22830 Introduction to KingdomNomics Converterlator

The KingdomNomics Converterlator, delves into the Biblical principles that clarify how we are actually agents of change in this world with rewards in heaven for all that we accomplish using those resources.

Each day provides new opportunities for us to serve God by strategically using the resources he has entrusted to us. A Converterlator is an agent of change; a transformer who not only experiences a life of joy now, but who also makes decisions that will echo into eternity.

A Converterlator sees the big picture, a picture that is bigger than just life here on earth. A Converterlator has a living relationship with God that makes an impact in our world and for eternity.

The Bible is clear that we will experience rewards in heaven. As we use our time, talent, and treasure for God’s kingdom, we will experience a life of opportunity, impact, and legacy.

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31-Day Devotional Series

  1. Becoming A Converterlator
  2. We Live in a Perishing World
  3. Life is Short!
  4. A Converterlator in Action
  5. The Reward Factor
  6. Satan, the Chief Consumerlator
  7. Choices, Choices, Choices
  8. The Compass of Life
  9. Focus on Jesus
  10. An Intimate Relationship with God
  11. Trusting God in All Things
  12. Converterlating and Soak, Sow, and Flow
  13. Gold vs. God
  14. The Power of God’s Word
  15. Activating God’s Word
  16. Encountering the Holy Spirit
  17. The Holy Spirit Seals, Reveals, and Deals
  18. Experiencing the Holy Spirit’s Power
  19. Designed by God for a Purpose
  20. God’s Toolbox
  21. God’s Plans and Purposes
  22. Eternal Significance
  23. Converterlating Your Time
  24. Making an Impact
  25. The Chief Consumerlator Wants Your Time
  26. Finding Balance
  27. Converterlating Your Talent
  28. Your SPECIAL Design
  29. Changed Perspective
  30. Weaving a Pattern of Giving
  31. Echo into Eternity

21011 Bible R.E.C.A.P.

All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work. (2 Timothy 3:16-17, NLT)

When we habitually renew our minds with the truth of God’s Word and faithfully follow His directions and instructions, we become more Christ-like.

The Word of God is the language of the Holy Spirit.

The Holy Spirit will open our minds to understand the Word and empower us to obey and live out its truth. Within its pages, He reveals what is true and exposes what is not.

Whenever you read the Bible, be prayerful, asking the Holy Spirit to guide you into all truth (John 16:13). Then, trust His guidance and ask yourself questions. What does this mean? How does this apply to my life? The following method will help you ask key questions.

When you read the Bible, you can ask one or more of the following five questions.

R — Is there a revelation about God that I should embrace?

E — Is there an example I should follow or avoid?

C — Is there a command I should obey?

A — Is there something I need to apply to my life?

P — Is there a promise I should claim?

For example, John 3:16 is a revelation of God’s unconditional love in His Son. Ao, you can highlight the verse with orange (Revelation). John 13:34 is a command to love one another; so, you can highlight the verse with red (Command). John 14:21 is a promise that Jesus will manifest Himself to us if we love and obey Him; so, you can highlight the verse with purple (Promise).

Highlight Bible passages and code them with a R.E.C.A.P. letter for future review in Bible notes.

As you read, talk to God about everything you are thinking. It may be helpful for you to write down what you have discovered from the reading and your reflection.

Be mindful of his presence and his love. Thank him for what you are reading, learning, and thinking. Give him your focused attention and concentration.

23365 Wholehearted Repentance

The New Testament word for “repent” means to turn around. There are five steps to turn away from sin and toward God. Each step of the process can be summarized in a particular prayer offered to God.

Prayer 1: “God, I am wrong.”

Tell God you understand what you did was wrong. Don’t shift the blame to someone else. Take responsibility for your disobedience.

“If we claim we have not sinned, we are calling God a liar and showing that His word has no place in our hearts” —1 John 1:10, NLT

Prayer 2: “God, I am sorry.”

Don’t just be sorry for getting caught or for hurting some else. Also be sorry that you have grieved God.

