater on Oscar night, to the bare vixens who sell their bodies and souls to the world’s largest “adult entertainment” industry.

Solomon knew a thing or two about seductive women. His wives and concubines numbered a thousand hand-picked beauties, and he authored the Bible’s handbook of sensuality, the Song of Solomon. Interesting, then, that he follows his warnings about the adulteress in Proverbs 7, and his lauding of the glories of Wisdom in chapter 8 with alarm about another scary babe…named Folly.

For sure, Folly is the most destructive seducer of all. If you don’t believe it, you haven’t visited Las Vegas, the dives of any major city, or the secret hideaways of Manhattan. But Folly also attends church board meetings, workplace committee meetings, financial investing seminars, and dinner-table arguments. She is deadly, and…she’s not always a “she.” Solomon makes both Wisdom and Folly feminine as literary devices, but one gender has no corner on either.

One reason Folly, aka Stupidity, is so seductive is that she’s impressively prominent. She holds “a seat at the highest point of the city.” If corporate titans and politicians were wise, society would be very different.

Principle: Stupidity is an expression of the dominant worldview which parades as “conventional thinking”; only divine insight will help you recognize and transcend it.

Proverbs says three attributes explain Stupidity’s success at seduction and destruction. She (1) preys on the simple and ignorant, (2) has no respect for what is not hers, and (3) operates in utmost secrecy.

Principle: Wisdom always strengthens the weak and lifts the downtrodden; Stupidity exploits both.

Principle: Wisdom always respects the person, feelings, dignity, and possessions of others; Stupidity rapes them.

We might call it the ”Al Qaeda Syndrome.” It’s the tendency to operate in the shadows, in secret, and in hidden cells plotting evil.

Stupidity thrives on encrypted memos, clandestine meetings, and the cover of darkness. The wise and righteous person lives life in the light and in the open. lt never fears investigation or disclosure.

Principle: The wise and righteous life never fears examination…of its datebook, checkbook, closet, or computer hard drive.

Avoid Folly—she’ll do you in. Her dwelling is filled with corpses (Proverbs 9:18).

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22180.010 In the Presence of a King

12 Days of Christmas: Day 10

After listening to the king they left, and once again the star they saw when it rose led them until it stopped above the place where the child was. When they saw the star they shouted joyfully. As they came into the house and saw the child with Mary his mother, they bowed down and worshiped him. They opened their treasure boxes and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.
(Matthew 2:9–11)

How miraculously and graciously the hand of God directed these wise men, leading them directly to the Christ child. How joyful they were in God’s leading! The signs of God’s presence cannot help but fill us with great joy and peace. I am reminded of God’s word to Joshua:

Be strong and brave! Don’t be afraid and don’t panic, for I, the LORD your God, am with you in all you do.
(Joshua 1:9)

We should be glad for everything and everyone that points us to Christ—directing us to things above rather than earthly things. Paul tells us our minds and hearts should be focused upward:

Therefore, if you have been raised with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Keep thinking about things above, not things on the earth.
(Colossians 3:1–2)

There is continual joy in God’s presence. I am reminded of King David’s words:

You lead me in the path of life;
I experience absolute joy in your presence;
you always give me sheer delight.
(Psalm 16:11)

God enabled the wise men to do that which they themselves were unable to do by their own abilities and devices. No compass or GPS could have led them there. Even King Herod was confused over the whereabouts of the King of the Jews. As we follow after the Master, God directs, enables, and equips us through His power just as He did these wise men. I am reminded of Paul’s words:

I am able to do all things through the one who strengthens me.
(Philippians 4:13)

What in the world might have been the reaction of the wise men to the humble place in which the star led them to discover the King of Kings? Surely they had to have been at the very least taken aback when they saw a cottage instead of a castle. Yet we discover in our verses quite the opposite. Undeterred, they humbly present themselves in worship first, then their gifts second. Interestingly, the Bible tells us they bow down in worship to the Lord Jesus even though they had not given such honor to Herod. Neither a castle nor a crown makes a man a king.

These wise men present their gifts of gold and incense and myrrh to young Jesus. What might Mary have been thinking while all this was taking place? In the eastern nations, when one did homage to their kings, they brought gifts from their own country.

