22220.055 Will Lady Luck Help Out?

The lot is cast into the lap, but its every decision is from the Lord. (Proverbs 16:33)

So they [the disciples] nominated two men: Joseph called Barsabbas (also known as Justus) and Matthias. Then they prayed, “Lord, you know everyone’s heart. Show us which of these two you have chosen to take over this apostolic ministry, which Judas left to go where he belongs.” Then they cast lots, and the lot fell to Matthias; so he was added to the eleven apostles. (Aces 1:23-26)

Then the sailors said to each other, “Come, let us cast lots to find out who is responsible for this [shipwreck] calamity.” They cast lots, and the lot fell on Jonah. (Jonah 1:7)

There is a science which studies probability, the law (or formula) of total probability, and other factors in predicting what is likely or unlikely to happen. Most people know little about laws of probability but a lot about “luck.” “Good luck” is credited for the good fortune people experience just as “bad luck” is blamed for bad fortune. Luck is even anthropomorphized into a person, “Lady Luck.” This fake deity is invoked at slot machines and roulette wheels in every gambling hall in the world.

But does it make sense to call on luck when facing tough decisions? Will Lady Luck act in favor or disfavor in your circumstance? The authors of Proverbs don’t support relying on chance factors. They directed us beyond superstition and behind a chance to the Person who does influence what happens…God.

Could it be that a sovereign God is so involved in the events of this world that He has a say in every roll of the dice, every spin of the wheel, every dealing of the cards? The Bible says yes. If so, praying to the true and living God is going to be a lot more helpful than appealing to a mythical someone in the great beyond somewhere!

But what about Bible references which support the casting of lots to divine God’s will or get answers to cosmic questions? In one of the passages above, Jesus’ disciples cast lots to decide which of their two “nominees” God would approve to be a replacement for Judas Iscariot who had killed himself? They prayed to God and then cast their lots. When the lot fell on Matthias, they picked him.

In this age in which Christian believers have God’s Word and the indwelling Holy Spirit for guidance, lots are superfluous and unnecessary. Out of grace, God might still work through casting them, but a more direct approach to Him through prayer to involve the Holy Spirit is preferred.

Principle: When seeking guidance in any of life’s circumstances, rely on God’s guidance, not a chance.

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22220.056 Humble Pie … with a Really Tough Crust

He [God] mocks proud mockers but shows favor to the humble and oppressed. (Proverbs 3:34)

When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. (Proverbs 11:2)

Wisdom’s instruction is to fear the LORD, and humility comes before honor. (Proverbs 15:33)

Before a downfall, the heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor. (Proverbs 18:12)

Humility and the fear of the Lord bring wealth and honor and life. (Proverbs 22:4)

We’ve all heard of the proud man whose five-hundred-page book was titled “Humility and How I Attained it…with Fifty Full Color Pictures of Myself.” Humble? Not so much.

Having served in the entertainment industry for so long, I can tell you that humility is a really scarce commodity there. For that matter, it is a scarce commodity in our entire culture. The executive director of the Television Academy of Arts and Sciences told me what an awful time it is right before the annual Emmy Awards event. There are hundreds of fights with attendees over the location of their seats in the house! Near the front. In full view of the TV cameras. Next to big celebrities.

Not next to a “seat filler”—an attractive young nobody who fills the seat of a celebrity while they are on stage, etc. My friend told of the many actual threats the academy staff receive from those who do not get a seat location to their liking!

These folks never read Proverbs on the roadmap to honor. God’s wise sages explained that, basically, the absence of humility indicates a lack of fear of God!

The more godlike we view ourselves, the more we diminish the God to whom we owe everything. Thus, our self-exaltation creates a rival to God and seeks to steal His glory. God tolerates no rivals.

Principle: A key to success in life is living by John the Baptist’s statement, “He must become more important; I must become less important” (John 3:30 NLV). Self-imposed humility actually is blessed by God with “riches, honor, and life.”

The road to honor goes through humility, not self-promotion. When God spots overwhelming pride, He visits it with “mockery” and “disgrace.” In life, we can choose—humility or humiliation.

One more note. I think it is extremely risky to pray, “Dear God, please humble me.” God’s desire is that we humble ourselves. Being humbled is wildly more painful than humbling ourselves. As the praise chorus states, “Humble yourself in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.”

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22220.057 Shut up!

Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues. (Proverbs 17:28)

Sin is not ended by multiplying words, but the prudent hold their tongues. (Proverbs 10:19)

Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue keeps himself out of trouble. (Proverbs 21:23)

Whoever belittles his neighbor lacks sense, but a man of understanding remains silent. (Proverbs 11:12)

I have a wonderful gift…and an awful curse…all rolled into one bodily organ, my tongue. I have a short link between my mind and my mouth and am a born communicator. Dead-air space prompts me to think I should speak. Ouch! How many times in my life that “gift” has gotten me in big trouble. It has taken me far too long to learn there are times when I should be silent in every language I know.

Maybe you can relate.

James said that a person who can control his tongue has life mastered. “Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check” (James 3:2).

Principle: Silence truly is “golden,” and talk truly is “cheap.” Only God can enable us to discern when to exchange the talk which is cheap for the quietness which is golden.

I suppose this teaching could be called the “biblical doctrine of shut­ting up.” I love the humor Solomon’s boys put in this teaching. It contrasts a quiet fool with a talkative one. Someone has said it is better to keep quiet and be thought a fool than to talk and remove all doubt. Proverbs recommends keeping quiet because you might even be thought intelligent with your mouth shut!

When I was in management, we used to do an exercise to dramatize the difference between talk and influence. We played a game in which groups of eight to ten were to pretend that they were stranded on the moon with only one chance to get back to earth alive—take the most crucial objects from a long list and leave on the moon all those that might safely be left behind. The zinger in the game was that every single member of the group had to agree on the rank order of each of the items on the list!

After a considerable amount of discussion, the groups presented their lists. Then the organizational facilitator asked each group to line up its members in order of participation—the most talkative to those who participated the least. At this point, the talkers felt mighty good about themselves…at the head of each line.