“Let there be tears for the wrong things you have done. Let there be sorrow and gloom and deep grief. Let there be sadness instead of laughter, and gloom instead of joy” —James 4:9, NLT

Prayer 3: “God, forgive me.”

Feeling bad about your wrongdoing is not enough. You must go to God in faith and ask for his forgiveness. God’s forgiveness is an extraordinary thing. Because of his unmatched love, it comes as a free gift to those who are prepared to humble themselves before him.

“If we confess our sins to Him, He is faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from every wrong” —1 John 1:9, NLT

Prayer 4: “God, cleanse me.”

We are all sinners and none of us can remove the spiritually staining effects of our sin. We need the supernatural operation of the Holy Spirit to wash us clean, spiritually, when we repent.

Here is the Lord’s promise to all who sense themselves blemished by their sinful wrongs and desire to be cleansed: “No matter how deep the stain of your sins, I can remove it. I can make you as clean as freshly fallen snow. Even if you are stained as red as crimson, I can make you as white as wool.” —Isaiah 1:18, NLT

Prayer 5: “God, empower me.”

When we pray for cleansing, we are asking for the spiritual effects of our past sin to be wiped away. When we pray for empowerment, on the other hand, we are asking for God’s help to avoid a repetition of our sin in the future. To say “Empower me” is to admit that we need God’s help if we are to remain clean after our repentance. Humility opens us up to every grace.

“The power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you through Christ Jesus from the power of sin that leads to death.” —Romans 8:2, NLT

[This is a summary of the article Five Prayers of Repentance.]

32446 Empowered by Supernatural Peace

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you; I do not give it to you as the world does.” – John 14:27a

Jesus promises His peace to us. The kind of peace Jesus can give us is different from the worldly peace.

The worldly peace is usually the lack of conflict. Even though that is important, external peace is not enough. The supernatural peace only Jesus can give us is about being complete. The Hebrews word for peace is shalom which conveys the sense of wholeness.

God’s supernatural peace comes from the fact that your relationship with God is now whole in Jesus. There is no condemnation in Christ. God is your Father who is for you and not against you. He loves you with unchanging love and has the best for you in mind now and for all eternity. Throughout your life on earth, God is walking with you and training you to become more like Jesus in every way and to be heirs with Christ. He knows you completely, and you can know Him more and more forever.

Because of this relationship with God, you are a new creation in Christ. You are not only new but complete in Christ. Even though we will not experience the fullness of our new self until Jesus returns in power and glory, we can certainly begin to live out of our true selves now with the confident assurance that we are complete in Christ.

One day, either you will die and be in His glorious presence forever or the Lord Jesus will return in glory. God will be with us forever. “Look! The residence of God is among human beings. He will live among them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death will not exist any more—or mourning, or crying, or pain, for the former things have ceased to exist” (Revelation 21:3-4).

You are in good fellowship with Him, and He wants you on His team to accomplish His plan not only for humanity but also for all creation.

When you acknowledge and embrace the truth that your new self in Christ is complete, you can experience the supernatural peace Jesus is talking about.

Because the source of this peace is God and in your relationship with Him through Christ, you will not have to lose it. “Let the peace of Christ be in control in your heart (for you were in fact called as one body to this peace), and be thankful” (Colossians 3:15).

“You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.” – Isaiah 26:3

To have His peace be in control of you, you need to keep your eyes on Jesus to remain in His peace and not on the situations around you. Peter was able to walk on the water as long as his gaze was fixed on Jesus. The moment he saw the waves, he began to sink. He lost peace because he took his eyes off of Jesus. No matter how rough the waves may be in your life, God can empower you to face them with His perfect peace that transcend all understanding.

32445 Empowered by His Presence

In the beginning before the fall, God walked with Adam and Eve. They were always in His presence. God was dwelling with them. Human beings were designed to be empowered by His presence. His beautiful presence was light, love, and life!

God’s presence is also powerful and majestic.

In the Old Testament, for example, the visible manifestation of His presence was the pillar of fire and of cloud that led the people of Israel in the wilderness after leaving Egypt (Exodus 13:21). When God met Moses on Mount Sinai, “all the people who were in the camp trembled” (Exodus 19:16). The LORD descended on the mountain in fire with thunder and lightning and a dense cloud with the sound of a very loud horn. 