The gifts presented to Jesus had symbolic value as well as monetary value. Gold was offered because Jesus is King; incense was offered because Jesus is God, and God was honored with the smoke of incense; and finally, myrrh was offered to Jesus as a man who would die, as myrrh was used for embalming dead bodies. These gifts were a timely relief sent by God to Joseph and Mary in their present poor condition. This probably helped them when they headed toward Egypt. God also protected these wise men, warning them in a dream not to go back to King Herod.

Become More

“We cannot expect too little from man, nor too much from God.” —Matthew Henry

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not rely on your own understanding. Acknowledge him, in all your ways and he will make your paths straight.
(Proverbs 3:5–6)

Read the Word

Matthew 2:9–12

2:9 After listening to the king they left, and once again the star they saw when it rose led them until it stopped above the place where the child was. 2:10 When they saw the star they shouted joyfully. 2:11 As they came into the house and saw the child with Mary his mother, they bowed down and worshiped him. They opened their treasure boxes and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. 2:12 After being warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they went back by another route to their own country.

22180.001 Can You See God’s Grace?

12 Days of Christmas: Day 1

This is the record of the genealogy of Jesus Christ, the son of David, the son of Abraham.
So all the generations from Abraham to David are fourteen generations, and from David to the deportation to Babylon, fourteen generations, and from the deportation to Babylon to Christ, fourteen generations.
(Matthew 1:1, 17)

Seriously, is there anyone out there still awake? I mean, really, what could possibly be more exciting or invigorating than a good genealogy read? However, this isn’t just any genealogical presentation. It is the genealogy of our Lord and Savior’s earthly ancestors and the list is packed full of insight into God’s amazing grace.

Matthew was written by the tax-collector-turned-Jesus-follower, one of the original twelve Apostles. It is an eyewitness account of much of our Lord’s earthly ministry. Matthew writes his gospel primarily to a Jewish audience. It is fitting that he begins his writing by connecting Jesus back to the two great covenants of Jewish history—the Abrahamic (Genesis 12 and 15) and the Davidic (2 Samuel 7)—by including a detailed lineage of Christ. This genealogy shows that God is ever faithful to His promises and will make good every word He has spoken, though the performance of the fulfillment may be long deferred.

Anyone claiming to be the King of the Jews at that time would have been asked by their fellow Jews if he was indeed a descendant of King David. Matthew clearly gives a definitive “Yes!” to Jesus being rightly related to King David by detailing His lineage.

Interestingly, Matthew makes mention of five women in his genealogy of Jesus. He also includes some men of questionable character. The genealogy of Jesus demonstrates the gift of God’s grace: Tamar, an adulterous Canaanite; Rahab, a prostitute and a Canaanite as well; Ruth, a Moabite; Solomon’s mother Bathsheba, an adulteress; and Mary “of whom was born Jesus,” the “of whom” being a feminine relative pronoun indicating Jesus was the physical child of Mary, yet Joseph was not His physical father. I think it is extremely interesting that Matthew, through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, mentions Uriah’s name in lieu of Bathsheba’s, as he had been her husband and the one that King David had killed in an effort to cover his own sin with her. I think it sweet of God to recognize Uriah in this significant place rather than Bathsheba, once again reminding us that Uriah was an honorable man.

We see God’s grace throughout the Bible, reaching back many generations through his covenant, and going forward through the sacrifice of his only Son.

Become More

“No sea is deeper than the ocean of His love. There is no army stronger than His hosts, no force greater than His throne of grace, no enemy who can overcome His direct and indirect work in our lives.” —Robert J. Morgan

“Grace is the grand and only resource for us all. It is the basis of our salvation; the basis of a life of practical godliness; and the basis of those imperishable hopes which animate us amid the trials and conflicts of this sin-stricken world. May we cherish a deeper sense of grace, and more ardent desire for glory!” —C. H. Mackintosh

“Delays of promised mercies, though they exercise our patience, do not weaken God’s promise.” —Matthew Henry

Read the Word

Matthew 1:1–17

1:1 This is the record of the genealogy of Jesus Christ, the son of David, the son of Abraham.