Then the facilitator asked the members of each group to rearrange their lines based on whose comments made the most impact on the ultimate group decision. In nearly every case, there were those who moved from the back to the head of this new line, people who had been quiet a lot during the discussions. When they did speak, however, everybody listened!

The exercise revealed that talking a lot gave way to speaking wisdom to the group and its final decisions. Repeatedly in Proverbs, fools are described as babbling nonsense, listening too little, and wanting only to air their own opinions. Formulas for disaster.

Years ago, when Johnny Carson was in his heyday with the NBC Tonight Show, he had a ditzy blonde actress as a guest. She babbled incoherently and incessantly as the middle-aged man who sat beside her observed. Finally, in a brief moment between her babbles—probably to catch her breath—the man asked, “Do you have any unexpressed thoughts?”

Principle: There are times to speak and times to keep silent. Unexpressed thoughts will never get you in trouble. In fact, some might even read your timely moments of silence as intelligence! At times, tell yourself to “shut up.”

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22220.058 The Divine Right of the King

Kings take pleasure in honest lips; they value a man who speaks the truth. (Proverbs 16:13)

He who loves a pure heart and whose speech is gracious will have the king for his friend. (Proverbs 22:11)

Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will serve before kings; he will not serve before obscure men. (Proverbs 22:29)

Do not exalt yourself in the king’s presence, and do not claim a place among great men; it is better for him to say to you, “Come up here,” than for him to humiliate you before a nobleman. (Proverbs 25:6-7)

For all their benefits, democracies cheat their citizens of a number of valuable life lessons. One is learning to relate to absolute authority. Human nature—bent as it is toward rebellion—is taught submission only through the discipline of dealing with authority against which there is no appeal. When a king speaks, it is a final answer. When a president speaks, it may well be subject to appeal, veto, or negotiability. It is that perception of negotiability that gives a foot in the door for man’s rebellion…and its consequences.

When I was in college ROTC, I was taught a very alien and often-despised concept called “military authority.” Bringing my democratic presuppositions and youthful arrogance to the military environment cost me many hours of labor working off “demerits” administered because of my lack of submission to the officers over me. I was told the only acceptable answers were, “Yes, sir,” “No, sir,” and “No excuse, sir.” Awful…but wonderful. I learned my heart of rebellion and ways to respond to nonnegotiable authority. The military chain of command taught me how to respond to God.

Proverbs teaches principles for relating successfully to those in authority—husbands, bosses, police, governors, and God. Following them is a key to better relationships, even if their authority is not “absolute.”

Watchman Nee, in his book Spiritual Authority, teaches that in every situation a believer is to be keenly aware of two dynamics—the presence of sin and the presence of authority. He also taught that the righteous person “keeps his peace and keeps his place.”

Principle: Asking yourself, “Is there sin here?” and “Who’s in authority here?” will quickly reveal the moral compass for a situation—avoid the sin and submit to the authority.

There is a pecking order even among high-level authorities. The general can overrule the captain and the captain the sergeant. In like manner, in the heavenly chain of authority, there is one authority that transcends all others. He is called the “King of all kings.”

Principle: If you are tempted to play loosely with the authority over you, be most keenly aware that there is One whose authority is never to be tested. To do so is a matter of spiritual life and death! He isn’t called King of Kings for nothing.

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22220.059 The “Hundred-Lash” Rule

A rebuke impresses a man of discernment more than a hundred lashes a fool. An evil man is bent only on rebellion; a merciless official will be sent against him. (Proverbs 17:10-11)

Flog a mocker, and the simple will learn prudence; rebuke a discerning man, and he will gain knowledge. (Proverbs 19:25)

We’ve all seen a teen like this. He may have been the kid who was always in trouble in high school, the bully who even the principal or the police couldn’t break, or the gang member who ended up as every­ one predicted he would, serving hard time. After he was scolded, he sneered. After he was disciplined, he defied the authorities and dared them to do more. Incorrigible.

No doubt King Solomon had seen his share of rebellious people. In observing what fools they were (his word), he noted that there was a measuring stick for their folly. In the passages above, he describes a sliding scale in dealing with disobedience—”rebuke” on one end and “one hundred lashes” on the other. It is a general principle that authorities will use only as much discipline as is sufficient to bring compliance. If a rebuke works, they typically won’t waste the time and energy on more extreme discipline.

Thus, the formula: the greater the resistance, the more severe the discipline. In effect, we can determine our punishment.

Principle: The severity of the discipline is in direct correlation to the severity of the rebellion; if a rebuke brings submission, the rod will not follow.

Then the wise king observed that some people became submissive and compliant with no discipline at all! What factor in them accomplished this? “Discernment,” a factor in wisdom. A wise student of authority will learn quickly how one ends up in the principal’s office or in jail—by observation and not by acting out.

Principle: Figure out quickly what is necessary to avoid the wrath of an authority figure, and promptly comply with directions. Not doing so will bring painful “Lashes.”

Joyful submission to authority is not complicated. Rebellion is. When our kids asked with a whine, “Why do I have to take out the trash?” We understood that this was not a search for knowledge about the necessity for trash pickup. So we responded, “Take out the trash first. Then we will talk about why it is a necessary task.” Obedience isn’t complicated. Even the “simple” can figure it out.

Principle: Rebellion always complicates things, and rebels create chaos; immediate, joyful compliance simplifies life, for everybody.

Trust and obey. There is no other way…

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22220.060 Building a Legacy

The memory of the righteous will be a blessing, but the name of the wicked will rot. (Proverbs 10:7)

A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold. (Proverbs 22:1)

A good person leaves an inheritance for his children’s children, but a sinner’s wealth is stored up for the righteous. (Proverbs 13:22)

When you learn for the first time that my name is Larry Poland, I assume nothing particularly wonderful or horrible comes to mind. You may never have met anyone named Poland before. There are no famous Polands whom I know of and none who have achieved infamy. Even research on my predecessors revealed no horse thieves on one hand and no kings or presidents on the other.

I suppose it is natural for one to think of his or her legacy with advancing years. In my case, I sat down in my twenties and wrote out a list of what I wanted to have said about me when I died. One thing was, “He was an outstanding husband and father.” Another was, “He gave his life serving his Lord and Savior.” That list, with many other components, is still the finish line for my life, my legacy.