When King Solomon built and dedicated the temple, the glory of the Lord filled it, and the priests could not enter the house of the Lord because of His glory.

When King Nebuchadnezzar with rage threw Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego into the furnace of blazing fire, it was the presence of the Lord that accompanied and saved them unharmed.

In the New Testament, Jesus was the very presence of the LORD among us. “Now the Word became flesh and took up residence among us. We saw his glory – the glory of the one and only, full of grace and truth who came from the Father” (John 1:14). 

Wherever Jesus went, life followed. People were healed, the dead were raised, demons of darkness screamed and fled before Him. This was the power of His presence. His presence was sweet and gentle at times, setting people free. It made even the weakest and most vulnerable people bold (Matthew 9:20-21; 15:21-28).

The presence of God in Jesus was also weighty. On the night in which soldiers and officers of the chief priests came to arrest Jesus, they were thrown to the ground when Jesus answered them and identified who he was by saying, “I am”.

The risen and glorified Jesus appeared to Paul in a light from heaven (Acts 9:3-7). Paul fell to the ground, and the men who were traveling with him stood speechless. 

His sweet or powerful presence empowers us whenever God chooses to reveal Himself through or around us. It cannot be created or manipulated, but we can position ourselves. Jesus declares that He will reveal Himself to those who have and obey His commandments (John 14:21). Your daily fellowship with Jesus, faithfully obeying what He commands you, praising and giving thanks to God (1 Thessalonians 5:18), puts you in a place where Jesus will choose to reveal Himself.

32444 Empowered by Your New Identity

You are empowered by your new identity in Christ.

Child of God

As a child of God, you have been granted spiritual authority. God the Father has given Jesus Christ supreme authority throughout all of His creation. There is absolutely nothing both in the spiritual universe (heaven) and the physical universe (earth) that is not under the authority of the Lord and King Jesus.

Jesus has given us access to God’s supernatural power through the authority of His name. This delegated authority must be used to fulfill God’s purposes. It is not a magic lamp that can be used for our self-centered desires and will.

So what authority has been delegated to us?

We have authority over evil spirits.

Jesus said, “Look, I have given you authority to tread on snakes and scorpions and on the full force of the enemy, and nothing will hurt you” (Luke 10:19-20).

We have authority to demolish strongholds of evil deception.

The apostle Paul explained, “For the weapons of our warfare are not human weapons, but are made powerful by God for tearing down strongholds. We tear down arguments and every arrogant obstacle that is raised up against the knowledge of God, and we take every thought captive to make it obey Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:4-5).

We have authority to bind the power of the devil and to set free that which he has made captive.

Jesus stated, “I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven. Whatever you bind on earth will have been bound in heaven, and whatever you release on earth will have been released in heaven” (Matthew 16:19).

Jesus promised, “I tell you the solemn truth, the person who believes in me will perform the miraculous deeds that I am doing, and will perform greater deeds than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it” (John 14:12-14).

Saint with Righteous Nature

You are born again with a new nature. The Word of God declares that you are a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17)! Your old self with the sinful nature has become powerless. By nature, you are no longer a sinner but a saint, a holy one, in Christ by His holiness! As you live out of your new identity, the power of the Holy Spirit will transform you into the image of Christ with Christ-like character and the fruit of the Spirit.

As you habitually abide in Christ and are being filled with the Holy Spirit, the fruit of the Spirit – love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23) – will characterize your life in an increasing measure. As you spiritually grow in your walk with God, you will act, think, behave, and feel more like Jesus. “Christian” originally meant “little Christ”.

As a saint, you are an overcomer in Christ of sin, the flesh, and the spiritual enemies of God. You live in freedom because there is no condemnation for you (Romans 8:1).

Member of the Body

Every person is born with natural talents and abilities. When you are reborn spiritually, the Holy Spirit gives you supernatural spiritual abilities. These spiritual gifts are special capacities that equip you for supernatural ministry in the lives of others.