1:2 Abraham was the father of Isaac, Isaac the father of Jacob, Jacob the father of Judah and his brothers, 1:3 Judah the father of Perez and Zerah (by Tamar), Perez the father of Hezron, Hezron the father of Ram, 1:4 Ram the father of Amminadab, Amminadab the father of Nahshon, Nahshon the father of Salmon, 1:5 Salmon the father of Boaz (by Rahab), Boaz the father of Obed (by Ruth), Obed the father of Jesse, 1:6 and Jesse the father of David the king.

David was the father of Solomon (by the wife of Uriah), 1:7 Solomon the father of Rehoboam, Rehoboam the father of Abijah, Abijah the father of Asa, 1:8 Asa the father of Jehoshaphat, Jehoshaphat the father of Joram, Joram the father of Uzziah, 1:9 Uzziah the father of Jotham, Jotham the father of Ahaz, Ahaz the father of Hezekiah, 1:10 Hezekiah the father of Manasseh, Manasseh the father of Amon, Amon the father of Josiah, 1:11 and Josiah the father of Jeconiah and his brothers, at the time of the deportation to Babylon.

1:12 After the deportation to Babylon, Jeconiah became the father of Shealtiel, Shealtiel the father of Zerubbabel, 1:13 Zerubbabel the father of Abiud, Abiud the father of Eliakim, Eliakim the father of Azor, 1:14 Azor the father of Zadok, Zadok the father of Achim, Achim the father of Eliud, 1:15 Eliud the father of Eleazar, Eleazar the father of Matthan, Matthan the father of Jacob, 1:16 and Jacob the father of Joseph, the husband of Mary, by whom Jesus was born, who is called Christ.

1:17 So all the generations from Abraham to David are fourteen generations, and from David to the deportation to Babylon, fourteen generations, and from the deportation to Babylon to Christ, fourteen generations.

22180.012 Wisdom and Favor

12 Days of Christmas: Day 12

And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature, and in favor with God and with people.
(Luke 2:52)

Oh, the great economy of words in Scripture! Wouldn’t you like to know more about the childhood of Jesus than simply what this one verse tells us? Why on earth did God not tell us more? Unless, of course, this was sufficient? Scripture tells us that we are to walk as Jesus did:

The one who says he resides in God ought himself to walk just as Jesus walked.
(1 John 2:6)

Since God does everything perfectly, maybe we should examine this verse a bit deeper.

At first blush, these words appear to let us know that Jesus grew up. While it is perfectly normal and predictable for a child to grow physically, it is neither human nature nor predictable for a child to grow in wisdom and favor with God and men! Jesus, being both totally God and totally man, possessed in his precious infant body the “fullness of the God-head” (Colossians 1:19). Just as his body was in the infant stage, so was His wisdom and favor. It was perfect for that stage. As He grew in stature, He also grew in wisdom and favor to perfection for each stage. While we will never reach perfection on this side of heaven, we are still called to pursue wisdom and favor. The Bible is filled with verses to this end:

By making your ear attentive to wisdom, and by turning your heart to understanding.
(Proverbs 2:2)

For the LORD gives wisdom, and from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. He stores up effective counsel for unright, and is like a shield for those who life with integrity, to guard the paths of the righteous and to protect the way of his pious ones.
(Proverbs 2:6–8)

Blessed is the one who has found wisdom, the one who obtains understanding. For her benefit is more profitable than silver and her gain is better than gold. She is more precious than rubies; and none of the things you desire can compare with her. Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor. Her ways are pleasant, and all her paths are peaceful. She is a tree of life to those who grasp onto her; everyone who takes hold of her will be blessed.
(Proverbs 3:13–18)

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with all people.
(Romans 12:18)

We are told in Scripture that in Christ are “hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge” (Colossians 2:3). As we grow up in Christ we grow up in wisdom and with this, we find favor with God and men. Have you ever noticed in Scripture how many years God takes in readying or growing up His vessels for use? Abraham waited twenty-five years for Isaac, the promised child of the covenant; Joseph spent thirteen years in preparation before becoming a leader in Egypt; Moses was forty years tending sheep for his father-in-law; David, Paul, and many more all waited for the “time to fully come.” Even Jesus prepared for thirty years for His three-year ministry. Just as building muscles takes time, growing in wisdom and holiness takes time.