Imagine if your name were Adolf Hitler Jr. or Osama Bin Laden Jr., or if your mother was Jezebel, Delilah, or a famous porn star? You would bear the burden of the legacy your parent left behind.

Proverbs is much more practical and blunt when talking about how we are remembered, our legacy. Proverbs 10:7 (above) says the choice is “blessing” or “rot.” The determining factor is living righteously or wickedly.

Principle: The legacy we leave behind is not measured by our bios, resumes, bank accounts, titles, possessions, or funeral eulogies. It is the essence of our character—what God says about us.

Proverbs has an interesting perspective on the relative value of wealth. If Bob Barker offered us Door A or Door B on The Price is Right TV show, how many would choose a good reputation over $500,000,000 along with having our reputation trashed? Probably not many. Yet God says a good reputation is of inestimable worth!

Principle: All the wealth in the world cannot give us a good reputation, and abject poverty cannot tarnish it. But a good reputation based on genuine righteousness can assure us of God’s blessing in wealth or poverty in this life and the life to come.

It probably doesn’t matter much if you are a daughter, grandson, or great-grandchild of Adolf Hitler. His legacy will still be a stain on your reputation that you will have to overcome. Proverbs says your children and grandchildren will be blessed or cursed by the character you possess and the way it plays out in your legacy. Think about that when temptation comes and significant moral testing faces you. The best predictor of your future legacy is the pattern of choices you are creating now.

Principle: The moral choices we make now are visited on our children and grandchildren long after we are gone. Leaving a legacy rooted in faith and obedience to Jesus Christ and His life principles will stand us in good stead regardless of the other things our progeny inherit from us.

What is your legacy? What footprint will you leave in the sands of time?

I heard of a man whose tombstone read, “He came here, he stayed here, and he left.” How sad. Apparently, his family members could not think of a single notable action or trait that would show what kind of impact this man made on the human race. What was his purpose for living?

When Jesus told the parable of the sower and the soils in Matthew 13, three of the soils upon which the Word of the kingdom fell were­ for various reasons—unproductive. But the soil that was fruitful produced a “harvest” thirty, sixty, or a hundred times what was sown! The other seed was wasted. I’ve always wanted to be a “Hundred Multiplier Person.” How about you?

You don’t have to be rich, famous, notable, outstanding, or pub­licly visible to leave a powerful legacy. Proverbs 31, which lauds an outstanding wife and mother, makes it patently clear that a “home­ maker” of character can leave an indelible impact on her family and the world—a great legacy. Conversely, a prominent world leader can leave a “rotten” legacy, one that time will reduce to refuse!

How do you want to be remembered? That’s your legacy! But it happens only by starting today making right choices, ones God applauds.

Even if you are up in years and have pretty much screwed up your life so far, there is hope. Today is the first day of the rest of your life.

As the praise song explains,

Something beautiful, something good;
All my confusion He understood;
All I had to offer Him was brokenness and strife,
But He made something beautiful of my life.
(Lyrics and music by Bill Gaither)

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22220.061 Wisdom for the Trenches Principles

1. How to Recognize A Fool

Principle 1: Failing to recognize the Supreme Being is being supremely foolish.

Principle 2: Corruption isn’t just wrong. It’s stupid. In the long run, it doesn’t even work.

Principle 3: Filth and faith are mutually exclusive; as one grows, the other dies.

2. Adultery: One “A” You Don’t Want to Earn

Principle 4: Sex outside of marriage is not what it appears on the surface. Its sweet, smooth beginnings inevitably end in bitterness and injury.

Principle 5: Sex outside of marriage always takes the partners from seduction to reduction…by sucking life itself out of them.

3. Anger: The Nuclear Emotion…with Huge Fallout

Principle 6: The passion of anger is the nuclear fission of the emotions. It can light a city or blow it to bits depending on how its power is released.

Principle 7: Ill-managed anger is an antipersonnel mine; trigger it, and it will maim you and cause permanent injury to those near you.

Principle 8: The only way to manage anger is to surrender it to the Spirit of God; as surrender increases, ill-managed anger decreases.

4. Lying: The Self-Made Trap

Principle 9: Truthful words have hurricane force, but lies the impact of warm breath.

Principle 10: Truth commands long-term respect, but a lie, and the one who speaks it, draws immediate derision.

Principle 11: A lie promises quick and easy benefit, but the promise itself is a lie.

5. Gossip: The Hidden Dagger

Principle 12: Don’t take gossip lightly. Far more than harmless chatter, it’s a deadly dagger to the heart.

Principle 13: Gossip’s companions are worse than urban gangs; Faction, Quarrel and Betrayal are their names.

6. Reproof: A Building Block for Character

Principle 14: Rebuke and reproof are good medicine. They cure moral sickness, so take them faithfully—regardless of how they taste.

Principle 15: Reproof is a test of wisdom and folly; wise people love it, and fools hate it.

Principle 16: The one who doesn’t learn from the correction of others must be reproved personally. Rejecting personal reproof just compounds folly, destruction, and death.

7. Insults and Curses: Unsolicited Instruction

Principle 17: We expose our character, either foolish or wise, by the way we handle curses and insults.

Principle 18: If we listen for the voice of God in it, all comments—regardless of their motivation or content—are potentially useful for character building.

Principle 19: If obedience to God’s Law provides building blocks for our character construction, the search for instruction and correction is the mortar.

Principle 20: Curses and insults are just divinely allowed instruction…in ugly wrappings.

8. Listening: God’s Channel for Personal Growth

Principle 21: Refusing to listen is refusing to learn. The broad road to ignorance and folly is paved with inattention.

Principle 22: Giving full attention to others or their counsel shows that we value both them and their content. Not to do so, at the very least, shows low-level arrogance or contempt.

Principle 23: Ears are windows to the soul. Listen to righteous­ness and grow spiritually wise; listen to evil and reap spiritual destruction.

9. Scoffers and Mockers, Beware!

Principle 24: The mocker uses ridicule, putdowns, sarcasm, or mimicry to belittle others; the righteous person builds them up.

Principle 25: When relationships are marked by strife, seek out the mockers and eliminate them. If you don’t, they will continually stir the relational pot.