The gifts that you have received from the Holy Spirit equip you for the special life mission and ministry assignments that God has for you. Unity and maturity will result as you exercise your gifts for the body of Christ.

Some spiritual gifts are spectacular—like gifts of healing or the working of miracles. Others seem more subtle—like the gifts of teaching, mercy and giving. However, in reality, God’s supernatural power is at work in all of them regardless of how obvious those effects are on the surface to us and others.

It is important to understand that the Holy Spirit chooses which gifts each of us receives. The purpose for all the gifts is not for our own self-exaltation but for the glory of God and for the fulfillment of His purposes.

You know you are using your spiritual gifts to honor God and build up (edify) his people (church) when you are motivated by love. The famous 1 Corinthians 13, the “Love” chapter, is found between the chapters whose topic is spiritual gifts. Contextually, 1 Corinthians 13 is not referring to a love relationship of a couple but to the application of our spiritual gifts in the body of Christ.

Citizen of His Kingdom

You have been given all the rights and privileges that belong to citizens of Christ’s Kingdom. The kingdom of darkness no longer has any power over you. Your passport is now issued by the Kingdom of God. Your new passport shows that you belong to another realm. You simply have temporary work visas in this physical world so we can accomplish God’s purposes on the earth. This world is now a foreign county to you. Even though we remain in the earthly kingdom, we pledge our allegiance to the Lord Jesus and to His Kingdom.

As a citizen of the Kingdom of God living in this world, you are also an ambassador for Christ. You represent the King of all kings with all the power and authority of His Kingdom. An ambassador is usually the highest-ranking representative of a government to a specific nation or international organization abroad. A key role of an ambassador is to represent his or her country in another nation. Did you know that a foreign embassy in your country actually is not part of your country but is legally considered a foreign soil belonging to that nation it represents? As an ambassador for Christ, you truly are a foreigner in your own country, representing the lifestyle, values, customs, culture, and mission of the Kingdom of God.  

These truths give us supernatural boldness (courage) to be a witness of God’s love and grace in every situation.

22010.362 Prayer

“Then Jesus got up early in the morning when it was still very dark, departed, and went out to a deserted place, and there he spent time in prayer.” —Mark 1:35

Jesus presents us with lots of action in this short sentence, leaving us with plenty examples to follow. Jesus clearly demonstrates the importance of the priority of prayer. He arises while it is still dark; He leaves the house sans coffee or bottled water or blanket or light; He goes off to a remote and private place and He prays to the One unseen. He withdrew to His private devotion setting for us an example of secret prayer as well as showing us the high priority He placed upon prayer in His life. He was forever getting away to remote places to be alone in conversation with His Father.

I am reminded of Jesus’ words to us in the Sermon on the Mount regarding this high calling:

“Whenever you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, because they love to pray while standing in synagogues and on street corners so that people can see them. Truly I say to you, they have their reward. But whenever you pray, go into your room, close the door, and pray to your Father in secret. And your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you.” —Matt 6:5–6

Jesus condemned repetitive prayers that were piously presented to impress human ears. This appeared to be the habit of the religious elite of His day. Ever wanting to impress others they would stand in the synagogue and on the street corners eloquently reciting religious jargon without heart and primarily for show—the praise of others being their reward in full. Contrast their actions to Jesus who takes great pains to be alone with His Father—uninterrupted and focused. Jesus poured out His praise and petitions to the One He knew would hear and respond.

John writes:

“And this is the confidence that we have before him: that whenever we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in regard to whatever we ask, then we know that we have the requests that we have asked from him.” —1 John 5:14–15

Paul writes in Ephesians that believers may approach God in this incredibly high privilege of prayer with courage and boldness and freedom at any time. We are the great losers if we shirk this precious benefit choosing rather to go on in our own small strength—working out our own pitiful wills—in lieu of being directed by the God of all creation—the great I AM—equipped with His all achieving power. He lets us choose. Seriously, what are we thinking?