Since we are commanded in Scripture to grow in wisdom and holiness, how do we go about making it happen? Here are a few suggestions:

  • We must be in God’s Word daily. Even if it is just a verse, it is profitable.
  • We must apply God’s truth to our life. What we learn by being in His word, we should apply. All the head knowledge in the world will not help us grow until it is actually fleshed out. We live what we believe to be true. And we grow or go backward, whichever the case may be, as we live our lives.
  • We must hide God’s Word in our hearts. This keeps us from sinning, strengthens our prayer life, and allows us to live a life that glorifies Him.
  • We must pray, pray, pray.

The promise of Scripture is this:

When you seek me in prayer and worship, you will find me available to you. If you seek me with all your heart and soul. “I will make myself available to you,” says the Lord. “Then I will reverse your plight and will regather you from all the nations and all the places where I have exiled you,” says the Lord. “I will bring you back to the place from which I exiled you.”
(Jeremiah 29:13–14)

Become More

While we will never reach perfection on this side of heaven, we are still called to pursue wisdom and favor.

For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in the Son.
(Colossians 1:19)

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, because I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is not hard to carry.”
(Matthew 11:28–30)

Read the Word

Luke 2:41–52

2:41 Now Jesus’ parents went to Jerusalem every year for the Feast of the Passover. 2:42 When he was twelve years old, they went up according to custom. 2:43 But when the feast was over, as they were returning home, the boy Jesus stayed behind in Jerusalem. His parents did not know it, 2:44 but (because they assumed that he was in their group of travelers) they went a day’s journey. Then they began to look for him among their relatives and acquaintances. 2:45 When they did not find him, they returned to Jerusalem to look for him. 2:46 After three days they found him in the temple courts, sitting among the teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. 2:47 And all who heard Jesus were astonished at his understanding and his answers. 2:48 When his parents saw him, they were overwhelmed. His mother said to him, “Child, why have you treated us like this? Look, your father and I have been looking for you anxiously.” 2:49 But he replied, “Why were you looking for me? Didn’t you know that I must be in my Father’s house?” 2:50 Yet his parents did not understand the remark he made to them. 2:51 Then he went down with them and came to Nazareth, and was obedient to them. But his mother kept all these things in her heart.

2:52 And Jesus increased in wisdom and in stature, and in favor with God and with people.

22180.011 Following God’s Plan

12 Days of Christmas: Day 11

After they had gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Get up, take the child and his mother and flee to Egypt, and stay there until I tell you, for Herod is going to look for the child to kill him.” Then he got up, took the child and his mother during the night and left for Egypt.
After Herod had died, an angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt saying, “Get up, take the child and his mother, and go to the land of Israel, for those who were seeking the child’s life are dead.” So he got up and took the child and his mother and returned to the land of Israel.
(Matthew 2:13–14, 19–21)

It’s not too difficult to discern one of the reasons why Joseph was picked to be the earthly father of our Lord Jesus: obedience. In the second of his four dreams, Joseph was told to get up and flee to Egypt because Jesus’ life was in danger. Joseph was neither aware of the specific danger nor how to avert it, and yet God directs him in precisely what to do. God even supplied the means by way of the gifts of the Magi. Everything was covered.

The safest place to be is always in the center of God’s will. Nothing ever takes God by surprise. To Joseph’s credit, when the angel of the Lord speaks to him in dreams, we discover him moving and moving quickly. So often we rebel against obedience by ignoring, delaying, questioning, dismissing, or fleeing from God’s directives. Seriously, when are we going to learn that God always has our best interests at heart! His way is often not the easiest way, but it is always the best way. It really boils down to trust.

The journey for Joseph and his young family to Egypt would be both inconvenient and perilous, yet Joseph remained steadfast in the heavenly vision he had received. He made no objection nor did he dawdle, but immediately got up and set out during the night making quick work of obedience.