Principle 26: If we don’t replace mockery of authority with joyful submission to and respect for it, it could cost us dearly.

10. The Fast Lane to Ugliness

Principle 27: Obsession with personal appearance is an exercise in futility. Its benefits are short-lived and can be stolen in an instant.

Principle 28: The beauty of a person’s character is the ultimate ”cosmetic surgery” that creates loveliness through the ultimate “faith lift.”

Principle 29: To improve your appearance dramatically, get a “spiritual makeover.”

11. How to Change People’s Minds

Principle 30: Seeking to change other people’s thinking is an exercise in futility unless they direct their wills toward the change; it’s a goal that should never be pursued unaided.

Principle 31: Only God has the power and the access to people’s hearts and inner thoughts sufficient to change their minds.

Principle 32: It is folly to ask God to change the thinking of others until we are first willing to have Him change our own.

12. Using God-given Authority

Principle 33: All authority—in home, office, or elsewhere—vests with God and is loaned to us as a sacred trust to be used as He would use it for His purposes alone.

Principle 34: Authority in the hands of a believer is neither a bludgeon to pound others into submission nor a knife to cut them down. It is a divinely designed instrument of guidance and instruction for building those under our authority.

13. The Rise and Fall of the Proud

Principle 35: The same wind that puffs an ego blows away one’s potential for true honor.

Principle 36: Success can’t be equated with adulation. A miserably indebted celebrity is far worse off than a well-served, debt-­free nobody.

Principle 37: Those who feed on their praise are plunging head­-long into the greatest fiery test of their lives. Not many will survive with their souls.

14. A Cure for Spiritual Heart Disease

Principle 38: An unguarded heart will destroy your life and run away with your soul.

Principle 39: The road to destruction meanders through three cities: Heart, Mind, and Spirit…and stays too long in Heart. The road to life goes directly to the Spirit—in the same township as Mind.

Principle 40: Only the heart surrendered to God realizes its deepest desires; self-managed hearts get broken and break the hearts of others.

15. One Dangerous Babe (or Dude) to Avoid

Principle 41: Stupidity is an expression of the dominant worldview which parades as “conventional thinking”; only divine insight will help you recognize and transcend it.

Principle 42: Wisdom always strengthens the weak and lifts the downtrodden; Stupidity exploits both.

Principle 43: Wisdom always respects the person, feelings, dignity, and possessions of others; Stupidity rapes them.

Principle 44: The wise and righteous life never fears examination…of its datebook, checkbook, closet, or computer hard drive.

16. Impulse Control and the Key to Character

Principle 45: The one in bondage to repressed impulses is no more a slave than he who is shackled by lack of control over them.

Principle 46: Associating with friends who lack restraint over their appetites exposes us to their contagious virus of excess.

Principle 47: If it is true that “a fool and his money are soon parted,” it’s equally true that one who binges on anything else will likely binge on spending and borrowing.

Principle 48: Financial poverty and bankruptcy begin where lack of control of other impulses leave off.

17. Danger: Eyes That Do Not See

Principle 49: Without divine illumination, our eyes can never see through and beyond the thick darkness around us.

Principle 50: Failure to give attention to the way we are living is to surrender our destiny to the three enemies of success:­ chance, unexpected risk, and unrecognized stupidity.

Principle 51: No one is so blind as he who will not allow God to enhance and correct his vision.

18. For Adult[erer]s Only

Principle 52: The heart is a person’s spiritual center. If left unguarded, it will be ruptured by demonic darts, not stimulated by Cupid’s arrows.

Principle 53: Defying God’s law in the pursuit of love or sexual pleasure is playing Russian roulette with bullets in every chamber of the gun.

Principle 54: The priceless value of loving loyalty is never realized until all the cheap thrills of infidelity are in the distant past of God’s forgiveness.

19. Rebuke: 10, Flattery 0

Principle 55: True friends will love you enough to scrub you down with truth, even when they know it stings. Your enemies will lather you up with the soft soap of what they think you want to hear.

Principle 56: A relationship based on open truth is true friendship; one built on flattery is a con game.

Principle 57: A loving rebuke requires running your hand along the wall of another’s soul and feeling for a crack to put the truth in; if there’s no crack, don’t bother throwing it at the wall.

20. You Can Tell a Person by His Cover

Principle 58: The eyes are the window to the human soul, and what’s going on there shows on the countenance.

Principle 59: Persons with Christ in them possess a spiritual life and peace which shows as “brightness” and tranquility in the countenance; you can look for and see it.

Principle 60: Sin causes darkness in the human spirit which shows in the countenance; it can’t be covered with makeup nor the light “faked” by a happy face.

Principle 61: True spiritual beauty abides in the heart and is transmitted to the eyes, making a person “ugly” or “beautiful” independent of physical attributes.

21. Your Money and Your Slave Master

Principle 62: Borrowing can be really foolish because it puts the borrower in servitude to the lender…and nobody likes being a slave.

Principle 63: Meeting financial obligations in a prompt and timely manner is a hallmark of integrity. Not to do so puts us in the camp of the wicked.

Principle 64: Time is on the side of those with a cause against us, so we must communicate and settle issues promptly to avoid the dire consequences of delay.

Principle 65: To approach unmet financial obligations by silence, flight, or prideful resistance is not only foolish, it is counterproductive at every level.

22. Somebody, Anybody, Applaud Me!

Principle 66: If we are really great, people will find it out without our telling them. Telling them how great we are usually creates the opposite impression in their minds.

Principle 67: Earthly honor soon dies, but humbling oneself before God brings the acclaim of heaven and its angels forever.

Principle 68: Self-praise steals from God the honor due Him, for no one ever achieves anything worthwhile apart from the gifts, abilities, and grace of his Maker.

23. Laughter Is Not the Best Medicine

Principle 69: Laughter that flows from any place other than a pure heart has a polluted source and a poisonous effect.

Principle 70: The one who is indwelt by the Spirit of Christ has His joy in his spirit; the first, telltale mark of sin’s entrance is loss of joy.

Principle 71: As the pupil of the eye is the window to the world, So the countenance of the face is the window to the soul; it reveals the condition of the heart.