“Whom we have boldness and confident access to God because of Christ’s faithfulness.” —Ephesians 3:12

The writer of Hebrews adds:

“For we do not have a high priest incapable of sympathizing with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way just as we are, yet without sin. Therefore let us confidently approach the throne of grace to receive mercy and find grace whenever we need help.” —Hebrews 4:15–16

Prayer is definitely serious business as well as difficult work. Distractions prevail when we seek to take prayer seriously. We oversleep; the baby cries; the phone rings; there are interruptions after interruptions keeping us from God’s best. Satan and self will provide intense distractions to prevent a saint from being on their knees. Keep at it—it is not impossible. Interestingly, if you do a study of the saints from the past—Chambers and Spurgeon and Moody and Mueller and others—you will discover the golden thread of the priority of prayer in each life as well as the exaltation of God’s Holy Word. God uses jars of clay greatly who pray and love His Word because when believers focus on God they change—not only themselves but the world around them.

“Prayer is a shield to the soul, a sacrifice to God, and a scourge to Satan.” —John Bunyan

“The one concern of the devil is to keep Christians from praying. He fears nothing from prayerless studies, prayerless work, and prayerless religion. He laughs at our toil, mocks at our wisdom, but trembles when we pray.” —Samuel Chadwick

“The great tragedy of life is not unanswered prayer but unoffered prayer.” —F. B. Meyer

“Always rejoice, constantly pray, in everything give thanks. For this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” —1 Thessalonians 5:16–18

“Look, the sovereign LORD helps me. Who dares to condemn me?
Look, all of them will wear out like clothes; a moth will eat away at them.
Who among you fears the LORD? Who obeys his servant?
Whoever walks in deep darkness, without light, should trust in the name of the LORD and rely on his God.” —Isaiah 50:9–10

“You know the value of prayer; it is precious beyond all price. Never, never neglect it.” —Thomas Buxton

Become More

“Jesus modeled for me the priority of prayer. Our attitude of surrender and dependence upon God is best evidenced by our prayer life.” —Chip Ingram

“And prayer is a great indicator of where we’re at, because prayer mirrors the condition of our heart—whether we’re surrendered to God’s plan or leaning on our own self-effort for the outcome.” —Chip Ingram

Further Reflection

“Prayer is that mightiest of all weapons that created natures can wield.” —Martin Luther

22010.281 Live for Eternal Significance

“Tell them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, to be generous givers, sharing with others. In this way they will save up a treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the future and so lay hold of what is truly life.” —1 Timothy 6:18–19

True faith involves knowledge and conviction of God’s saving grace and then acting on that knowledge. Doing good, being generous, and being willing to share are the fruits of true faith. They are an outgrowth of the seed of faith, just as an ear of corn is the outgrowth of a kernel of corn planted in the soil. Conviction moves us to do the good works that God has planned ahead for us to do as we walk on the path of faith. As God transforms us by the renewing of our minds, we will find ourselves transformed from being “getters” to becoming givers. As we become givers, we will be progressively more concerned with fulfilling kingdom objectives. Giving results in our laying up treasure in heaven.

When we fully understand the reality of this principle, we truly begin to accomplish great things for God’s kingdom! Businessman Phil Wiegand calls this kingdom approach to life “KingdomNomics.” KingdomNomics involves defining life from God’s point of view, as communicated to us through the Bible. This perspective helps us to determine how we invest our time, talent, and treasure in those things that will last forever.

The promise of eternal reward is a motivating factor as we consider the impact of what we do in this world. The decisions we make here on earth will echo into eternity.

Become More

In what ways are you able to use your time, talent, and treasure to echo into eternity? Is this a new concept for you? Think about some ways you can deposit to your bank account in heaven.

Further Reflections

“Because we are not looking at what can be seen but at what cannot be seen. For what can be seen is temporary, but what cannot be seen is eternal.” —2 Corinthians 4:18

“Therefore, if you have been raised with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.” —Colossians 3:1

[This article is from KingdomNomics.com by Phil Wiegand]

22010.274 “One Another” Body Life

One thing that is true about the body of Christ is that we need one another!