Bit by bit the story continues to unfold for Joseph, Mary, and the baby Jesus. Certainly, God, who makes known the end from the beginning, could have given Joseph all of His instructions at once. Yet, as He most often chooses to do, God makes His way known gradually—revealing His mind and way in increments. He does this in order for us to be reminded of His faithfulness in leading and also to teach us to continue to listen for His still small voice—waiting upon His instructions and trusting in His ways as best for our lives.

God always goes before us. Waiting upon His leading teaches us a myriad of things not the least of which is patience and obedience. It never comes easy to wait—it is far easier to take matters into our own hands and run ahead. But we get usually find ourselves in trouble when we pursue the devices of our own imaginations.

God sent Joseph and his young family into Egypt and then he brought them out. We can be sure there is always purpose in His plans. He is leading even when we cannot readily discern it. We should follow Christ in simplicity and faith because the paths in which He leads us all end in glory and immortality. It is true they may not be smooth paths—they may be covered with sharp flinty trials, but they lead to the “city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God”…All the ways of the Lord are loving and faithful for those who keep the demands of His covenant.

Become More

The safest place to be is always in the center of God’s will. Nothing ever takes God by surprise.

“God is God. Because He is God, He is worthy of my trust and obedience. I will find rest nowhere but in His holy will, a will that is unspeakably beyond my largest notions of what He is up to.” —Elisabeth Elliot

“In our walk with God we are told explicitly by Christ Himself that it would be His Spirit who would be sent to guide us and to lead us into all truth (John 16:13). This same gracious Spirit takes the truth of God, the Word of God, and makes it plain to our hearts and minds and spiritual understanding. It is He who gently, tenderly, but persistently says to us, ‘This is the way—walk in it.’ And as we comply and cooperate with His gentle promptings a sense of safety, comfort and well-being envelops us.” —Phillip Keller

“Let’s put full trust in our Leader, since we know that, come prosperity or adversity, sickness or health, popularity or contempt, His purpose shall be worked out, and that purpose shall be pure, unmingled good to every heir of mercy…His dear love will make us far more blessed than those who sit at home and warm their hands at the world’s fire.” —Charles Spurgeon

Teach me how you want me to live, LORD; lead me along a level path because of those who wait to ambush me!
(Psalm 27:11)

But this I call to mind; therefore I have hope: the LORD’s loyal kindness never ceases; his compassions never end. They are fresh every morning; your faithfulness is abundant! “My portion is the LORD,” I have said to myself, so I will put my hope in him.
(Lamentations 3:21-24)

As for the Rock, his work is perfect, for all his ways are just. He is a reliable God who is never unjust, he is fair and upright.
(Deuteronomy 32:4)

Where would I be if I did not believe I would experience the LORD’s favor in the land of the living? Rely on the LORD! Be strong and confident! Rely on the LORD!
(Psalm 27:13-14)

Read the Word

Matthew 2:13–23

2:13 After they had gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Get up, take the child and his mother and flee to Egypt, and stay there until I tell you, for Herod is going to look for the child to kill him.” 2:14 Then he got up, took the child and his mother during the night, and went to Egypt. 2:15 He stayed there until Herod died. In this way what was spoken by the Lord through the prophet was fulfilled: “I called my Son out of Egypt.”

2:16 When Herod saw that he had been tricked by the wise men, he became enraged. He sent men to kill all the children in Bethlehem and throughout the surrounding region from the age of two and under, according to the time he had learned from the wise men. 2:17 Then what was spoken by Jeremiah the prophet was fulfilled:

2:18 “A voice was heard in Ramah,
weeping and loud wailing,
Rachel weeping for her children,
and she did not want to be comforted, because they were gone.”

2:19 After Herod had died, an angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt 2:20 saying, “Get up, take the child and his mother, and go to the land of Israel, for those who were seeking the child’s life are dead.” 2:21 So he got up and took the child and his mother and returned to the land of Israel. 2:22 But when he heard that Archelaus was reigning over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there. After being warned in a dream, he went to the regions of Galilee. 2:23 He came to a town called Nazareth and lived there. Then what had been spoken by the prophets was fulfilled, that Jesus would be called a Nazarene.