24. Other Names for Treachery

Principle 72: One way to avoid being trapped is to avoid setting traps for others; God turns all evil schemes against those creating them.

Principle 73: The way to escape the traps of others (or the enemy) is to do the right thing no matter the cost; short-term gains at the expense of integrity generate serious long-term losses.

Principle 74: Every evil plan sets a path and draws others to take it. The righteous person runs away from this path as fast as the power of God will take him.

25. Nuclear Sticks and Stones

Principle 75: The ultimate impact for good you make on others during your life may well be the result of the gentle, wise, healing words you speak.

Principle 76: Only eternity will tell how many of the world’s lost and hopeless were pushed into those states of being by someone’s cruel words.. . including ours.

Principle 77: Destructive words are the nuclear “sticks and stones” that reduce human beings to rubble—with an extremely slow rate of fallout.

26. Plan the Work and Work the Plan

Principle 78: A mark of God’s touch on fallen human beings is a love for and commitment to noble labor. Laziness is a major concession to sin and wreaks passive destruction.

Principle 79: Those who aim at nothing are guaranteed a direct hit. Those who set goals but focus no labor on achieving them are no better off than the goal-less ones.

Principle 80: No one can handle the heavy workloads of life with­out God’s strength. To try is an ungrateful reliance on prideful self.

27. For You, I Have a Special Deal!

Principle 81: To doubt that the rewards God provides for trust and obedience in this life will be ample is to doubt God’s very character and the trustworthiness of His promises to us. It insults Him.

Principle 82: There is a good reason God has a time-delay factor in His reward system. It takes time for the really clever evil-doers and the talk-but-no-walk Christians to show their true colors, but for the righteous, God’s rewards are worth the wait.

Principle 83: When the enemy whispers that the wise, righteous life is a losing proposition, shout at him that he must not have read the last chapter of the Book that describes the Award Ceremony.

28. Plans from the Ultimate Planner

Principle 84: Leaving God out of your planning is a fatal error. Only a fool would ignore omniscience in planning and omnipotence in execution, if available.

Principle 85: It is foolishly arrogant to make plans without consulting others, especially your spouse. It is in diversity of knowledge and experience that effective plans are established.

Principle 86: It is better to make mediocre plans to achieve a noble end than to create excellent plans to do evil because the latter will face divine opposition and the former divine aid.

29. Friends in Low Places

Principle 87: Responding to cautions about unsavory companions with, ”I can handle ’em” is not only naive, but it ignores the spiritual cross-pollination that occurs in relationships.

Principle 88: The associates we choose both reveal and feed the moral appetites of our souls.

Principle 89: Sin is extremely contagious and is commonly spread by the infected companions we choose.

30. The “Dumb Dog” Syndrome

Principle 90: If they are learning experiences, bad decisions are building blocks to wisdom and good character. If not, they are not building blocks but wrecking balls.

Principle 91: Breaking the chain of stupid behaviors is not only wise; it avoids the repeated agony of their consequences and protects relationships with those who love you enough to rescue you.

Principle 92: To avoid bondage to destructive behaviors, one must live by the principle “One stupid act is enough!” After three or more, only the Trinity can deliver you.

31. A Place Called Hope

Principle 93: The flow of hope fulfillment goes in the same direction as God’s moral Law. To challenge God’s Law is to launch your hopes upstream against an all-powerful current.

Principle 94: Trusting in the spiritual guidance and strength of a loving God radically enhances the probability of seeing your hopes fulfilled. In fact, in the end, He guarantees their fulfillment for the faith-filled person.

Principle 95: A teachable attitude is the key to hope fulfillment because the unteachable won’t heed advice and adjust their life direction onto the righteous path that fulfills all hopes.

32. The Awful Consequences of Unteachability

Principle 96: If refusal to listen to the wise counsel of peers is stupidity, refusal to listen to the counsel of God is to solicit judgment.

Principle 97: A yes or no decision is clearly the one most recognized as having effect, but choosing not to decide can create more impact than a yes or no.

Principle 98: Refusing to heed God’s counsel is to volunteer for the dire consequences and to earn scorn from the Counselor you’ve rebuffed.

33. The High Cost of Gloating

Principle 99: The burdensome emotions and actions of bringing down our enemies is a weight God never intended us to bear, so He frees us by bearing these burdens Himself.

Principle 100: To wish judgment for our enemies but mercy for ourselves is unfair. It exploits the forgiveness we have received and displeases the One who gave us undeserved grace.

Principle 101: To rejoice over our enemies’ troubles is to prompt the heavenly Father to turn His attention from giving them what they deserve to disciplining our ingratitude for the grace we didn’t deserve.

34. The Futility of Hiding

Principle 102: Sin, once committed, is “posted on the cosmic Internet” where God and, eventually, others will see it. Bank on it.

Principle 103: Knowing that God sees and knows all we do is a powerful “sin-restraint mechanism” for those who believe it­—like a giant floodlight in an otherwise dark alley.

Principle 104: God’s watchfulness over what we think and do is a marvelous blessing to those whose hearts are right and deeds are righteous. It means that no good deed will go unrewarded.

35. The Fool and His Money

Principle 105: The single most significant factor in wealth acquisition is righteous character. Sin and stupidity are thieves.

Principle 106: Both acquiring and retaining significant wealth are predicated on right living. Spending on self and sinful pleasures is like signing over resources to the godly; they’ll end up with them eventually anyway.

Principle 107: Wealth secured through righteous motivation and God-honoring methods has built-in loss insurance. Even if lost, it will be restored.

36. Long Live the Righteous!

Principle 108: The single most significant factor in longevity is avoiding the evil thoughts, actions, and relationships which shorten life.

Principle 109: Acting out that which does not reflect God’s moral law is guaranteed to knock years off your life; doing the right thing is a guaranteed life extender.

Principle 110: The power which sustains and lengthens life is Spirit, and long life is in the grasp of the one energized by the Holy Spirit, not the “unholy spirits” which erode life by degrees.

37. The High Cost of Relying on the Unreliable

Principle 111: To those who rely on them, people with a poor work ethic are a continuing source of annoyance and irritation. At some point, they’ll be driven to seek relief from both.