Jesus said, “I give you a new commandment—to love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. Everyone will know by this that you are my disciples—if you have love for one another.”—John 13:34–35

Loving one another involves accepting, instructing, serving, bearing with, submitting to, and encouraging each other. We need each other to help us grow in our relationship with God. We need each other for encouragement. But … we have a hard time getting along, let alone needing each other! God knows all about the difficulty we have at times with other people! We are tempted to gossip, judge, get angry, and accuse one another. We get annoyed. We get irritated. We get hurt. And yet, our heavenly Father truly desires for us to love one another … and to model His love to the world. Here is what Jesus told His disciples in one of His last conversations with them: “I give you a new commandment—to love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. Everyone will know by this that you are my disciples—if you have love for one another.” —John 13:34–35

Love is the key to good relationships in the family of God … but how do we get there? God gives us the answer in Paul’s letter to Timothy: “For God did not give us a Spirit of fear but of power and love and self-control.” —2 Timothy 1:7

Q. Look closely at this verse. Where does love come from?

Paul told the Corinthians what Christ’s love looks like when we are controlled by the Holy Spirit: “Love is patient, love is kind, it is not envious. Love does not brag, it is not puffed up. It is not rude, it is not self-serving, it is not easily angered or resentful. It is not glad about injustice, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” —1 Corinthians 13:4–7

Q. Which aspect of love described in this passage is already a part of your life?

Q. As you look at these verses, which characteristic of love are you lacking?

The Corinthian church in the New Testament was full of “baby” Christians. They had accepted Christ’s love for them, but they treated one another selfishly, which resulted in quarreling and jealousy (see 1 Corinthians 3:1–4). They needed to learn how to love one another! Love is the key to good relationships in the family of God.

“One another” is mentioned more than thirty times in the Bible! God intends that we love each other, and the many facets of love are expressed in these “one another” commands. Loving “one another’ involves several key actions: devotion, accepting, instructing, serving, bearing with, submitting to, and encouraging. When we are able to do these things, then we truly will be able to show the world that as Christians we love one another. This love is not an emotional here today gone tomorrow kind of love. It is a tough, strong, knowledgeable, and lasting commitment kind of love. 

Devoted to One Another

“Be devoted to one another with mutual love, showing eagerness in honoring one another.” —Romans 12:10

When we are devoted, we are loyal, faithful, and dedicated. As God’s family we show concern for one another and are loyal to each other. Because we are the family of God, we need to love each other as brothers and sisters in Christ.

Q. What kinds of actions do you think show that you are devoted to others?

Accept one Another

“Receive one another, then, just as Christ also received you, to God’s glory.” —Romans 15:7

Romans 14:13 says, “Therefore we must not pass judgment on one another, but rather determine never to place an obstacle or a trap before a brother or sister.”

To accept one another is to receive each other willingly or to give admittance to or approval of someone. Because of the sacrifice Jesus made for each one of us, we need to accept one another as the unique individuals that God has created.

Q. What reasons do you have for not accepting others?

Instruct One Another

“But I myself am fully convinced about you, my brothers and sisters, that you yourselves are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, and able to instruct one another.” —Romans 15:14

Oh, how we don’t like to have someone telling us what to do! Instruction implies teaching and learning … and having someone tells us what to do!

Q. How are you at taking instruction? Are you gracious when you give it?

Q. Why is this mandate to instruct one another difficult within the body of Christ?

Q. How can you cultivate an open heart to the instruction from others?

Serve One Another

Galatians 5:13 says, “Serve one another humbly in love” (NIV). As a member of God’s family, with all its rights and privileges, every Christian is to be a servant to all the other members of the family. The needs of all those in the family are then met! Proud people use others; humble people are able to serve others.

Q. Is there a way you can serve someone this week?

Q. What happens to you when you serve someone?

Bearing with One Another

“Bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if someone happens to have a complaint against anyone else. Just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also forgive others.” —Colossians 3:13

What does it mean to when Paul says, “bearing with one another”? If we look at this same phrase in a couple of different Bible translations, we’ll get a very clear answer! The NLT says, “Make allowance for each other’s faults” and the CEV puts it this way, “Put up with each other.”