22180.009 Worship the Lord with Gladness

12 Days of Christmas: Day 9

After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, in the time of King Herod, wise men from the East came to Jerusalem saying, “Where is the one who is born king of the Jews? For we saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.” When King Herod heard this he was alarmed, and all Jerusalem with him. After assembling all the chief priests and experts in the law, he asked them where the Christ was to be born.
(Matthew 2:1–4)

No doubt we could go down some serious rabbit trails with these verses and get nowhere fast. It would be very easy to major on the minors and seek answers to such questions as: Exactly how many Magi came searching for the King of Kings; from what country did they actually come; how did they know the star they saw was “his star”; why were people so ignorant in Jerusalem regarding the “desire of all nations” coming into the world who was now already around two years old; why was His birth apparently so obscured and ignored by His own people who held the prophecy in their hands; and on and on the questions might go. Sometimes the economy of words in Scripture leaves us hanging with the three-year-old’s one-word question of “Why?” I am reminded of the words in Deuteronomy:

The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but those that are revealed belong to us and our descendants forever, so that we might obey all the words of this law.
(Deuteronomy 29:29)

Rather than delve into the obscure and subjective, the truth I see blazingly confronting us in this passage is the importance and priority of worship. Indeed, these verses beg the question to us all: Do we willingly seek to worship our Lord as these wise Magi did?

The motivation for worship and praise of our Father in heaven is limitless indeed. We worship God for who He is, in the fullness of His Majesty. We praise God for all His many attributes: His holiness, His perfection, His loving kindness, His tender mercy, His compassion, His constant faithfulness, His gentleness, His omnipotent power, His omniscience, His creativity, His vastness. We worship Him for all He does; for all the blessings He bestows upon us.

While these motivations for worship are worthy and most acceptable, I believe the highest form of worship comes from the lips of those who choose to praise Him even when the circumstances we find ourselves in are not what we desire. It is when we receive a “No” to our leanings and wants in lieu of getting a “Yes.” It is a praise that flows from lips that choose to trust Him with everything that concerns. When we choose to do this, in my opinion, it is a proclamation of supreme faith. I am reminded of the words of the prophet Habakkuk:

When the fig tree does not bud, and there are no grapes on the vines; when the olive trees do not produce, and the fields yield no crops; when the sheep disappear from the pen, and there are no cattle in the stalls, I will rejoice because of the LORD; I will be happy because of the God who delivers me!
(Habakkuk 3:17-18)

We stand on the promise of Romans 8:28. All things are not innately good, but as believers we hold to the assurance of Scripture that all things will work for our good:

And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose.
(Romans 8:28)

Become More

“Could you ask for a better promise? It is better that all things should work for my good than all things should be as I would wish to have them. All things might work for my pleasure and yet might all work my ruin. If all things do not always please me, they will always benefit me. This is the best promise of this life.” —Charles Spurgeon

“Reader, let’s put this question—do you worship the Lord with gladness? Let’s show to the people of the world, who think our religion to be slavery, that it is to us a delight and a joy! Let our gladness proclaim that we worship a good Master.” —Charles Spurgeon

Worship the Lord with joy!
Enter his presence with joyful singing!
(Psalm 100:2)

Read the Word

Matthew 2:1–12

2:1 After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, in the time of King Herod, wise men from the East came to Jerusalem 2:2 saying, “Where is the one who is born king of the Jews? For we saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.” 2:3 When King Herod heard this he was alarmed, and all Jerusalem with him. 2:4 After assembling all the chief priests and experts in the law, he asked them where the Christ was to be born. 2:5 “In Bethlehem of Judea,” they said, “for it is written this way by the prophet:

2:6 ‘And you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah,
are in no way least among the rulers of Judah,
for out of you will come a ruler who will shepherd my people Israel.’”

2:7 Then Herod privately summoned the wise men and determined from them when the star had appeared. 2:8 He sent them to Bethlehem and said, “Go and look carefully for the child. When you find him, inform me so that I can go and worship him as well.” 2:9 After listening to the king they left, and once again the star they saw when it rose led them until it stopped above the place where the child was. 2:10 When they saw the star they shouted joyfully. 2:11 As they came into the house and saw the child with Mary his mother, they bowed down and worshiped him. They opened their treasure boxes and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. 2:12 After being warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they went back by another route to their own country.