Principle 112: To cut your losses before they hit, don’t give any responsibility to a person beyond his “wisdom level”. If you do, it will severely impair both you and the goal pursuit.

Principle 113: Choose everyone on whom you plan to rely—friends, spouses, employees, pastors, committee members, and such—with extreme care. Haphazard choices will result in endless and unnecessary hurt.

38. Strange Jewelry

Principle 114: God sees great beauty in a person who is virtuous­ who has listened to and obeyed the righteous teaching of a good mom and dad. That’s actually more rare than diamonds.

Principle 115: Whatever moral beauty you received from righteous parents should be displayed in the public square and in the home. God will be deeply impressed by your being bedecked in virtue.

39. The Tenderizing Effect of Godliness

Principle 116: Be wary of the person with brash, edgy speech. That sharpness may well have been honed by the grindstone of sin.

Principle 117: The righteous person speaks quietly with an authority infused with power from God. The arrogant intimidation of the wicked cannot shake it.

Principle 118: The righteous person seeks God’s plan for words and action, and implements His plan in grace and patience. The “bold and the beautiful” without God don’t need His guidance; their own godlike status, they believe, will assure their success.

40. The Cunning Human Mind

Principle 119: When searching for wrongdoers, it helps to assume that nobody thinks they’ve done anything wrong. Even if they have, they most likely will see their behavior as well motivated and good.

Principle 120: Human memory is weakest when asked to recall or accept responsibility for some catastrophe or evil act.

Principle 121: justice is ultimately served not by the feeble attempts at discovery we humans create but by the just actions of the Righteous One who already knows all the details…of everything.

41. The “Slut” Factor

Principle 122: Sexual “inactivity” for unmarrieds is not a curse; it is a virtue.

Principle 123: God’s moral law is constantly being swept down­ stream by the world system through redefinition. Adhere precisely to God’s definitions, or you’ll be swept away by the current.

Principle 124: If one’s moral character is like swine, then adorning it with gold is wasteful and asinine. If one’s character is pure as gold, it will be sufficiently adorned already.

42. The Folly of “Heart-Following”

Principle 125: Unaided by outside wisdom and divine revelation, your “inner guide” will get you more lost than you already are.

Principle 126: The most powerful delusion a person can entertain is that he does not commonly delude himself…in the direction of self-justification.

Principle 127: Claiming to be a “self-made person” whose success comes from “believing in oneself” is a slap in the face to the Creator who gave us talent and provided friends and family to nurture and encourage us along the way.

43. God Knows What Happens in Vegas

Principle 128: An omniscient God surely knows what is done in secret and in the dark. His “night vision and X-ray goggles” make hiding ourselves or our sins from Him an exercise in futility—hiding in plain sight.

Principle 129: Hiding anything from God doesn’t work. He “takes notes” on all human behavior and keeps good books for eternal reference.

Principle 130: It is folly to try to hide in full view of God. It is far better to acknowledge and confess what He already knows, so you can receive His gracious forgiveness.

44. Milestones on the Road to the Poorhouse

Principle 131: Working and eating are flip sides of the currency of life; without eating one cannot work and without working one cannot eat.

Principle 132: Not only is talk “cheap”, without the backing of integrity and hard work, it creates deficits that can never be repaid.

Principle 133: Every person is designed to be intoxicated by God alone. Those “under the influence” of any other person, substance, motivation, or power which does not draw them closer to Him are cruising for a bruising.

45. Curing the Poverty Curse

Principle 134: Wisdom and wealth are spouses in a covenant bond—as are stupidity and poverty. Only death separates them.

Principle 135: The one who chases mirages in the desert will inevitably suffer from the thirst that each vanishing oasis creates. Only sacrifice in pursuit God’s reality brings rewards.

Principle 136: Confounding all earthly economic principles, giving all you have is the key to being free from need and having ample to give more.

46. God’s “Silent Treatment”

Principle 137: God has perfect hearing, but He has a sudden attack of “hearing impairment” when those who choose not to hear His wise, loving counsel close their ears to it.

Principle 138: God is eager to find even one person willing to obey His laws-eager to pour out His blessings, especially on those who love Him.

47. Watch Out! Your Body Is Talking

Principle 139: God wants us to play fair, but to be aware that our opponents may well cheat. Learning their deceitful ways is a good defense.

Principle 140: One “deceitful heart” causes conflict even if all the other hearts are honest.

Principle 141: We communicate in many ways; words are only one of them. Make sure that all your languages speak in uniform purity.

48. God’s “Get Rich Slowly” Scheme

Principle 142: The one who is driven to get rich quickly (1) is vulnerable to scams—”too-good-to-be-true”—schemes, (2) risks rationalizing questionable (even illegal) financial schemes, and (3) sets himself up for losing everything.

Principle 143: God gives people the ability to get wealth. Jesus taught that the “gift of acquiring” enables the gift of giving. As we give, we receive, not the other way around.

Principle 144: We are to give until it hurts, then keep giving until it stops hurting. The tithe (10 percent of the “first fruits’) is the starting point of giving. Give a percentage of the income you’d like to receive.

49. The Wrong Cheering Section

Principle 145: At your death, you have a choice—people cheering your character or cheering your departure. Only you can decide.

Principle 146: The easiest way to draw contempt from others is to sow contemptible motives and behaviors in your dealings with them; sow grace and kindness, and you will usually reap grace and kindness.

Principle 147: One never knows how large a lever a kind word is to lift a sagging spirit and offload a heavy burden.

50. The Check’s Not in the Mail

Principle 148: God always makes sure that generous, righteous lenders get repaid…from some source. He commonly covers the repayment Himself.

Principle 149: Failure to repay borrowed money costs you a lot more than the value of what was borrowed. It costs you your reputation and, most likely, a friendship.

51. Seismic Moral Situations

Principle 150: No grand dreams of love and happiness and no firm resolve to sustain commitment until death ends it can save a marriage or family if even one of the spouses lacks righteous character. Character is the foundation on which all stable relationships are built.

Principle 151: God must keep some fools poor because He knows that if He let them prosper, they would have the means to multiply their folly and its disastrous consequences.