“To bear” means to patiently endure the idiosyncrasies and weaknesses of others! It means we have a forgiving spirit. Patience and a forgiving spirit are nearly synonymous concepts. These are not automatic; they involve a deliberate act of the will. When you are impatient, angry, and unforgiving, you are choosing to be that way! It is only through the Holy Spirit’s supernatural power that we are able to bear with each other! It is only by the Holy Spirit’s power that you will be able to take on all of these “one another” admonitions! You can’t generate this kind of behavior on your own.

Q. What are some of the quirks and habits of others that irritate you?

Q. What are some of your idiosyncrasies that clearly test the patience of others?

Q. What one thing can you do today to take a step toward doing a better job of bearing with others?

Submit to One Another

“Submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.” —Ephesians 5:21

Submission is a very important yet often ignored Biblical teaching. The Bible is very clear that all Christians are to submit to one other. All Christians are to submit to their leaders, and servants are to submit to masters. Children are to submit to parents, and Christians are to submit to government and authority, and husbands and wives are to submit to each other.

This is amazing because in the world there is no such thing as mutual submission! It is uniquely Christian. Christ brought a whole new approach to functional relationships between people. Submission has to do with servanthood, humility, respect, reverence, honor, and willingness to be teachable. All of this is rooted in our individual submission and obedience to Christ.

Q. In what ways are you learning to submit to God?

Q. Who are you currently submitting to?

Q. What about this concept of submission is difficult for you?

Q. What is keeping you from obeying God in this area?

Encourage One Another

1 Thessalonians 5:11 tells us, “Therefore encourage one another and build up each other, just as you are in fact doing.”

One of the ways we can encourage one another is by sharing scripture. We can also find many ways to build each other up. Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 says, “Two people are better than one, because they can reap more benefit from their labor. For if they fall, one will help his companion up, but pity the person who falls down and has no one to help him up.”

Q. Who in your life needs to be encouraged?

Q. How can you encourage that person?

Q. What can you do to make encouragement more of an everyday action in your life?

It is only by the Holy Spirit’s power that you will be able to take on all of these “one another” admonitions! You can’t generate this kind of behavior on your own. God’s love and the actions that come out of it are only the result of the Holy Spirit working in and through you.

Application

Q. Which one of the “one another” directives is easiest for you?

Q. Which one of the directives is most difficult?

Ask God to show you how you can be a more Spirit-filled member of His family.

22010.267 Prayers You Can Use

Sometimes it seems hard to pray. . . you simply don’t have the right words for God.

The Bible contains prayers written by other people that can help you talk to God. Many verses in the Bible, the Lord’s Prayer, the Prayer of Jabez, The Benediction, and the Prayer for Peace all provide models of prayers that can be used in our conversations with God. There are times when it may seem hard to pray or you simply don’t have the right words for what you want to say to God. 

One passage of Scripture to remember during those times is Romans 8:26–27:

“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness, for we do not know how we should pray, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with inexpressible groanings. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes on behalf of the saints according to God’s will.”

The Holy Spirit speaks for us in harmony with the purpose and plans of God! He provides constant, continuous, unchanging access and fellowship with himself, the Creator of the universe, available to every believer all the time. When you don’t have the words, rely on the Holy Spirit to be praying for you! There are also ways that you can use the words of others to help you as you pray. 

Here are some thoughts and ideas:

Use Scripture!

You can always pray Scripture! Praying Scripture directly not only will give you the words you need, but it will also encourage and bless you as well! Use the Psalms to praise God. Even if you don’t know them well, just open up your Bible to that book. It won’t take you long to find a praise or petition passage. You may find this spiritual discipline so helpful that you will start to use it on a regular basis! 

You can also use other passages of Scripture in this way. Choose a passage of scripture and insert your own name (or a pronoun) or the name of a family member or friend into the passage in the appropriate places. You can simply do this as you read or write it into your personal notebook or journal.