Principle 152: Unless there is familiarity with wealth and power coupled to godliness, a person rising to sudden affluence and celebrity tends to lose all impulse control and to bring chaos to his own life and the lives of those he touches.

52. Seven Things on God’s “Hate List”

Principle 153: Evil behavior is like cancer; it seldom is seen in a single cell but commonly in a “mass” of interconnected, rapidly multiplying, sinful practices.

Principle 154: The root of most other behaviors God hates is self-exaltation. Only those who get to the place where they recognize that life is all about God and nothing about their ego are truly blessed.

Principle 155: A lie is the first drill hole in the Levee of Trust before the flood of falsehood inundates everyone secured by the protective wall of integrity.

53. “Home Sweet Home” … or Not

Principle 156: Bricks and mortar do not make a home. No matter how beautiful or lavish a residence may be, it is only a container for the spiritual interaction among the inhabitants.

Principle 157: Harmonious interpersonal communication is the Spirit-inspired expression of two hearts in tune with God and each other. Unloving speech is the language of warfare. . .for which homes are not designed.

Principle 158: Family issues are not solved by “getting your own space.” The violence and conflict of a bad home will follow you. Allowing God to heal the conflict is the only solution.

54. “Stop Yelling at Me!”

Principle 159: Raising one’s voice sets off an interpersonal “arms race” in which anger and even greater anger and yelling results; soft, gentle words assuage anger and halt the escalation.

Principle 160: When you catch yourself cranking up the volume in your communication, stop and ask God to quiet your spirit. A quiet spirit—even in the most intense interaction—will generate a conversation that sheds light rather than shouts and screams that generate heat.

Principle 161: The godly person is quiet before God and tranquilly submissive to His authority. Nobody goes unpunished for yelling at God and defying His directives.

55. Will Lady Luck Help Out?

Principle 162: When seeking guidance in any of life’s circumstances, rely on God’s guidance, not a chance.

56. Humble Pie … with a Really Tough Crust

Principle 163: A key to success in life is living by John the Baptist’s statement, “He must become more important; I must become less important” John 3:30 NLV). Self-imposed humility actually is blessed by God with “riches, honor, and life.”

57. Shut up!

Principle 164: Silence truly is ”golden,” and talk truly is “cheap.” Only God can enable us to discern when to exchange the talk which is cheap for the quietness which is golden.

Principle 165: There are times to speak and times to keep silent. Unexpressed thoughts will never get you in trouble. In fact, some might even read your timely moments of silence as intelligence! At times, tell yourself to “shut up.”

58. The Divine Right of the King

Principle 166: Asking yourself, “Is there sin here?” and “Who’s in authority here?” will quickly reveal the moral compass for a situation – avoid the sin and submit to the authority.

Principle 167: If you are tempted to play loosely with the authority over you, be most keenly aware that there is One whose authority is never to be tested. To do so is a matter of spiritual life and death! He isn’t called King of Kings for nothing.

59. The “Hundred-Lash” Rule

Principle 168: The severity of the discipline is in direct correlation to the severity of the rebellion; if a rebuke brings submission, the rod will not follow.

Principle 169: Figure out quickly what is necessary to avoid the wrath of an authority figure, and promptly comply with directions. Not doing so will bring painful “lashes.”

Principle 170: Rebellion always complicates things, and rebels create chaos; immediate, joyful compliance simplifies life, for everybody.

60. Building a Legacy

Principle 171: The legacy we leave behind is not measured by our bios, resumes, bank accounts, titles, possessions, or funeral eulogies. It is the essence of our character-what God says about us.

Principle 172: All the wealth in the world cannot give us a good reputation, and abject poverty cannot tarnish it. But a good reputation based on genuine righteousness can assure us of God’s blessing in wealth or poverty in this life and the life to come.

Principle 173: The moral choices we make now are visited on our children and grandchildren long after we are gone. Leaving a legacy rooted in faith and obedience to Jesus Christ and His life principles will stand us in good stead regardless of the other things our progeny inherit from us.

22220 Wisdom for the Trenches

CONTENTS

Introduction

1. How to Recognize a Fool

2. Adultery: One ”A” You Don’t Want to Earn

3. Anger: The Nuclear Emotion… with Huge Fallout

4. Lying: The Self-Made Trap

5. Gossip: The Hidden Dagger

6. Reproof: A Building Block for Character

7. Insults and Curses: Unsolicited Instruction

8. Listening: God’s Channel for Personal Growth

9. Scoffers and Mockers, Beware!

10. The Fast Lane to Ugliness

11. How to Change People’s Minds

12. Using God-given Authority

13. The Rise and Fall of the Proud

14. A Cure for Spiritual Heart Disease

15. One Dangerous Babe (or Dude) to Avoid

16. Impulse Control and the Key to Character

17. Danger: Eyes That Do Not See

18. For Adult[erer]s Only

19. Rebuke: 10, Flattery 0

20. You Can Tell a Person by His Cover

21. Your Money and Your Slave Master

22. Somebody, Anybody, Applaud Me!

23. Laughter Is Not the Best Medicine

24. Other Names for Treachery

25. Nuclear Sticks and Stones

26. Plan the Work and Work the Plan

27. For You, I Have a Special Deal!

28. Plans from the Ultimate Planner

29. Friends in Low Places

30. The “Dumb Dog” Syndrome

31. A Place Called Hope

32. The Awful Consequences of Unteachability

33. The High Cost of Gloating

34. The Futility of Hiding

35. The Fool and His Money

36. Long Live the Righteous!

37. The High Cost of Relying on the Unreliable

38. Strange Jewelry

39. The Tenderizing Effect of Godliness

40. The Cunning Human Mind

41. The “Slut” Factor

42. The Folly of” Heart-Following”

43. God Knows What Happens in Vegas

44. Milestones on the Road to the Poorhouse

45. Curing the Poverty Curse

46. God’s “Silent Treatment”

47. Watch Out! Your Body Is Talking

48. God’s “Get Rich Slowly” Scheme

49. The Wrong Cheering Section

50. The Check’s Not in the Mail

51. Seismic Moral Situations

52. Seven Things on God’s “Hate List”

53. “Home Sweet Home” … or Not

54. “Stop Yelling at Me!”