“For this reason we also, from the day we heard about you, have not ceased praying for you and asking God to fill you with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so that you may live worthily of the Lord and please him in all respects – bearing fruit in every good deed, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might for the display of all patience and steadfastness, joyfully giving thanks to the Father who has qualified you to share in the saints’ inheritance in the light. He delivered us from the power of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of the Son he loves.” —Colossians 1:9–13

Here is an adaptation of this passage using a friend named Mary:

“For this reason, since the day I heard about Mary, I have not stopped praying for her. I continually ask You, God, to fill Mary with the knowledge of Your will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so the she may live a life worthy of You and please You in every way: bearing fruit in every good work growing the knowledge of You, being strengthened with all power according to Your glorious might so that she may have great endurance and patience, giving joyful thanks to You who has qualified her to share in the inheritance of Your holy people in the kingdom of light. For You, God, have rescued both of us from the dominion of darkness and brought us all into the kingdom of Your Son!”

Here is a prayer using the keywords and phrases from the same Colossians passage:

“Lord, fill my friend Mary with the knowledge of Your will.
Give her wisdom and understanding that comes from the Holy Spirit.
Lord, help her live a life worthy of You.
Give her a desire to please You in every way.
May her life bear fruit in all that she does.
Give her the strength and power that only comes from You.
May she experience the incredible endurance and patience that only comes from You.
Help to give joyful thanks to for all things in her life.
Remind her daily that she is part of the kingdom of light.

Praying the Scriptures directly not only will give you the words you need, but it will also encourage and bless you as well! Here are some other verses that you can use in the same way:

“And I pray this, that your love may abound even more and more in knowledge and every kind of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.” —Philippians 1:9–11

“Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you believe in him, so that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” —Romans 15:13

“I do not cease to give thanks for you when I remember you in my prayers. I pray that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, will give you spiritual wisdom and revelation in your growing knowledge of him—since the eyes of your heart have been enlightened—so that you can know what is the hope of his calling, what is the wealth of his glorious inheritance in the saints.” —Ephesians 1:16–18

Q. Have you ever used the words of the Bible in your prayers? How might this benefit you as you talk to God?

The Lord’s Prayer

The Lord’s Prayer is one of the best-loved and most spoken prayers on the planet. It is used in church services, schools, in small groups, and in many individual private times with God. The traditional Lord’s Prayer is based on the King James versions of the Bible of the 1600s. All the versions base the text on Matthew 6:9–11:

“Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen.”

Q. Where have you heard The Lord’s Prayer?

Q. When has The Lord's Prayer been most meaningful to you?

The Prayer of Jabez

1 Chronicles 4:10 is a remarkable example of a prayer that God answered!

“Jabez called out to the God of Israel, ‘If only you would greatly bless me and expand my territory! May your hand be with me! Keep me from harm so I might not endure pain!’ God answered his prayer.”

Q. What were the five requests of Jabez?

Pastor Bruce Wilkenson wrote a book on this passage that sold millions of copies! It is a prayer you can pray for yourself, asking God to enlarge your “territory”—whatever they may be!

Q. Is there anything about this Prayer of Jabez that seems frightening to you?

Q. Why do you think Bruce Wilkenson’s book was so appealing to so many people?

Q. As you think about God answering your prayer for blessing, how do you feel? Do you think He will really answer you? Why or why not?

The Benediction

In Numbers 6 the Lord instructed Moses to have Aaron and his sons bless the children of Israel with this special prayer. This blessing is also known as “The Benediction.” This prayer is often said at the close of a church service to pronounce a blessing upon the congregation, or in a wedding ceremony to bless the bride and groom. You can use it to bless anyone in your life!

“The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace.”

Q. Have you heard this benediction before? Where?

Q. What words in this benediction encourage you?

Prayer for Peace 

(by St. Francis of Assisi [1181-1226])

There are many prayers that have been written and passed down. The Prayer for Peace was first used primarily in catholic traditions but has become widely known. It is a great example of a prayer that you can use word for word as you talk to God.

Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,
grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood, as to understand;
to be loved, as to love;
for it is in giving that we receive,
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.  Amen.

Application

You will be blessed in special ways by using scripture and the words of prayers written and shared by others to communicate with God. Use your own words and enhance your conversation with God with the words of others!

Choose one of the prayers/scripture passages included in this lesson and pray it for the next week.