55. Will Lady Luck Help Out?

56. Humble Pie … with a Really Tough Crust

57. Shut up!

58. The Divine Right of the King

59. The “Hundred-Lash” Rule

60. Building a Legacy

61. Wisdom for the Trenches Principles

22220.015 One Dangerous Babe (or Dude) to Avoid

The woman Folly is loud; she is undisciplined and without knowledge. She sits at the door of her house, on a seat at the highest point of the city, calling out to those who pass by, who go straight on their way, “Let all who are simple come here!” she says to those who lack judgment. “Stolen water is sweet; food eaten in secret is delicious!” But little do they know that the dead are there, that her guests are in the depths of the grave. (Proverbs 9:13-18)

Hollywood is known for its beautiful and seductive women. They are everywhere—from the Playmates circling the Playboy mansion in Holmby Hills, to the sirens who walk the red carpet dressed in scant nothingness at the Kodak Theater on Oscar night, to the bare vixens who sell their bodies and souls to the world’s largest “adult entertainment” industry.

Solomon knew a thing or two about seductive women. His wives and concubines numbered a thousand hand-picked beauties, and he authored the Bible’s handbook of sensuality, the Song of Solomon. Interesting, then, that he follows his warnings about the adulteress in Proverbs 7, and his lauding of the glories of Wisdom in chapter 8 with alarm about another scary babe…named Folly.

For sure, Folly is the most destructive seducer of all. If you don’t believe it, you haven’t visited Las Vegas, the dives of any major city, or the secret hideaways of Manhattan. But Folly also attends church board meetings, workplace committee meetings, financial investing seminars, and dinner-table arguments. She is deadly, and…she’s not always a “she.” Solomon makes both Wisdom and Folly feminine as literary devices, but one gender has no corner on either.

One reason Folly, aka Stupidity, is so seductive is that she’s impressively prominent. She holds “a seat at the highest point of the city.” If corporate titans and politicians were wise, society would be very different.

Principle: Stupidity is an expression of the dominant worldview which parades as “conventional thinking”; only divine insight will help you recognize and transcend it.

Proverbs says three attributes explain Stupidity’s success at seduction and destruction. She (1) preys on the simple and ignorant, (2) has no respect for what is not hers, and (3) operates in utmost secrecy.

Principle: Wisdom always strengthens the weak and lifts the downtrodden; Stupidity exploits both.

Principle: Wisdom always respects the person, feelings, dignity, and possessions of others; Stupidity rapes them.

We might call it the ”Al Qaeda Syndrome.” It’s the tendency to operate in the shadows, in secret, and in hidden cells plotting evil.

Stupidity thrives on encrypted memos, clandestine meetings, and the cover of darkness. The wise and righteous person lives life in the light and in the open. lt never fears investigation or disclosure.

Principle: The wise and righteous life never fears examination…of its datebook, checkbook, closet, or computer hard drive.

Avoid Folly—she’ll do you in. Her dwelling is filled with corpses (Proverbs 9:18).

[from “Wisdom for the Trenches” by Dr. Larry W. Poland]

22180.010 In the Presence of a King

12 Days of Christmas: Day 10

After listening to the king they left, and once again the star they saw when it rose led them until it stopped above the place where the child was. When they saw the star they shouted joyfully. As they came into the house and saw the child with Mary his mother, they bowed down and worshiped him. They opened their treasure boxes and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.
(Matthew 2:9–11)

How miraculously and graciously the hand of God directed these wise men, leading them directly to the Christ child. How joyful they were in God’s leading! The signs of God’s presence cannot help but fill us with great joy and peace. I am reminded of God’s word to Joshua:

Be strong and brave! Don’t be afraid and don’t panic, for I, the LORD your God, am with you in all you do.
(Joshua 1:9)

We should be glad for everything and everyone that points us to Christ—directing us to things above rather than earthly things. Paul tells us our minds and hearts should be focused upward:

Therefore, if you have been raised with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Keep thinking about things above, not things on the earth.
(Colossians 3:1–2)

There is continual joy in God’s presence. I am reminded of King David’s words:

You lead me in the path of life;
I experience absolute joy in your presence;
you always give me sheer delight.
(Psalm 16:11)

God enabled the wise men to do that which they themselves were unable to do by their own abilities and devices. No compass or GPS could have led them there. Even King Herod was confused over the whereabouts of the King of the Jews. As we follow after the Master, God directs, enables, and equips us through His power just as He did these wise men. I am reminded of Paul’s words:

I am able to do all things through the one who strengthens me.
(Philippians 4:13)

What in the world might have been the reaction of the wise men to the humble place in which the star led them to discover the King of Kings? Surely they had to have been at the very least taken aback when they saw a cottage instead of a castle. Yet we discover in our verses quite the opposite. Undeterred, they humbly present themselves in worship first, then their gifts second. Interestingly, the Bible tells us they bow down in worship to the Lord Jesus even though they had not given such honor to Herod. Neither a castle nor a crown makes a man a king.

These wise men present their gifts of gold and incense and myrrh to young Jesus. What might Mary have been thinking while all this was taking place? In the eastern nations, when one did homage to their kings, they brought gifts from their own country.

The gifts presented to Jesus had symbolic value as well as monetary value. Gold was offered because Jesus is King; incense was offered because Jesus is God, and God was honored with the smoke of incense; and finally, myrrh was offered to Jesus as a man who would die, as myrrh was used for embalming dead bodies. These gifts were a timely relief sent by God to Joseph and Mary in their present poor condition. This probably helped them when they headed toward Egypt. God also protected these wise men, warning them in a dream not to go back to King Herod.

Become More

“We cannot expect too little from man, nor too much from God.” —Matthew Henry

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not rely on your own understanding. Acknowledge him, in all your ways and he will make your paths straight.
(Proverbs 3:5–6)

Read the Word

Matthew 2:9–12

2:9 After listening to the king they left, and once again the star they saw when it rose led them until it stopped above the place where the child was. 2:10 When they saw the star they shouted joyfully. 2:11 As they came into the house and saw the child with Mary his mother, they bowed down and worshiped him. They opened their treasure boxes and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. 2:12 After being warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they went back by another route to their own country.